Women who complain about seeing cock pics  

vengeur 42M  
565 posts
2/25/2005 2:06 am

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

Women who complain about seeing cock pics

Is it just me, or are there a lot of women on this site who complain about seeing cock pics? I don't know what kind of site that they think they are on when they write that. Perhaps they did not notice the caption below the banner logo which reads, "The World's Largest Sex & Swinger Personals site" before they created their profiles, either.

I was in the swinger scene back in the 90’s, long before this site even became as popular as it is today. Personal ads were placed in what were called "swinger contact magazines" back then, and they still are today. These magazines tend to be sold only in adult book stores, because of their graphic sexual content, of course.

Anyway, I did not see any women complain about getting cock pics in these magazine ads like I do now on this site. This is how I know that this site has a lot of people on it now who are not real swingers or even on the same page as real swingers. Women and couples who were in the contact magazines always required seeing pics of a guy's body, face, and cock as a way of making sure that they wanted to really meet him. They would've surely risked wasting their time if they had had no such requirements.

AdultFriendFinder is supposed to be for swingers, and real swingers don't whine about seeing pics of other people's genitalia or judge people who wish to express themselves in such a fashion.


vengeur 42M  
837 posts
2/25/2005 10:59 pm

FrustratedBBW03, thanks for backing me on this one.


SigEp4U 44M

2/26/2005 1:01 pm

Just put my pictures on today... I am one of the ones that have said that I have a high profile job.

Everyday I see/am amoung about 800 employees where I work... while I don't know a quarter of them... They would all know me.

On top of that I am involved in several civil programs that put me out and about in the community... I would say that, that qualifies.

By the way how long does it take for pics to be approved?

SigEp4U


SigEp4U 44M

2/26/2005 1:03 pm

Ooops... the post above is suppose to go with your other post, "profiles with out pictures"

Sorry about that...

SigEp4U


vengeur 42M  
837 posts
2/27/2005 4:10 pm

SigEp4U, it's okay...I make such mistakes too sometimes. Anyway, I agree with your reasons that you mentioned so that you can claim that your job is high profile. I am glad to hear that you are not using this an excuse to not post any pics too. Picture approval for this site usually takes a day or two, but I believe paid members have their submittals expedited faster than standard members though.


2muchwoman4some 43F

3/5/2005 5:30 pm

Hi Vengeur...What's going on? Here's my 2 cents on this issue. There are cock pics and then there are cock pics. Like most women, I'd still prefer a face pic, but I know that you, and others, have those on your profile too. The one you have posted above is pretty benign because it shows your torso and your arms all relative to your cock. The pics that I find really useless and a big turn off are the ones that just show a penis. Just a penis; no context, no personality, no balls. That shows no creativity and makes me immediately skeptical. I also have a pet peeve about the cock-resting-on-the-computer-keyboard-shot. What's that all about?!


vengeur 42M  
837 posts
3/7/2005 9:46 pm

2muchwoman4some, thanks for your comments. My keyboard shot was just something I felt like trying one day. I haven't done it since that one time.


paulplus1 69M/67F

5/31/2005 9:22 pm

Have to admit after all the guys we have met over the years who have said their cock size is such and such and it turns out to be half the size we now ask for proof of size and as they say a photo is worth a thousand words. Keep showing your cock


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