QUESTION ? All to answer!  

TendsMuralHenry 41M
12 posts
7/16/2006 11:11 am

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7/18/2006 7:01 pm

QUESTION ? All to answer!

So what’s the secret’ to a successful experience using AdultFriendFinder?

Explain your experience, what makes you different from the rest of us?

Is this site real or just gimmick to make money?

Just curious, thanks for your participation!!


p.s guys, that are straight sorry about the dick shot. lol

FunFlirty4u 47F

7/16/2006 12:01 pm

The secret in my opinion is to choose some women who you want to contact. If you don't hear back from them keep trying different women but don't repeatedly email the same woman and once you make contact with someone who you think has potential then don't keep trying to pick up women all over the place because some women on the site do know other women in their local areas. When you first make contact try to say something intelligent and funny to break the ice and don't type in all CAPS or have a bunch of spelling mistakes. Good Luck!

TendsMuralHenry 41M

7/16/2006 2:00 pm

Then how do you communicate with everyone, without paying? Why would someone Pay to use this site then, I know of the special features...Is that not important then?

amoldenough 71F
16436 posts
7/16/2006 2:31 pm

We standard members get along just fine without the "special" features.

"Don't cry because it's over; smile because it happened."

crazygurl2xx 58F

7/18/2006 2:32 pm

My Best AdultFriendFinder Experience Jan 15, 2006 7:58 pm
Mood: hopeful, 320 Views
To illustrate my previous point, I am going to share exactly One AdultFriendFinder experience...this guy can show you how it's done. All points that I find important in advancing a meeting are in caps.

I joined AdultFriendFinder in July of last year. That week I received an e-mail from a young man, 24 at the time. It was innocuous enough, had a face pic, and I liked what his profile had to say. It was low key. It MENTIONED NOTHING ABOUT "NO-STRINGS".

I e-mailed him back and a few days later HE SENT ME ANOTHER E-MAIL privately telling me that he was going away for business for a week, GAVE ME HIS NUMBER, and ASKED ME TO DINNER on his return and for me to call him while he was gone. He said I sounded nice...

I didn't reach him the first time I called and had my number blocked so he couldn't call me back. He found a way to E-MAIL ME AGAIN and tell me when he would be back, STATED AGAIN he wanted to take me to dinner that night. I was unable to go that night, it was a Monday, but I did call him and we decided the weekend would be better and I gave him my number.

By now, it was beginning to add up... he was CUTE, NICE, had EXCELLENT FOLLOW-THROUGH ,he HAD A PLAN and was absolutely NO PRESSURE. He DEMONSTRATED TRUST and his INTEREST LEVEL WAS HIGH. Not once did he mention sex.

He CALLED that Friday. It was last minute and I had plans so we were unable to meet. Again he was NICE, and said he LOOKED FORWARD to TAKING ME OUT.
I was really beginning to be sorry that we had not yet met so, the next day I CALLED HIM.

When I called him, he said he was on his way to his friend's house in Plano and I told him, ok, well another time then, and I will talk to you soon. He CALLED RIGHT BACK and said he turned his car around in Dallas and was on his way to PICK ME UP.

I was impressed!

I started getting ready to go and when he arrived, we met, I finished dressing and we left for dinner.

When we got to the restaurant, he HELD MY HAND walking in and immediately ESTABLISHED CONTACT with me. We had a nice dinner and he was EASY TO TALK TO so I invited him over. We went to Blockbuster to get a movie and again he held my hand and ADVANCED CONTACT as we browsed through the store.

When we got back to my house, we put the movie in and were on my bed watching it. To this day I can't even tell you what it was... we were talking and kissing and one thing led to another and let me tell you... HE WAS HOT IN THE SACK RIGHT OUT OF THE GATE! He was SENSUAL, AGGRESSIVE, CONFIDENT, and HIMSELF. And for all the weeks to follow what I remembered when I thought back to our first time together was how he licked my back from my tail bone all the way to my neck as he entered me from behind.ORIGINAL.

His profile says he is shy but warms up quickly, and I found him to be one of the most MASCULINE, SOLIDLY CONFIDENT men I have ever met at any age.
He became my FRIEND as well as my LOVER.

So, when I am looking at meeting someone, I am looking for the "CAPS" and whatever else makes you special and memorable.

The most important to begin of course, is HIGH INTEREST LEVEL, A PLAN, and FOLLOW-THROUGH. That's how it starts. The rest? was gravy!

UPDATE: i am still seeing this

TendsMuralHenry 41M

7/18/2006 6:30 pm

Thanks a million!! For taking your time to fulfill my request! That was the BEST answer anyone could offer! I truly appreciate that!

Its sounds like everything went well; I wish you guys the best in you journey!


SirMounts 103M

7/26/2006 1:58 am

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