So another disagreement...  

true_red1000 46F
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9/3/2006 7:10 pm

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9/12/2006 7:27 pm

So another disagreement...

Yes we talked about money again. IT seems to be coming up a lot latley and with christmas coming I am afraid he's going to have a heart attack.

I mean hear me out- we both have full time jobs and we don't have any gambling or drinking or even shopping issue's. I jsut don't get how a family of 4 can live so close the the edge every month.

We are doing everything that everyone else is doing. We both work we have 2 cars ( used) we live in a small house- very little extra's ( I think) I mean we have cut everything we didn't need to live by except for our satalite tv- no fancy channels just enough to have a tv to watch and we kept teh YMCa for our health and so the kids can do things, like swimming lessons and other classes.

So I guess I am going to have to finally break down and get a secound job. which wil really cute into my secret life time, but I just can't take this month after month any more.

Ha- HA maybe I should turn my secret life into my part time job- that way everyone wins... LOL I am just kidding!!! I would never do that. The main thing I am looking for in ,my secret life is the emotion and teh feelings and if I was getting paid that would go right out the window... Beside I am not good enough at it to get paid anyway

Have agood night- enjoy the day off tomorrow

blastngoff 54M

9/3/2006 9:10 pm

Wow, wish that I could say something that would make it better for you. All I can offer is that you aren't alone, that there are many that are making it from paycheck to paycheck and just treading water. I have found that the more I make the more I spend. I am much more comfortable now than when I was younger and have more toys, but just about as broke near payday as I was then. Sorry to hear about taking on more work, no one should want to look forward to that. Don't have much to offer besides the fact that you are not alone in the boat, there are times that I think I could use a life preserver.

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