The Feeling of Being Used for Sex  

vengeur 42M  
565 posts
4/17/2006 1:20 am

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11/25/2006 5:14 pm

The Feeling of Being Used for Sex

Whenever you get the feeling that you have been used by somebody just for sex, how do you usually feel about this?
As a man, it usually does not really bother me much at all, especially if the sex was really good for me.
As a man, it usually does bother me a little bit later on.
As a man, I usually feel heartbroken over it. I may even get close to tears.
As a woman, it usually does not really bother me much at all, especially if the sex was really good for me.
As a woman, it usually does bother me a little bit later on.
As a woman, I usually feel heartbroken over it. I may even get close to tears.


vengeur 42M  
837 posts
4/17/2006 11:30 pm

sexyfitwoman,

Don't worry...I'm not a 15 minute man. It will always be my aim to pleasure you for many hours on end if we were to ever meet someday! >>!


bigjbosomed 35F

4/22/2006 12:26 am

I agree with sexyfitwoman. A purely sexual encounter can be very enjoyable, IF both people get their pleasure. I had a guy coming over once or twice a week, he'd just stop in unexpectedly, and want to have sex. Well, it would have been okay, but we did and then he'd leave right after. He always got what he wanted, but never did anything to make sure I was being pleased. It really started to piss me off, so I had to tell him we couldn't do that anymore...which sucked cause it was good sex, well, up until he finished.


bigjbosomed 35F

4/24/2006 5:13 am

Its funny to me, how it says 80 people have viewed this, but only 5 people have voted. That doesn't make sense to me, why view and not vote? It takes all of 2 seconds, lol.


vengeur 42M  
837 posts
4/24/2006 8:35 am

They all might have been just too lazy to read my poll all the way through in order to vote accordingly. LOL


igetlumpwhenfart 49M

4/25/2006 7:19 am

yeah the reason why people dont vote is coz we want sex not an opinion on sex


vengeur 42M  
837 posts
4/25/2006 1:19 pm

    Quoting igetlumpwhenfart:
    yeah the reason why people dont vote is coz we want sex not an opinion on sex
Somehow, methinks that you will perpetually be among the ranks of those "want sex" people.


bigjbosomed 35F

4/26/2006 11:04 am

I agree with you vengeur...igetlump, participation is key. I'm, personally, more likely to respond to someone I know has been active in the groups they are members of and who have responded to blogs. It tells me that maybe that person is more serious about being on this site and isn't just looking for a few pictures to "enjoy."


cuteNEway 42F

5/14/2006 4:59 pm

OH honey this has happened to me more often than I would like to admit! So my screening process is thorough! Which means I have less sex. But the quality of men is better. No longer do I meet men that just need a hole ya know??


MissAnnThrope 57F
11488 posts
5/18/2006 12:29 am

There's a major difference between being used and just hooking up. There are sickos on here who will do the major chasing, leading you on and all of that until they get you into bed. Then they disappear, or give you lines like, "it was a mistake." These people need serious psychological help.

However, a hook up is different. You know the score. No leading each other on, it's purely a let's fuck situation. Then you really can't call it being used. Unless of course, you're one of the nutjobs who thinks if someone sleeps with you, it means they're in love with you that quickly.


DIVISION77 40M
8337 posts
5/18/2006 1:45 am

I don't do "hookups", NSA or FWB........so that does not happen.

DIV

"My every move is a calculated step, to bring me closer to embrace an early death." -Tupac Shakur


earthShiva 60M

5/30/2006 5:55 pm

Being used by another person honestly is an honor. Being used dishonestly is a disgrace, if you allow it to be. I prefer never to see myself as a victim, so the disgrace is all theirs.


Fantasy_MT1 71F

6/1/2006 2:08 pm

In my mind, I am looking for a steady sexual relationship, but if the sex is really good, that is what really matters.

So long as it it is longlasting, hot and sweaty, hard hitting really good sex!! I love Long and Very thick.

There is NO LOVE on this site, this is for the enjoyment of giving and receiving quality sex to and from all that are involved.


iwantaman4me0 40F

10/29/2006 3:42 pm

im more pissed of then anything, that they lied 2 get me into bed, i ask for a nice monster dick on here i let them off a few inchs sex was crap then there gone, thats why im pissed of if ya gonna use someone least make the sex something i will remember and would help if you had a 9"..........

love it


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