Monday 1-23-06 73 emails  

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1/23/2006 9:35 am

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Monday 1-23-06 73 emails

I have to try to get on here more often! I don't login for 5 days and find 73 new email messages in my box!

Today's offerings were some of the funniest that I've read in a while. I'm hoping that you guys aren't being outrageous just to get a mention in my blog... The ones which truly stood out, because they were so clueless:
"I want to be your sugar daddy"
"I want to pierce your nipples"
"Take a ride on my Harley"
and, the topper:
"Would you marry me?"

Really! First, I probably make more than the "sugar daddy". Second, I spent a lot of money on my breasts, and no sadist is going to ever touch them, let alone pierce them! Third, I don't do motorcycles. Have you ever seen someone who was in an accident on one? Not pretty! Fourth, I don't think I can marry you until I know your real name. LOL

In addition to these, I had:
8 too far
1 with terrible spelling
9 with "call me at xxx-yyy-zzzz" as the only information in the message
16 offers of a one night or short term stand
2 clearly too young
2 clearly too old
8 (hugs and kisses to you) guys who just wanted to compliment me on my blog or advertisement but recognized they were too far/young/old.
and MANY MANY duplicates.

I can see that some of you have sent several emails, and have failed to "make the cut". Typically, the reason is because you're "in the closet". Your profile lists that you want a woman, yet you're emailing me. It suggests that you're interested in experimenting, but not really thinking about an LTR with a TG and all the baggage that comes with it. One nice guy went to lengths to explain away his lack of choosing TG as a potential match by saying that his parents don't know. That's fine, but isn't going to pass muster with me. If you can't take me home to meet the parents because your parents don't know your preference of sexual partners, then you probably aren't a good LTR candidate for me. I'm not saying that you need to spring from the closet in full Carson Kressley (Queer Eye for the Straight Guy) mode, but at least not be cowering inside the closet afraid to tell your parents and co-workers! No matter how passable I am, eventually something is going to happen that would cause them to find out that I'm not genetically female. No, I wouldn't "out" you to your parents/relatives/co-workers/neighbors, but I also need you to be in touch with your own feelings, so you can be in touch with mine. It's HARD being a woman, much more difficult than it is to be a man. And, it's even harder being a woman with male genitals!

I went on my first AdultFriendFinder date, after talking to the guy on the phone to make sure he wasn't a raving lunatic first. We had a nice meal, where we discussed mostly the problems of living with or as a TG female. As the meal progressed, the guy seemed to get more and more nervous. At the end of the meal, he seemed to be near a nervous breakdown. In spite of his emails and phone conversation, he told me really had NOT ever dated a TG and he was having "flash aheads" during the meal of having sex with me! It was pretty obvious that he was about to go into a panic attack, so I calmed him down by telling him that it was better that he told me now, before we got serious. I followed up by suggesting that no follow-up date is expected. He seemed greatly relieved, and we went our separate ways. I don't have anything against someone saying that it's their first time with a TG on a date. I do have a problem if you lie to me to get me to go out with you. A lie is a terrible way to start a relationship.

Stay "articulated"!

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