Essence of a Woman! What Your Momma Shoulda Taught You But Didn  

travelingintexas 42M
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8/25/2005 12:39 am
Essence of a Woman! What Your Momma Shoulda Taught You But Didn

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Ladies, please close your ears.

Gentleman, please join me in my study, smoke 'em if you got 'em and make yourself comfortable.

OK… Here is the deal. I have debated the merits of writing this post for a while and doubt it will do absolutely any good and wonder why I am wasting my time. I did not search to see how many of these had been done previously, choosing to believe that perhaps my thoughts will be new and fresh, regardless of what has come before. I know there are a few that talk about these merits occasionally and I know a good number of men are gentleman lovers. However, I don’t hold out hope for a large percentage of the population.

Gentleman, tonight I write about “the Knuckledragger Gene.” The one that makes you say stupid and idiotic things in the hope of somehow having the fair women of this site decide to drop their shopping lists, kids, significant others, personal and business schedules for a tryst at both the time and location of your choosing. To that I say… Get your hairy useless knuckles up off the floor, straighten your clothes, button your pants and pay attention for however long it takes you to read the rest of this post. I am now on my soapbox.

The more I read through this site and talk to new friends the more I come to believe in “The Knuckledragger Gene” and believe it must be stopped, controlled by medicine and forever wiped from our male system. Perhaps there are a few, but the majority of women on this site are looking for something different. Something new. Something beyond their world of reality that takes them into the realm of new possibilities. Quarters balanced on your member are not the answer.

I have absolutely no belief that there is a single woman on this site either in blogland or elsewhere that will drop everything because they see purple veins. You must come to understand the mystery of the woman. You must come to understand the desire and sympathize with both their personal needs and situation. In essence, you must make yourself sympathize with their real world conditions.

Let’s talk on another issue. The art of seduction. Gentleman, your engines rev to red line in the blink of an eye. Women on the other hand, make the red line after being sought, pursued, hunted, chased, desired, mystified, bewildered, baffled, enlightened, perplexed and taken from their regular every day existence to a new plane of fantasy and need. You must offer up something else other than what can be found in their world. Something worth the time, effort and energy of investment that they will need to make in you.

Seduction requires that within seconds of receiving an email from you, you have captured heart, mind and the imagination. It requires that you go beyond yourself and your needs to wrap yourself around the idea of meeting theirs in ways they have never imagined. Think beyond yourself.

Let me throw out a new concept. Leave them wanting more. Don’t ask for boobage in the first email. In fact, don’t ask for it. (Hush Dusty!) Allow them to build the fantasy. You keep silent and listen, building their fantasy world around what you can provide. Leave them wanting more and hold off giving more. Keep your cards close to your vest and make them hunger, want, desire and need what you have to offer. Seduction is a masterful game played between the sexes. Don’t run the imagery by giving out all your secrets in email one.

Let’s talk manners, Gentleman. Perhaps it is because I am from the south or my mamma raised me right. Don’t you dare swear, cuss, use derogatory language, mention how heavy the blood flow is below the belt etc. Go ahead call me a prude. I can take it. (And perhaps there a very few women on here seeking that but that doesn’t call for blatant ignorance on your part.) These women have fantasies and desires. I would bet my hard earned paycheck that the majority of these fantasies lift them up and hinge on them being worshiped on some level, not torn down and belittled and expected to worship your manhood. Most of them probably get tired of that expectation at home.

Pay attention. Try something new. Rid yourself of "the Knuckledragger Gene!" Be something different. Create a safe and secure place for fantasy and reality to meet. In essence, be the definition of a Man.

I never thought I would do this. "The Knuckledragger Gene" Copyright 2005 Travelingintexas... Mine! Mine! all Mine!!!!!!!!!


rm_Synn74 43F
1206 posts
8/25/2005 5:50 am

Hey TT eventhough this post was direct towards the guys..I had to ask this of you.. How are YOU at the art of seduction.. I feel you are already different than alot of the men who use this site. And place you into a category of an elite few Tattooedartist , AmberSolaire, Lust Mirror, ByteChaser2 are just a few that I have always thought were the sensative seducers of AdultFriendFinder..NOW TO ALL THE OTHERS reading this I'm not saying you all are pigs
I'm just asking Traveling one way he would seduce/romance the ladies. Balls in your court babe waiting for an ace

Keep up with your blogs I see a fan base building



I welcome you to the House of Syn...


duststormdiva 52F
6854 posts
8/25/2005 7:03 am

traveling, did you really thing I could keep my mouth shut on this? *Snicker*

You make us ladies sound so complex, but then again I am sure that is correct, when all us women need to do to keep a mans attention is to send them a boobage shot every day in their email. Maybe we are supposed to offer some sort of agreement to sex? Yes, we are complex and can easily be spotted by our boobage emails.

DustStormDiva


rm_texassally 59F

8/25/2005 8:04 am

TT.... Are you really a man? how the hell do you know these things? Do you mind if I mention this in my profile for guys to come read?

Sally


five_speed 42M

8/25/2005 8:09 am

good pointers here, man. Should be required reading, but maybe I'm glad it isn't - less real competition for us, right?


rm_talldarkavg1 107M
10172 posts
8/25/2005 9:32 am

BOOBAGE BOOBAGE...my knuckles hurt.

[blog talldarkavg1]


rm_Synn74 43F
1206 posts
8/25/2005 11:04 am

Tall you asked..lol



I welcome you to the House of Syn...


Barbiebunny69 45F

8/25/2005 1:37 pm

One of the best blogs I read EVER.
Id like to borrow it and post it with credit so more males see this one

Thanks many thanks


frbnkslady 49F
6183 posts
8/25/2005 3:28 pm

LMAOOOO, how much storage you have in yor email box??? you know you are now going to be slammed with boobage shots just like talldakavg1 was...(am guilty!!! ssshh).
Anyways, I have never called it knuckledragging, just plain old Netherdal syndrom.. with the 6 pack drag.. Thank you for your insight and I hope a few read this and take a few pointers.. T

T




duststormdiva 52F
6854 posts
8/25/2005 8:55 pm

great insight traveling, remind me to never ever read blogs when I am half asleep again!

DustStormDiva


five_speed 42M

8/25/2005 9:00 pm

glad to be here, man. I gotcha added to my watched list now. I'll be through every so often. count on it.


BenefitsFriend69 58M/61F

8/25/2005 9:14 pm

Brilliant.


__Huntress__ 56M/59F

8/25/2005 9:22 pm

Baby ... you got it going on ... ! Send those neanderthals back to the cave !!!

I'm going to have a blast watching this one !


34andahalf4U 50M/46F

8/26/2005 3:29 am

hey t-n-tx, is this related to that 'honk the horn to get her attention as she's walking down the street' chromazone?

Ya gotta laugh at guys like that; they make it so much easier to be appreciated when we do anything right! Even my wife said, and I quote,"ain't that the truth!"


Mr_sweetness 46M
2599 posts
9/16/2005 8:33 am

Well i was borin in manitoba Canada my mom raised me to treat a women with respect not a sex object or a cyber sex object...i was raised to treat a women like she is the next thing to god i was raised to be a gentleman and make a lady feel like a lady...I raised to be romantic sweet kind and careing to a lady mind you that just come natural that is why my my name is Mr_sweetness....I was raised to defend the honor of a lady that is why twice in my life i have risked my neck to save a lady and both times i did not know the lady from a hole in the ground...but when i see a lady in need i am there and both times the ladys were takeing a serious beat down....But maybe some men on here get tired of being filled full of hopes dreams and promises and wishes that will never come true or led down the garden path by a lady and they finaly get fed up on them and then start hateing on them i dunno.....All i know i was raised how to treat a lady with respect and honor...Peeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeace

Peace, cause there is to much violence and blood shed in the world!!

Love, cause there is to much hate in the world!!

Happiness, cause it feels good and life is to short to be mean and unhappy all the time!!


PailsDiverHonks 57F

9/16/2005 3:58 pm

This is to good! I have to post it on my profile. I gave you credit though!


rm_B0SSIERBOY 58M
476 posts
9/19/2005 8:10 pm

My mother taught me at an early age to hate men. This resulted in a fair amount of self loathing and self-destructive behavior. However, after years of self inflicted debasement I finally came to realize that I had pretty effectively rid myself of many male tendencies (perhaps this is why I score 80% female on the gender test). The down side was that it seemed to me that most women were looking for exactly the sort of man that I wasn't. More self loathing, if I'm not acting like a neandertal I must be a sissy. Eventually, after discovering that my sensetivity seemed to be sort of a chick magnet (it's the only way I can explain the number of women I ended up in bed with), I came to grips with the idea that I could be a man without all the manly macho bullshit that most manly men I knew seemed to dish out. It still seems like there are LOTS of women that fall for the manly man type, but thankfully I've come to terms with my lack of manly manness. I have spent years working on finding the right balance between manly man lord of my relm and Michaelangelo. I think I've hit a pretty good mix. Thanks for your post (from all the girlie men in blogland).


someonelikeithot 51F

9/20/2005 3:05 am

Hi Travelling. I got to your blog, through Bella's blog. Well, I think you could not have put it any better and clearer. I was starting to wonder if I was an odd speciman on this site! When receiving e-mails whith a close up of a cock and the message " call me on...." it always puzzles me. Is this what the site is about? Do really man think that their cock is a god gift to women and that they would just fall to their knees and drule over the picture and actually call them????!!! But if they keep doing it (and so many do), does it mean that there are actually women that would go for that? Sex is beautiful...but gosh... need to "warm the stove" (as John Gray puts it in "Women are venus and Man are from Mars)...!! I cannot agree more, the game of seduction is beautiful, a woman needs to feel intrigued, cherished, desired... when she starts to fantasize about the man..then... things will really take off!
Nice blog!
x SLIH


jayarammohapatro 43M
1 post
9/20/2005 8:30 am

hi how r u


rm_chiexec2004 67M
10 posts
9/22/2005 6:19 am

Well said! I often feel that life is this treasure hunt, where we are out to discover the clues to what makes things work that we desire. Any insight into the art of seduction and pleasuring the Feminine Species is most welcomed, desired and appreciated! Thanks!


rm_Tabitha1987 30F

9/25/2005 3:35 am

Gosh but I wish I could write like you. I agree with everything you say but also you have made me realise the two things that motivate me to be here:
1. I want to help people by sharing with them the way I have overcome problems in my life with them.
2. I want attention, attention and more attention.
I wish I were less self seeking and more giving because most of the time it seems I do 1. in order to get 2.
Anyway thanks for listening (just realised I don't know your name).
Tabitha.


rm_s6xyguy 36M
14 posts
11/22/2005 3:04 pm

Yup, you got a few gems there, pal. Thanks! makes nice reading, too!
I, hopefully, would remember those and will be able to achieve success soon. wish me luck!


readytofyou75 43M
1 post
11/26/2005 5:16 pm

True, so vrey true.


rm_tempestt2 45F

11/30/2005 10:00 am

hmmmmm...something for me to think on...Beware of the man who hands out these secrets.

(1) He is giving good knowledge out to the crude men in the world who want nothing more than to just say "Do Me Now"
(2)I will half to rethink every nice guy I meet from this point forward questioning their earnest motives verses their desire to get in my pants.
(3)Variety is the spice of life and without the up front "I wanna throw you down and get nasty" men out there, What appreciation would us women have for the genuinely mannered more indirect ones?
Basically it all boils down to the same thing.Unless a guy states that he wants nothing more than friendship,ladies beware all men are the same rather they are direct or discreet in their approach,they want your body...Smiles...


1richmondcouple 49M/44F

12/4/2005 7:36 am

Reality is, this post is true for most of the male species. This makes it very difficult for the other 5% of the male species to climb the mountain. Although the female body is desired by both men and women, men tend to be more aggressive and up front in telling what they want to see or do. For myself, I can say that there is a huge difference between getting into someones pants and haveing someone rip off their pants in desire without you saying a word.

I agree with the post, but I also understand women want it just as bad as we do, if not more than we do.You dont have to be a Knuckledragger to see some skin, I have found the english language works very well when used with a little taste, mystery goes a long way to achieve desire and the ever loved breast shots.


babycakes2323 53F
1 post
12/10/2005 1:18 pm

sweet....sounds like your on your way to getting laid.........


rm_EE407 42F
3903 posts
12/11/2005 11:27 am

I know it said "ladies close your ears"... said nothing about not reading...

I think your momma taught you well...


trippleberryimbl 53F
1 post
12/11/2005 4:20 pm

Dusty, I Have been in a long distance relationship with someone who shares your knowledge and he is driving me crazy . I have the best time, He gets me so hot.
I love to get his mysterious emails. I am tantalized by him in so many ways;. I would drop everything to see him. He travels all over . I dont care what he does as long as I hear from him once in a while. Because he is very skilled in doing what you have described . He has made me grow and feel the real me come out . He makes his moves to tantalize me reach into my mind and grab at my emotions . He is in control .
I dont let on too much about how I feel because of the circumstances. I dont want to spoil the fun . I have never met anyone like him . Sooo Special. You are the only other person I have heard describe this. I am grateful for your blog and greatful I have experienced it . Any man that doesn't know this stuff DONT KNOW WHAT THEY ARE MISSING. Its powerful stuff . Power of persuasion. Women love being treated like they are valued and cherished. So guys get your kinky asses up and work it. work it. work it. Dont't play fair. Trippleberryimbl


TopFisher 64M

12/15/2005 4:38 am

In essence, you must make yourself sympathize with their real world conditions.

Why?

"Let’s talk on another issue. The art of seduction. Gentleman, your engines rev to red line in the blink of an eye. Women on the other hand, make the red line after being sought, pursued, hunted, chased, desired, mystified, bewildered, baffled, enlightened, perplexed and taken from their regular every day existence to a new plane of fantasy and need. You must offer up something else other than what can be found in their world. Something worth the time, effort and energy of investment that they will need to make in you. "

Well I've seen such BS in print or screen before, but I did not bveliee it then either.

"Let me throw out a new concept. Leave them wanting more. Don’t ask for boobage in the first email. In fact, don’t ask for it. (Hush Dusty!) Allow them to build the fantasy. You keep silent and listen, building their fantasy world around what you can provide. Leave them wanting more and hold off giving more. Keep your cards close to your vest and make them hunger, want, desire and need what you have to offer. Seduction is a masterful game played between the sexes. Don’t run the imagery by giving out all your secrets in email one."

Such is very true and gender inspecific.

"(2)I will half to rethink every nice guy I meet from this point forward questioning their earnest motives verses their desire to get in my pants.
(3)Variety is the spice of life and without the up front "I wanna throw you down and get nasty" men out there, What appreciation would us women have for the genuinely mannered more indirect ones?
Basically it all boils down to the same thing.Unless a guy states that he wants nothing more than friendship,ladies beware all men are the same rather they are direct or discreet in their approach,they want your body...Smiles..."


Know we want to get into your pants! Our desire is to fuck you. then put you into positions that make the fucking you are getting funner or just more enteraining for us.

for the most part, such is our interest in you. A cum dumpster if you will. I do hope that most of us are not selfish at such and aid your own cummance to the event as well....

Such is the current reality of most of our sexual encounters. The desgine is not to hurt, it's just for pleasure and hopefully much of such is a shared pleasure!


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