The significance of when a woman pays the dinner date tab  

vengeur 42M  
565 posts
3/1/2006 5:52 pm

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The significance of when a woman pays the dinner date tab

When a woman insists on paying the tab on a first date with a man at an expensive restaurant, her motive for this is usually because:
She wants to break old-fashioned tradition.
She is just feeling generous.
She wants to demonstrate that she can flaunt her wealth like any man can do.
She wants to clear her guilty conscience, because she does not intend to have sex with the man later or even see him again.


whymustuknow 52F

3/6/2006 11:31 pm

Vengeur my dear... None of the above answers would apply to me. The only way I would pay the entire dinner tab is if I left him pay it previously. When I meet someone, I insist on paying my own way, whether it is for dinner, drinks, or a hotel. I insist on paying my way because I don't agree that it is always the man's responsibility to pay for everything. Women want equal rights and equal pay, so we should have equal responsibility!! Besides, if I were to meet someone here at AdultFriendFinder, I'd feel a little whorey if I let the man pay for everything! For me, it has nothing to do with flaunting anything (I have nothing to flaunt!). I have done it just out of generosity, but that was in relationships and with friends. Guilt?? hell no!! Just my opinion, I could be wrong!!


rm_goddess1946 107F
13518 posts
3/9/2006 3:03 pm

Her company might really be the one paying for it?

Don't know! Am wondering, however, if you ever renamed that
beautiful one who you carry with you every where you go?

Just a little food for thought.............
If you really want to be happy, nobody can stop you...
{=}


vengeur 42M  
837 posts
3/9/2006 4:30 pm

whymustuknow:

It's irrelevant if none of the answers would apply to you. It's just a polling question based on a hypothetical situation.

goddess1946:

No, I never renamed the beautiful one I carry with me everywhere I go. Do you have any suggestions? Does anybody have one?


rm_goddess1946 107F
13518 posts
3/10/2006 9:19 am

MMMMMMMMMMMMMM...now i'm back to
back to thinkin' about names this weekend...
mercy..

Just a little food for thought.............
If you really want to be happy, nobody can stop you...
{=}


rm_autumngirl61 56F
741 posts
3/11/2006 9:36 am

vengeur, I agree w/ whywust, but it depends on the couple how they would feel. I couldn't have said better otherwise, lol.


vengeur 42M  
837 posts
3/11/2006 11:43 am

    Quoting rm_autumngirl61:
    vengeur, I agree w/ whywust, but it depends on the couple how they would feel. I couldn't have said better otherwise, lol.
Sorry, but I'm not really sure what you mean. My poll question is based upon what women sometimes do and the possible reasons why.


rm_goddess1946 107F
13518 posts
3/18/2006 7:19 pm

I do have a suggestion after reading a little and viewing a little... will email you through the system.............. {=}

Just a little food for thought.............
If you really want to be happy, nobody can stop you...
{=}


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