Brazen & Bold  

volcanoinu23 54M
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6/3/2006 10:34 pm

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6/7/2006 6:12 am

Brazen & Bold

My older brother, now 54 once told me as I was finishing up high school that the direct approach worked well. You must know that my brother was very successful with women . He always seemed to have a beauty on his arm and seldom seemed to be in difficult transitions between his women. I am also sure that there were few years between now and 1974 that he didn't reel in at least 100K.

Somewhere in my 18th year, he told me that the direct approach with women worked. "If you want to fuck them, tell them so" he would say.

He indicated that he routinely went to bars, told a woman that he want to fuck them and more often than not, had them in his arms that evening.

His advice generally fell on deaf ears. Telling a woman directly that I wanted to fuck them was not exactly my style. I am not that brazen and frankly until recent years I was way too much of a gentleman to tell a woman such a thing.

Once, in a particularly brazen mood at about age 20, I told a woman that I wanted to fuck her. The look on her face was of shock and surprise. She didn't slap me and she didn't tell me to go anyplace particularly hot either. We actually had a serious make-out session that evening. With that particular strategy, I am one for one, batting one thousand! I quit!

Ladies, have you ever been in such a mood where you have actually accepted such a proposal? What would you tell a guy that came to you with such a bold question?

themisskrissy 57F
2302 posts
6/3/2006 11:50 pm

try me!!

Virtue Alone Ennobles

volcanoinu23 replies on 6/4/2006 6:11 am:
One of these day you will be surprised with my mobility!

themisskrissy 57F
2302 posts
6/4/2006 3:36 pm

"One of these day you will be surprised with my mobility!"
is that a promise?

Virtue Alone Ennobles

demonicsexkitten 42F
10688 posts
6/5/2006 7:37 am


well... once, in HS, a friend (whom i had a major crush on) walked up to me at the lunch table, leaned down... and whispered in my ear "i know something you and i could do in my waterbed which you'd enjoy very very much". I was frozen a moment in shock and wild hormones... (I DID have a crush on him and dreamt of kissing him for months, remember)... but then laughed sarcastically, said "what on *Earth* could *You* EVER do to me that i could *Possibly* enjoy?" and laughed a bit more. It was 1000 times more effective than a slap. He refused to talk to me for 2 weeks after that.

My words weren't thought out or planned... just jumped out.

Umm... and as for general men? i'd be highly offended. Not sure what my reaction would be. Scorn? Ignore? Scoff? I could imagine myself giving a whithering glance of distate before turning and walking away. Or saying "Sorry, i like men with brains." before walking away (my usual response to such emails here).

themisskrissy 57F
2302 posts
6/6/2006 12:40 am

i don't recall if i have shared this anecdote with you..
i met a hunk one afternoon for coffee and he was an absolute drop dead gorgeous man that has built like a god!!
i used a line from a song on him when he arrived to pick me up that evening..
"why don't we just skip the formalities and get down to what we're here for" -the refreshments
and that is just what we did..

Virtue Alone Ennobles

volcanoinu23 replies on 6/7/2006 6:14 am:
That sounds exciting. It is so nice to have a woman wrapped up in you that she is the aggressor! That makes things very hot!

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