Seeking advice For A Friend  

twoblondes 37M/49F
17 posts
10/20/2005 12:50 pm

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Seeking advice For A Friend


My husband and I have mutual friends that are a couple. They have a 8 year age difference, her being older. My husband and I have a 11 year age difference, but I do not see a problem with age. I feel that it's just a number. Do you think it makes a difference? They have been together for 3 years and she is wanting more time together, not just sex but time doing things together and talking. Things that couples normally do together.He has been getting numbers from women and taking off and not coming home until the next day and telling her he stayed at a friends or slept in the car or any other excuse he can think of. When she gives him space he gets mad at that too. I feel bad for her because I see how much this is hurting her and I am not sure what advice to give her. She is loyal to him only and it seems that he might not be the same with her. What advice would you give to her? How can she make this work for both of them?

twoblondes 37M/49F
2 posts
10/20/2005 1:57 pm

Thank you for the advice goodtimes. I thought the same thing but being her friend, I did not want to say something to her out of my friendship and make her mad. She needs all the friends and support she can get. She is a wonderful person and deserves better.


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