Male genital massage  

thexperimental 65M
14 posts
7/4/2006 1:53 am

Last Read:
3/12/2007 4:49 am

Male genital massage

The basic principle is that you should go slow. Stop or change what you are doing often this will prolong ejaculation. Verbal cues, raising a hand, pulling away slightly, or even subtle body language cues work well. This repeated "peaking" process can sometimes help men learn to have multiple orgasms without ejaculating, and can also be practiced during solo masturbation. Although delaying ejaculation during the course of the massage is desirable from the perspective of maximizing pleasure, many partners do like to finish the massage with one. Ejaculation provides a considerable spark of pleasure, but can leave men too fatigued to enjoy the rest of the evening or do a good job massaging their partner. Opposite-sex partners who like to finish male genital massage with ejaculation should have the woman receive her massage first.

It's also fun to encourage your partner with erotic talk weaving together a verbal fantasy based on your partner's desires. Letting your partner know verbally and non-verbally that you're actively enjoying his pleasure can be a powerful aphrodisiac.

An important point here is to know that a nice feature of male genital massage is that an erection is not required for it to feel good. Some massage strokes actually feel heavenly when the penis is soft.

Suggested Genital Massage Strokes, learnt from a mistress of school of sex

There are many different massage strokes that feel good on male genitals. Unless he indicates otherwise, it's usually safe to assume that firm and consistent stroking will feel best. I'm going to present a few favorite strokes below, but you can make up your own.
(1) An approach that some people favor is selecting two favorite strokes, and for a period of time alternating between them every once in a while.

(2) "Healing Stroke" - With the penis resting on the belly, cup the balls with one hand. The heel of the palm of the other hand glides up and down the underside of the penis all the way to the tip.

(3)"Anvil Stroke" - Bring one hand down, letting it stroke the penis from the top all the way to the bottom. When it hits the bottom, release it. Meanwhile bring your other hand to the top of the penis and repeat the stroke, creating an alternating motion.

(4)"Climbing the Mountain" - Take the penis in one hand and gently, sensuously caress it for about ten seconds, then give it one quick up-and-down stroke. Use aromatic oil. Repeat the sensuous caressing for about ten seconds (perhaps using slow up-and-down strokes), and then give the penis two quick up-and-down strokes. Repeat the caressing, then give three quick strokes, etc. Continue until ejaculation approaches inevitability.

(5) Cocooning
It's up to the two of you whether to finish with an ejaculation. If you do, then pleasuring can continue all the way through ejaculation and until your partner asks you to stop. At the end of the massage (whether or not there is an ejaculation), the sheet/blanket combination can be folded up over the person on the table to provide a warm cocoon. This can be a time of profound peace and contentment together.
Females & wives requiring tutorials requested to contact me.

rm_paapi36 81M
249 posts
7/15/2006 1:32 am

There is literature in sexual acts that wearing a rubber ring at the base of the penis can slow down ejaculation. It is like the ring at the end of condom, easy for shaved genitals, but uncut genitals need one other person to slowly bring it out from the base to the head of penis slowly seperating pubic hair to enable ejaculation. Best would be to cut it for smooth flush of semen. Practice by trial & error.

Romantic, sexy-love warm hugs, enjoy sex 24/7 one on one, goup fun, watching porn together with joy

thexperimental 65M
8 posts
7/25/2006 4:17 am

take a deep breath, stiffen your body and pull your anus inside. Remain for as long as you can. If required slowly breathe out and take an another deep breath hold and tighten your sphincter muscles and you will get over the urge to ejaculate. You will be energized and ready to continue..........

Become a member to create a blog