Things that make you go hmmmmm....  

truckerwidow 47F
43 posts
9/23/2005 5:13 am

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Things that make you go hmmmmm....

Imagine my surprise when I was perusing another adult dating site when I came across a profile that seemed oddly was my husband's! So naturally I read through it, being curious as to what HE is looking for. No strings attached sex. A little fun on the side. Someone discreet. I just kind of sat there in open mouthed astonishment. Did it hurt my feelings? Not really, I have known for some time that our sex life is barren, and totally devoid of passion. We are more like business partners, and that is not going to change. We are both comfortable with the arrangement and I guess both of us just need some excitement. So I'm wondering where we go from here. I know he has had affairs before and I am okay with that. I have not, but I plan on it, because I just happen to love sex, and it is not going to happen here at home. We used to be best friends, and I still like him a lot as a person. He makes me laugh...when we have time to actually have a conversation. Just zero passion. I wonder if this happens to everyone after a period of time. He knows that I am not happy with the sexual side of our marriage, but is not willing to do anything to change it. I assume that this happens a lot from all the married people I have seen on here. So my question is...why can't people just accept that this happens? I guess I would be upset if it became an emotional attachment with him and another woman...then it would be infringing on my territory. His body is a different story. She can have that. I want to have a mental connection with someone before I have sex with them...that doesn't mean I want to fall in love...I've done that already. I just want to be able to carry on a conversation that is stimulating...and then get other parts of my body stimulated. It all starts in the brain...that has to be turned on first. I just hope that he finds what he is looking for, and I find the same...then we could both come home with smiles on our faces....

rm_megaman1957 60M
7 posts
10/4/2005 5:37 pm

you have the knowledge of knowing that the brain is the largest sex organ. your marriage is so close to my situation that I could have copied yours(of course would have to change the genders).

theride1963 55M

10/22/2005 7:37 pm

my my people do live the same lives same situations same feelings if you need a shoulder

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