The right place to be?  

rm_vanilla_not 58M
8 posts
1/26/2006 11:07 pm

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The right place to be?

Ok folks, one and all, quick question, well actually two.

First off, is this the kind of place for those like me? The one's that are looking for added spice when it comes to (thank you Marvin Gaye) sexual healing. I have a pro on Alt, but it seems that most there aren't "real", surreal perhaps, or their there for a money making venture, a girls gotta eat, ya know.

Second, there seems to be an over abundance of "discreet" liasions being looked for here. (in a vast quanity of different spellings too) Is no one looking for the house with a white pickett fence any more? A partner for life/best friend/steamy sexual partner?


BadAssBlonde1 58F
4989 posts
1/27/2006 7:17 pm

I would say that you need to be very careful. This is a good place to stay, however choose wisely with those that you meet. Sadly, there are very few that are keepers. As far as the "discreet" liasions; many are here looking for a quick lay or roll in the hay; so to speak. There are so many unhappy people in relationships that instead of attempting to work on them, or dissolve them; many run from them. Dishonesty goes against every bone in my body. I hope this helps. There are those that are searching for the "whole package" - It just takes time to weed through them.

After all the sex is gone, there is the mind - Lady Hunter / BAB

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rm_corezon 54F
3376 posts
1/27/2006 11:21 pm

I can't really speak for the women, I guess, only for myself and my profile does that. There are definitely alot of people looking for discreet relationships. Some are unhappily marrieds hoping to find something better, maybe. I've had emails from alot of guys that seem to be pretty ok...I actually haven't met anyone in person...not because none of them seem ok but I really haven't had the time...and I'm slow to jump back into the dating scene again, I guess.

Of course apparently the guys outnumber the girls 10 to 1 so I might have more to choose from. Keep blogging though, it's kind of fun...good feedback...passes the time...thanks for coming to visit my blog, btw.


rm_vanilla_not 58M
6 posts
1/28/2006 1:59 am

Ms. BAB1, Thanks for the input. I'll hang for a while and see what goes on, weed wacked at the ready...LOL

Ms. Corezon, Thank you too. I've spoken with a few ladies and I know about the "ratio" problem here. I don't see how you ladies do it to start with.


Tarheelnative2 65F

1/29/2006 8:21 am

Good morning,
There are lots of "real" people here, I have found. Because I do not want to engage in "discrete" relationships, I said so on my profile. It does not seem to matter, however, since I continue to receive messages from married men and women looking for something. Maybe they don't read past my interests, or read the profile at all. I have met a few people here, and have had overall positive experiences. I encourage you to search and browse, and contact women you find interesting. I found your profile intriguing and wanted to contact you based on your profile, even before I found your blog. Best of luck in your search; I recommend this as a place to find like-minded adults.


rm_vanilla_not 58M
6 posts
1/29/2006 11:16 am

Ms. Tarheel, Thank you also for your input. I guess I know somewhat of your situation also. I am straight, but I seem to draw bi guys hoping, I guess. I've seen nothing in my profile that would link me to bi or homosexuality, not that there's anything wrong with it...... Perhaps it's perceived that if one craves kink or anything sexual outside the norm, they might be a "full blown freak", not that there's anything wrong with that either..... Mercy, what's a guy to do ????


rm_amerotica 49F

2/7/2006 11:25 pm

i wanted u -pooh-when can i have u-remember my email baby-


cautiousnc 56F

2/19/2006 8:31 pm

Of course some of us are looking for the white pickett fence so to speak ... just not here! After all, as you so eloquently put it, anyone here could just be a 15 yr. old having fun on mommy and daddy's computer. So here, we look for fun. Elsewhere we look for genuine connections and something more lasting. Just MHO.


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