fantasy vs reality  

vee24u 57F
59 posts
12/29/2005 10:46 pm

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5/3/2006 11:28 pm

fantasy vs reality


hot chatting, i think, builds a fantasy, that i'm not sure reality can hold up to. the expectations become so idealized, that it makes an actual meeting frightening. i'm so afraid that a potential partner will be disappointed, that now i'm even more scared to really meet. also, how do i know the person i've been chatting with is for real. what if they're some kind of psycho nut. what if they've lied about no std's. i think both people think they know the other after chatting, emailing, pic's exchange, maybe even actual conversation, or web camming, but do they? so u meet in a safe place, what's to keep them from following u. fantasy is fun, i'm not so sure about reality.

rm_fitswellkc 46M

12/30/2005 11:51 pm

I know what your talking about on this to. The last thing I want to do is bring something home to my wife that I shouldn't have. Safe sex is a must.Sounds like you and I are close to the same. Would love to hear about some of your fantasy's to see if they too are alike.


rm_HAWKS1952 65M

1/4/2006 1:47 pm

Always practice safe sex.All it takes is meeting for lunch and then you can both decide weather you want to take the next step.


rm_Ylapper 64M
1 post
1/5/2006 11:47 am

I'm new to this. I've never stepped out on my wife before, but if and when I do, it does bother me that I may "catch" something or meet someone who turns the meeting into "Play Misty For Me"


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