vee24u 57F
59 posts
4/14/2006 11:59 am

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5/3/2006 11:24 pm


thanks to many who either commented or emailed me helpful ideas. my ideal meet, would be in the evening for drinks, then? however due to family life, mostly confined to daytime interludes. i agree it is helpful to converse via email for a while first. try to get a handle of who u r meeting. pics are helpful, but can also be deceiving. would also be helpful if the meet is in an atmosphere condusive to sex. music, candle etc. a chat about preferences first might help cut out some awkwardness, eg no needing to ask do u like that? straight sex also probably easier for first meet. fancy stuff maybe later. also if u like the person & it wasn't so hot the first time, try once more, think that first meet is awkward. next go around would probably be better. actually, would probably be better if the first meet wasn't sexual, but since it's so hard for me to get out, or even get on line, i prefer not to waste an opportunity. like i said, many helpful suggestions. maybe i'll start a group about sex meets. think that would be a great place to share experiences, good & bad. also a way to get more ideas. what do u think? as i've also said, most people are nice, just a lot of us are horney too.

SweetLoadInKC 47M

4/14/2006 3:25 pm

I agree about the family life - daytime is the only time available and unless my partner is local and willing to meet at her place, it's either a car or a hotel.... not exactly romantic.

vee, if you want to use me as a guinea pig, I'm more that willing to work with you. I'm pretty good about not making it feel mechanical.... unless you want to bring some toys.

Str8Shooter31 50M
48 posts
4/17/2006 2:22 pm

Hi Vee ...I stumbled on your blog and couldn't help but comment. Your searching for intimacy; not so much the sexual act in and of itself and I am much the same way. So, your question "to cheat or not.." can be realized in several ways. 1) you could have sex and not get the intimacy 2) you could have intimacy wihtout the sex or 3) you could have both but you'll have to contact me so I can tell you how!! Have a great day! Brian

GamedRacerMulch 58M
1 post
4/30/2006 2:26 pm

I am surprised by the lack of creativity in the responses. You have alternatives Vee, just don't settle for less. For your consideration, why not meet a man like me at a certain museum in KC. You will be surprised what can happen, and don't have to settle for less. And you shouldn't, settle for lack of creativity for needs and wants,

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