What Happened to Honesty Being the Best Policy?  

uhate2luvmee 36F
54 posts
7/2/2005 10:18 am

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What Happened to Honesty Being the Best Policy?

I don't know if MOST men are like this or not - but it seems that they can't just be honest with me... and i'm not sure why because I'm extrememly open minded and I don't judge people at all. I make that apparent from day one... I am incredibly easy too get along with and if you have any respect for me whatsoever, I'd think you'd refrain from running game on my ass and just tell me the truth - in any situation. In my opinion, a person only lies when there's something to lose, or something to gain... if we've just met or are in the process of getting to know one another - why ruin any chance of having ANY type of relationship by lying from the start? I just don't understand people sometimes, that's all.

rm_nefastus13 46M
1 post
7/2/2005 10:46 am

I have the same feelings about women just at the moment. On this and another dating site I have met 5 women, one a lunatic, 3 commitment phobes and one which was a plain no - the later is the one who I have the most respect for at least she was honest. The 3 commitmentphobes on the other hand...why advertise you want a relationship ???? arrgghhh... I guess some people really are S H 1 *.
Good luck out there its a jungle - G in the UK.
PS: Nice ass !

HandyMan4Orgasms 57
80 posts
7/2/2005 12:04 pm

Nice venting! Must be an age thing, I think the "older" guys are more honest (yes that would be my group). Seems a lot of young guys want to be the "player", at least the ones I know personally (friends sons, friends of theirs, etc). One day they'll figure out you get more out of life by being yourself, plus you don't have to remember which lie you told to what person. (how many times have we heard that one!? )
Now baby, wanna come with me on my customized learjet to my private island where we can play nude and run naked til the sunsets over my mansion overlooking....brrrrrrring...damn alarm clock, time to wake up!

taodoug65 52M
262 posts
7/2/2005 12:42 pm

uhate2luvmee - I know you have heard this hundreds of times from your friends. But meeting that one person who is going to make all your past seem a bad dream in relations. Is a numbers game. Just like getting a good paying job. The more you talk to the better chance the right one that will be honest will show up. He is there. You might know him already. He might even be a severe geeky looking guy. Never know. Remember -- take your time, don't rush,, And when it feels like dating and relations are a major beating.. GO SLAP THE NEIGHBORS CAT. IT IS REALLY FUNNY.. JK --- give me a buzz or email.. You can air out some steam if you like.


rm_venture12002 64M
67 posts
7/2/2005 1:28 pm

Goes for woman also.The first thing I tell someone new is "I've learned you can never tell what you would in someones place until you're there, so I don't judge, Except one thing.I won't waist my time with people I can't trust".They all say "me either" and start lying.I pay attention to what people say so when they change their story I catch it.It's a shame.I guess we all want to put forth our best front, but a lie ain't it.(and yes for the spellcheckers on here I said ain't on purpose)HA.We just have to wait for one of the few and not let the others bother us.Hang in Sugar.

uhate2luvmee 36F

7/2/2005 9:10 pm

Handyman - I tried dating someone older this time... against my usual pattern... and this time the lie was that he was friggin married! That's what I get for dating an guy who's old enough to have a whole lifetime of lies to tell...
As for the rest of you, thankyou for your input - I really do appreciate it very much. I do realize that women are just as guilty as men when it comes to being honest, trust me on that (funny wording - I guess). Women can be much worse than men - cuz usually men are just trying to get laid. Women are trying to clean out a man, in some cases. lol. They can get devious... sorry, on behalf of my gender.. lol

ByteChaser2 54M

7/6/2005 2:55 pm

There's still a few of us out there baby. Hell, you found me right? or did I find you... yeah, that's it!

Course, with you, I haven't much to loose, and everything to gain. So I guess I'll be straight with ya.


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