Profile PIcs  

thebaldbear 46M
5 posts
6/5/2005 11:18 am

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Profile PIcs

Maybe I am a little selfish, and I do understand being reluctant to want to put up a profile picture. I was that way at first. Maybe you're worried that someone you know might see you. The question is than what are they doing at this site? Probably the same thing you are doing, looking for a little love/sex.

Yes, I know that some people aren't that way. They are just trolling to find people they know. But really that is kind of pathetic isn't it. Are you worried about being the talk of the town? I live in a small town, less than 6,000. So, as I said I understand, but here is where I am being selfish.

I will not look at an ad with out a picture.

I have seen ads with false pictures. Pictures that have been on the web for years and I have wanted to write to these people a scathing e-mail for false advertisement. And let their entire network friends know.

So, am I the only one who feels this way?

007sexy40plus 52F  
7603 posts
6/5/2005 12:20 pm

Well baldbear, I have reasons for not having pics up, because im a married woman and will remain discreet. I am sure others dont have them up for the same reason. However I have pics to prove who and what I am. My profile is real, as I am as well. I don't believe in showing pics of someone else or using them. I am proud of who I am and would want the man to want me not the other person in the pic. I hope this comment give you some insight into why I dont have pics up. You can take a look at my profile and you can get into my network to see im a real woman with her own photos, but you have to have pics too to see them.

I have been here for years and if men choose to drool over those with fake pics I say let them have at it. I dont think many people care whether they are fake or not they are just enjoying the sexual aspects of the photos.
Just my thoughts, opinions, and reasonings.

I am the real deal! "Come Get Me!!!"

Puurple_Passions 48M/40F
140 posts
6/5/2005 12:38 pm

Good points here! And yep! I'm that way too. I'll occasionally look at a profile that doesn't have a picture IF they live in my state. Otherwise I pass the others right on by. Another things about profiles that drives me crazy is that we say on our profile that we prefer couples and face pics... however the majority of messages we get are single men who only send cock shots. I wish more people would actually READ our profile.

slosher2 62M/66F

6/5/2005 2:02 pm

I was going through my cupid matches today and also found myself frustrated and confused about people taking the time to put up a profile and not have a picture! If you are not trying to be discreet because you are attached and you are wanting to actually meet people for sexual pleasures you are really narrowing your chances by not putting up some photos! There has to be something that makes your profile stand out from the rest! The ask me for a photo on the front of your profile just doesn't do anything for me!

rm_jayR63 60F
1884 posts
6/5/2005 3:02 pm

Don't worry about what others think, you'll surely go mad.
I think you have a fine photograph, much preferred (by some, anyway)over the penis photos.

thebaldbear 46M

6/6/2005 3:42 pm

Good point straightten2002. I guess that is one thing I didn't think of. But now that u brought it up. I think it would be ironic if a married couple both put up seperate ads with out pics and started corresponding with each other. I can see it now.
"...My husband doesn't understand me...."
"I know what u mean, my wife is the same way, yadda, yadda, yadda."
"blah blah blah, I think he is cheating on me...."
"Well u know two can play at that game sweety maybe u and I should met sometime..."



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