The After Sex Moment  

travelingintexas 42M
3/3/2006 9:51 am
The After Sex Moment

***[blog 1hotwahine] encouraged by [blog daphner], [blog mzhunyhole] and a bevy of jealous women sneak into Trav's house. They discover all the real men passed out from too much beer, pizza and strippers. With a little encouragement, the ladies watch silently as [blog 1hotwahine] sneaks over to Trav's laptop, boots up and begins typing!***

We certainly spend a lot of time blogging about sex…about wanting sex, finding sex and, hopefully, actually having sex. But there is one area that does not seem to get much attention ‒ and that is that very wonderful time we refer to as:


Yes, AFTER SEX. You know what I’m talking about…it’s those moments immediately following absolutely a mind blowing carnal adventure. Hot, sweaty, tired, exhausted and very, very happy. What a perfect time for the obvious:

To cuddle and to chat, of course.

Isn’t that just the best, best thing? And it’s not just chatting about anything. Oh no…the best AFTER SEX discussions are held about what? Well, about the relationship itself, silly! Oh yes, what better time is there to find out what your partner really thinks of you. Or, if you were to (God Forbid) pass on, how long would the waiting period be before finding a new mate? And at that time, would it be someone that reminds them of you? And if not, then why not? No, really. WHY NOT?!

But AFTER SEX discussions don’t have to be about the relationship itself. You can have great talks about how your day was, who you had problems with, why you think your new boss had liposuction, etc. It’s a great time to share these elements of your day with your partner.

Or better style, a great AFTER SEX topic could be something that you already share, such as home issues. If you’ve been wanting to reupholster the sofa in the den but aren’t sure which color scheme your partner would like, this might be a good time to bring it up. I mean, if the person really cares about you, you’ll have their undivided and focused attention.

And the best AFTER SEX discussions are generally accompanied by deep affection, as evidenced by the way the man holds and cuddles his woman; always facing her, and always attentively.

Ahhhhhhh, how romantic. Just thinking about it makes me want to go there.

Don’t you?

Oh and by the way, I seemed to be locked out of my blog today. There is a lot of boisterousness coming from within and the door appears to be barred from the inside. So I wandered into this blog, tidied up the beer bottles and pizza boxes, put up some nice curtains and installed a Glade air freshener. I think it’s called Tropical Days. There. Isn’t it so much cheerier in here now? Oh wait ‒ I have the new Bonnie Raitt CD! And can you pass me that Diet Dr Pepper? Thanks!

1hotwahine[blog 1hotwahine]

Sorceror07 55M

3/3/2006 10:30 am

cuddling? snuggling? hey!!!! it's MEN'S WEEKEND last i checked... only day 2...

don't cave on me now Trav!!!

...That which does not kill me merely pisses me off!...

TzarsAmuseChant 42M
2854 posts
3/3/2006 10:33 am

Trav, you talk too much. Shush, dear. hold me. just hold me.



Satyr48 69M
1809 posts
3/3/2006 10:40 am

"After-Sex" works better for non-married couples, unfortunately. I think that's one of the problems that comes up with married couples. When you're dating, there seems like there's all the time in the world to hang out and talk and cuddle, etc....
When you're married - especially after a while (and kids) - there's always something happening to pull you away... Or you're beat from the day and HAVE to sleep.
In our relationship, I've always been the cuddler, and she's always been the one on a schedule... No matter how much I try to get her to just RELAX, it's always, "Ok, I've got to get up", or something...
Even with our other lovers, I like to stay, she likes to grab her clothes and go, ASAP... It's like, "Thanks for the orgasm, I'll see youlater!"
I think making the time & effort to stay and do the warm, cuddly, gushy, "After-Sex" things is what helps keep a relationship alive - even away from the bedroom.

Pleasing women in unbelievable ways for 45 years...
You could be next...

fantasylover_05 63M

3/3/2006 10:42 am

Those 3 dreaded "after sex words"....



TTigerAtty 63M

3/3/2006 10:51 am

The AFTER SEX Moment has sometimes been that very warm and tender time when one or both parties to the aforementioned sex begin to talk for the very first time about their plans for engagement and/or matrimony. You know, it's that time when we first begin to discuss things like expensive diamond engagement rings, the wedding band itself and whether is should be the traditional yellow gold or the more modern platinum, the choice of a bridal shoppe which can design and make the perfect $5,000 wedding dress, the number of children that should be produced from the contemplated marital union, the first house together and whether it shall be a simple rustic cabin in the woods or a 10,000 sq ft mansion with a 5-car garage near the most exclusive country club in the area, etc. Aaaaaah, how I sooooo long for such AFTER SEX Moments! But, not this weekend, Trav and 1Hottie, for this weekend tis 'Guy's Weekend' ... a time for beer drinkin', fartin', cigar smokin', fishin' or huntin' with our buds, and blowjobs from tavern wenches! No time for AFTER SEX Moments this weekend!

rm_1hotwahine 64F
21091 posts
3/3/2006 11:01 am

(Looks around thinking, "My work here is done." With a smug grin, picks up suitcase and leaves for the weekend. )

Mens weekend, my ass.

Yeah, I'm still [blog 1hotwahine]

crazygurl2xx 58F

3/3/2006 11:07 am

1hot-- you tidied up? That's real sweet, girl! No wonder Trav likes you so much. You bring a touch of comfort to his existence.

warmandsexy52 66M
13164 posts
3/3/2006 11:19 am

I totally agree with you Trav. Warm, tender glowing times. Looks like I'm the only man so far who reckons so. No worries, there'll be other comments from men with hearts of gold ....... won't there?

MaggiesWishes 61F

3/3/2006 11:39 am

"Men's weekend"???

< looks at Whaine and whisper's ... "not the same as the "girl's night out, cause WE can get laid if we want to" ::chuckles:: >

slidein2meplz 63F
1994 posts
3/3/2006 11:54 am

well, thank goodness 1hot came in to survey the damage. Love the curtains and it is starting to smell a bit better.

~~~ Just me, poppin to say HI! ~~

Sorceror07 55M

3/3/2006 12:05 pm

woohoo Trav!!!! you da man! ...hey, who's making the next beer run? get some more bags of doritos and some bean dip too while you're out.

and DON'T forget my tobasco sause this time dammit!!!

...That which does not kill me merely pisses me off!...

rm_DaphneR 59F
8023 posts
3/3/2006 3:02 pm

Ah hell, they're going for bean dip. You better plug one of those Glade things into every available socket.

Have tongue, will use it. Repeatedly.

DTduzDallas 51F

3/3/2006 3:51 pm

Talk? lol...I'm going to IHOP

DTduzDallas 51F

3/3/2006 3:52 pm

Great post Sis

muffmarinevet 66M

3/3/2006 4:48 pm

1Hot Do you mean after all these's years a simple AHHHHHHH!!!!!!!!!!! wont do? ps you do have a couple of DISTITIVE POINTS!!!

AGNJoe1 48M

3/3/2006 5:29 pm

Trav, first off, sorry I haven't posted or stopped by in a while. Anyway, I wouldn't know about After Sex cuddling. That's kind of foreign to me. Of course, so is sex right now.


rm_1hotwahine 64F
21091 posts
3/3/2006 5:34 pm

Hey girls! I have some frozen yogurt over here. And a spinach salad with lowfat oriental dressing. Anyone interested? DT, can you pass me that Divine Secrets of the Ya Ya Sisterhood DVD? Thanks.

Yeah, I'm still [blog 1hotwahine]

oldman1776 80M
3164 posts
3/3/2006 6:43 pm

She has left know so through out the damn air fresheners and hand me the bean dip. Its a mans weakend Damn it.

southrnpeach333 52F

3/3/2006 7:26 pm

And I just got this great mud facial that we have to try. Anyone of you girls want to rub lotion on my back since I can't find a man to do it!!! They all seem to busy over at Trav's.

slidein2meplz 63F
1994 posts
3/3/2006 8:51 pm

Hey...1hot.. I've got a bowl full of fortune cookies over here... help yourself, ok. *smack's Trav's hand..NO..not for YOU these are for us girlz*

~~~ Just me, poppin to say HI! ~~

Fallic40 54M
1858 posts
3/3/2006 9:57 pm

Or, if thou wilt needs marry, marry a fool;
for wise men know well enough what monsters you make
of them. To a nunnery, go; and quickly too. Farewell.
Hamlet to Opehlia

A little culture for tonight since it is still Friday and my IQ does not drop for 2 more hours.

EyeCandy33333 46F
761 posts
3/3/2006 11:09 pm

Nice tattoo AGNJoe darling-emmm I do like a man with a nice tattoo!well-think Trav has personal issues-the weekend should calm that down-lol-he's such a sweetie-not!!!

rm_cockmerollme 46F
1223 posts
3/4/2006 12:06 am

I always like to talk about that nights episode of The Simpsons, and where did the condom go this time?

And then, we get up and eat.

Eating after sex is WAY better than talking after sex....


(Princess Lips)

3/4/2006 12:42 am






(Princess Lips)

3/4/2006 12:45 am

*whispers to Maggie*
And WE don't have to PAY for our DRINKS...


(Princess Lips)

3/4/2006 12:47 am

on the cookie???


(Princess Lips)

3/4/2006 12:49 am

*wants to go to IHOP with DT*

Pancakes... girls?

The cute drunk guys should be there about now...


(Princess Lips)

3/4/2006 12:53 am


the nutscrachinballbustinfartinsmokindrinkinboogerflickinasswipingdrunktillupukejerkofftopornfallasleeponcouchwithstickytissuerepeat


FunandFrisky79 43M/38F

3/4/2006 2:08 am

LMFAO! Don't act like you didn't enjoy 1hot in control, Trav!!! You know you like being the submissive one!

Princess~ After pancakes, we should all go back to my place and watch "Steel Magnolias"! lol


DTduzDallas 51F

3/4/2006 7:57 am

lol, Sis...I also have The Banger Sisters and Steel Magnolia's for back-up. Oh...what about Thelma & Louise?

Colada, please

MaggiesWishes 61F

3/4/2006 8:48 pm

*whispers* I heard drinks were "on the house", along with the DVD's, chips, dip, and ....
*looks at what walks thru the door*
Men in Spandex!!!

EyeCandy33333 46F
761 posts
3/5/2006 9:53 pm

Oh I love Steel Magnolia's and Thelma and Louise when they take care of that truck driver lol!

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