The first entry!!!  

truckeegirl 34F
6 posts
7/24/2005 10:47 am

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

The first entry!!!

So I have been signed onto Xmatch now since April, and haven't had much luck! I decided to go ahead and do all of the things I have said I wouldn't do to attract another attractive woman. So far, I have uploaded one photo of myself (so people can at least see I am not lying about the physical stuff), done the personality exam, and whatever else. I must admit that I am being a little picky because this is a purely physical thing, but I am also in a relationship with another man, so I am just looking for a female. The most hits I get are men and women (couples) and I am just not into that right now. I really just want to suck on another woman's nipples, and put my fingers inside of her warm, moist... oh I better stop because I am making myself all moist and warm!!! I just need some advice to make this happen! I don't want my boyfriend to find out because he is a little weirded out when it comes to stuff like this. So I also have a hard time getting naked photos of myself because I don't have anyone to take them! I should probaby talk about how I got interested in other women...
When I was about 18, I accidentally caught my boyfriend looking at porn on the internet. He of course was very embarrassed, and I yelled and he left. I was so frustrated and decided to snoop and see what kind of stuff he was looking at after he took off. I found myself being very aroused, and every since then I have been searching for a woman who I find attractive, and of course that it is mutual, who would be interested in teaching me!!!


Hope to hear from anyone soon!!!


curoisity101 39M/33F
1 post
7/24/2005 12:12 pm

Hey Truckeegirl, I can understand your frustrations. I myself is trying to find someone like you described. I have talked to a few friends and they tell me not to worry what she looks like. but myself I can't see myself with another gilr that is unattractive. I on the other hand seem not to have mastered the concept of attracting another woman either. I would not know how to approach someone about that topic I guess it would have to just come up in a conversation about sex and generally hint that you are interested in trying it with another girl and see what their reaction would be.


tamethytension 55M
2320 posts
7/24/2005 2:13 pm

Be yourself ... this post is a good start.

And look for a person, not some ideal, and you will find her.



ImJay5 38M

7/24/2005 6:26 pm

Time is the true test of one's self. Sometimes I wish I could feel positive all the time. But if we were never unhappy or frustrated how would you know what happiness is? People out there care and feel the same as you do never forget that.

truckeegirl 34F

8/13/2005 7:48 am

Thanks for all of the great advice. It is now Saturday morning and I am getting ready to go to work. Yes, I work 6 days a week. It is expensive living in Tahoe!!! Just like everywhere else I guess. Still am kind of waiting around. Just not sure when it will happen. I guess one thing that makes me really nervous about this whole thing too is the fear of rejection. I don't want to go meet another woman and have her tell me that I am not attractive enough for her. It's almost like dating when I was 16 all over again. I am not really sure if other women find me attractive. I know I find other women attractive. OI!!! Well have to run! Thanks again for all of the comments and support! I really appreciate it!!!

rm_tnf4fun05 51M/48F

8/13/2005 7:13 pm

Truckeegirl what are you worried about? Your profile is great, your comments are honest and you are who you are 9By the way, very beautiful). Do not worry about what another women or for that case another man thinks of you. It's not what people think of you, it’s what you think of yourself.. If you doubt yourself, other will also. If your strong and know what you want, other will give in to you. Why in the world would you worry about what others think of you (as long as you’re normal) you need to be picky, find a sex partner that is cool with your wants and needs.. Have coffee, then maybe dinner. Build up to the moment, build up to the sex and it is a hell of a lot better. You need to meet and take time to evaluate. Being with a couple is great. Most men just want to watch anyway. Think about putting on a show… And if worse cums to worse, hire a stripper, they are always bi and love to teach.. My wife was with a stripper for her first time and loved it. Then we found this site and now she love the girls and men I let he sleep with. I love watching her being taken by another couple and then when she cums to me all nasty and used, yum. She is a total turn on…. Good luck and maybe we can hook up one day. My wife would love to spend some time with you in and out of the bed room as I would also. Last words; Do not settle for any less then Safe Sex with the men (we are the sluts).

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