is this web sight foreal  

tech117 70M
6 posts
5/26/2005 4:31 pm

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is this web sight foreal

I am really starting to wonder of this web sight is real. I think that I am a nice guy, but most of the people I write to don't write back.
Sometimes I feel that I am cursed. I smoke and drink does that make me a bad guy? I ride Harleys
and play a lot of golf. I play bass guitar in the
winter to pay for my toys. With a big weekend coming I thought that I might meet someone on this web sight , but to no avail. I keep saying to myself that this will change. I'm sorry to say that I am not angry at anyone but this sucks.
I am sure that there are a lot of other guys going thru this. Until next time. Chuck

firecrotch32 47F
30 posts
5/26/2005 7:13 pm

Ok..I have to ask are you hitting on ladies here in your own age group? If the answer is no therein lies most of your problem. Although there are some ladies who don't mind a guy 15 yrs or older than them they are the minority not the majority I would say. Not saying you older gents don't have anything to offer..I am sure you do and it is wonderful...but for me (and I think I may speak for some other ladies here but certainly not all) any guy who is more then 15 yrs older then myself makes me feel like I am getting with my dad...and that soooo freaks me out. I like guys no younger than 25 yrs old but no more than 15 yrs older then me...I am 34. So are you hitting on much younger women?....if so that may be your problem. Good luck in your search!

LeEnchantress 56F

5/26/2005 7:19 pm

Well.. Chuck there are not only guys going thru this but girls also... I also wonder if half of these people are for real....
Most of the time i think all they want to do is chat or webcam... If this is a sex site.. why don't they want to have sex??? lol
And cyber-sex DOESN'T count....
I don't know how long you been on this site.. but i'm totally disappointed with it myself....
I don't think i'm that unattractive either, reasonably intelligent.. i will always send a pic if me and the guy seem to hit it off.. I've even cammed with some of them so they know what i looked like.. and they say they are definitely attracted but... so one seems interested either...
The only good thing i can say is i haven't paid a dime to AdultFriendFinder... but after these results i surely wouldn't.

LeEnchantress 56F

5/26/2005 7:22 pm

Okay.. maybe some girls don't want to date someone 15 years older than them.. but others do not mind.... I dated a guy who was 40 when i was 23... i had no problem with the age difference... It's all about the person i think... and the chemistry between them.
Hey look at Catherine Jeta Jones and Michael Douglas.. he's what.. 25 years older than her.. And then there's Demi Moore and Ashton Kutcher (sp?)
I just don't think this website if very effective to meet people.. that's all.

rm_jayR63 60F
1884 posts
5/26/2005 7:31 pm

If you were expecting what they were advertising, well another man gets hit upside the haid by cold reality.

As for his age, no that is not a problem

Lapkin4u 43F

5/26/2005 8:57 pm

I have met some really nice guys off from here lately. I think it is possible to meet someone if you are looking in the right place. As Fire said maybe its the type of woman you are seeking that is limiting your possibility of finding a match. I personally feel the same as Fire on the situation...some of the men that contact me are older than my dad....and no offense but there is just no way. I had one 60 y.o. just today. If I was 50 then yeah I probably would. I believe there is someone out there for you just have to keep looking you will find her eventually. Good Luck! I hope you have a great weekend anyway.

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