How Many is Enough? (Fuck Buddies)  

uglypoet 52M
332 posts
9/5/2006 7:22 pm

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How Many is Enough? (Fuck Buddies)

Recent discussions in blogs n chatrooms, and finally in some coffee gathering me and some friends came to the point of - How many fuckbuddies is enough?

Should there be a capped on the number of FBs and if there is then how many???

alisa_d 38F

9/5/2006 9:07 pm

Why should there be capped number? Is there a law that requires for us to do so? Just enough for you to be comfortable I guess... And there should always be honesty there so that they understand that they're the 11th? 12th?

rm_Jannicee 41F
229 posts
9/5/2006 11:37 pm

I agree with alisa.
I currently have 3. But would love to have more.

rm_janeraped 42F
3772 posts
9/6/2006 12:00 am

Totally agree with Alisa, as well.

uglypoet 52M
148 posts
9/6/2006 1:54 am

dear all...I agree with u guys too, I dun think there shud be any, but realistically how many active FBs can one manage?

rm_janeraped 42F
3772 posts
9/6/2006 8:41 am

It should not be a matter of quantity, but quality. No point having a huge amount if they are all irritating, or weirdos.

But even so-called "quality" is a very personal thing. What may be regarded as a 'good catch' by one person, may not turn on another. For example, some people seem to think that if they have an orchard rd apartment, and look close enough to Brad Pitt, they've got pulling power. Eh, but if brad pitt lookalike can't last for long, or is an arsehole, who's a himbo, or a whingeing spoilt brat, then to me, he ain't going to be no fuck buddy, let alone bf.

Whereas someone else who don't have conventional good looks, but is articulate, and somehow there is sexual chemistry, and most of all, is NOT an inarticulate idiot with bad grammar, well, will win out over mr orchard rd apartment anytime.

Most of all, I think its a matter of quality, not quantity.

uglypoet 52M
148 posts
9/6/2006 7:53 pm

janeraped...well said and Im very sure most of us would echo your sentiments. Well just so you know, I don't have an apt in orchard road and I don't look like Brad

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