In Honor of.... AnEnigma517  

travelingintexas 42M
1/8/2006 9:27 pm
In Honor of.... AnEnigma517

From [blog 1finePianist]

It grieves me to inform you that my friend, and yours, passed away this evening moments after leaving the restaurant where we had our first date. He was struck broadside from an alleged drunk driver who was apparently going too fast and failed to stop at a stop sign when Todd was only half-way through the intersection. I was following him back to Moon Township over one of the back road short-cuts that he knew, and we were planning a night-cap at his place before I went home. Todd’s truck was hit on the driver’s side, and my only comfort is that he died on impact and was spared the suffering.

I didn’t know him as well as some of you, but I was looking forward to getting to know him so much better. I miss him terribly as though I had known him all my life; I will miss a life that might have been.

I had only met and found AnEnigma517 this week. We had conversed a couple of times in regards to a post that he did. Still, in my book, we are family here.

I am reminded how precious each moment is.

CelticKarma 45F
1350 posts
1/8/2006 9:39 pm

I had started reading him about a week ago myself, and was privileged to chat with him a while Friday night at the Friday Night Loner Club group's chat room. We would have been wonderful friends in time, I'm sure of it.

saddletrampsk 55F

1/8/2006 9:54 pm

He was a dear online friend and a wonderful man, I am going to miss him so much..

GoddessOfTheDawn 106F
11240 posts
1/8/2006 9:58 pm

no wordz....

life is precious....

Synn74 43F
1206 posts
1/8/2006 10:37 pm

** hugs to all**

I welcome you to the House of Syn...

tillerbabe 57F

1/9/2006 12:00 am

I'm mortified! OMG! He was so happy for this date! FUC!

Thanks trav.....

(Juan S)
2642 posts
1/9/2006 12:14 am

I am constantly reminded that this little community is an ACTUAL community. No matter what those outside of it may think or think they know. My prayers go out to everyone.
Stay safe and God Bless.


tillerbabe 57F

1/9/2006 12:27 am

Trav....I need your support: Just a thought

rm_goddess1946 107F
13518 posts
1/9/2006 12:56 am

also stunned...

Just a little food for thought.............
If you really want to be happy, nobody can stop you...

duststormdiva 52F
6854 posts
1/9/2006 1:28 am

My prayers for everyone affected.


curious082385 32F
4925 posts
1/9/2006 1:41 am

There just aren't words for this one. With tear filled eyes...hugs and gentle thoughts to everyone who grieves for him tonight.

_CoffeeNoCream_ 54F

1/9/2006 1:50 am


tillerbabe 57F

1/9/2006 2:34 am

Rather: [post [196913] (sorry wrong post)

tillerbabe 57F

1/9/2006 2:35 am

Shit..I'm all fuc'd over this... [post 196913]

Efilnikufecin69 48M

1/9/2006 2:55 am

RIP Brother!

barbiebunny 37F
5597 posts
1/9/2006 3:17 am

He left notes on my blog that were thoughtful and amazing. I can only imagine what he was like in person..but definately a great man. Thank u trav for relaying this info. Im stunned. Peace be with him

Its good to be...ME

rm_Bct2Esi 52M/52F
1375 posts
1/9/2006 5:12 am

so sorry for your loss, his family as well as all of you will be in my thoughts and prayers.

hugs and smiles

rm_ruby48323 73F
18 posts
1/9/2006 5:16 am

Though we are all diminished by such a tragic waste of a good person, trust that he is in a better place and will be watching over all that knew him. Condolences.

LustGoddess2469 51F  
2453 posts
1/9/2006 7:14 am

I can't believe this. It's unreal. My heart aches.


rm_1finePianist 61F

1/9/2006 9:40 am

Thank you for this. He mentioned you over dinner, and laughed about your comment to him that you thought he was gay. He told me he really liked reading your stuff, and that he didn't comment to guys blogs because he didn't want people thinking he was gay.

bardicman 51M

1/9/2006 10:40 am

*bows head*

I am not dead yet

silkysmoothlegs3 106F

1/9/2006 11:35 am


rm_drunkagain66 52F
11 posts
1/9/2006 12:32 pm

Is this for real??? On his profile it shows his last visit to AdultFriendFinder as today the 9th????

MaggiesWishes 61F

1/9/2006 4:40 pm

Your words ring with emotion and truth. Each day ... is precious.
And yes, I think our Blogland Extended Family Community has lost a valued friend among us.

My keyboard will be silent in rememberence of Todd. 01.11.06

rm_Bct2Esi 52M/52F
1375 posts
1/9/2006 7:30 pm

my keyboard will also be silent that day I am so sorry for your loss.

hugs and smiles

TopFisher 64M

1/10/2006 1:56 am

" You don't have to be alone
when the storm's
gale force surrounds you.
I'll gladly be your shelter
when the cold rain
and winds cut through.

You needn't stand defenseless
when the bitter conflict
draws near.
I'll stand there strong beside you
to shield you
in your time of fear.

And then I'll sound the trumpet
when all your battles
have been won;
and I will be your rainbow
when your storm
is finally done."

His words, not mine!

My condolences to his family, and to the ivory banger, gawd girl, what a first night last night. I'm sorry for you as well.

Once in awhile life really sucks! But then again none of us will get out of it alive now will we?

wgangeleyes 33M/33F
11 posts
1/10/2006 2:33 pm

[post 198607]

wgangeleyes 33M/33F
11 posts
1/10/2006 3:00 pm

ummm i have seen on the blogs where this entire situation is being questioned. i have my own questions and will be posting this same question on several others

1) this afternoon around 12:30 mst i went onto his blog and everything from the day of the "date" was on there. I just went and checked it to post the post above and now the only thing showing is from the 4th of January back?

2) this is begining to remind me of the gal here in Junction who lied about being in the military and her husband being killed. Made national news so I am sure that all of you heard it.

sorry for the questions, just wondering.

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