The lure of mature married women  

tamethytension 56M
1660 posts
9/29/2005 9:47 am

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The lure of mature married women

Originally posted in answer to another blog. However, due tothe current state of the A.F.F. clogged blogs, inability to edit (and having a post rejected and told to edit it), not to mention half my comments on posts disappearing yesterday, I can't recall where this appeared nor whether it is visible.

The Lure of Married Women

Being married, she is not (likely) looking for anything in a relationship that marriage provides such as stability and continuity. Young men are rarely in a position to provide those comforts along with those more material in nature.
At the same time, young single men are amorous, ready to lavish attention. With sex, they often find in a mature woman a person knowledgeable of her needs and desires such that she focusses on those making it easire to achieve them. Nor is she so shy that she does not voice her needs to her lover and may even direct his attention where it is most satisfying. He in turn will be eternally greatful for this education toward being a better lover. It is said (among men in private and I have read enough blogs here to see plenty of examples) that even those younger women willing to instruct are impatient, and scornful in the face of perceived inadequacy in bed. It is the perception that a mature woman generally will not go out of her way to embarrass a younger man. Furthermore, there is not the distraction of what this relationship may mean in the long term as there is no long-term.


PS> This is abbreviated rumination on the topic. Perhaps more another day. Besides no doubt there are opinions to support/reject these notions. I'd like to think that most people have an opinion as to what they see here. But without feedback, there is the distinct threat of being subjected to more drivel

wyvernrose 39F  
3962 posts
10/1/2005 7:15 pm

hmmmm I think your right


frbnkslady 49F
6183 posts
10/1/2005 8:57 am

I have enjoyed my times I spent with a few younger men. 15 yrs younger.. Was very nice, the excitement he brought.. stanima... and then I scared him by moaning... but it all ended He has even been calling for another visit.. I just might.
But as I have gotten older, I find myself attracted to men closer to my age or older(which is my norm. ) I find I grave the maturity and security they have. But I have no trouble teaching upon occasion... rewards are well worth it.. T


DirtyLilSecret61 57F

9/29/2005 7:09 pm

Admittedly I have a passion for younger men, preferrably that eight to ten years younger than myself range. I don't know what it is other than they have the stamina and eagerness to satisfy my voracious sexual appetite. Overall I want the mature yet devilish guy who can appreciate my sarcasm (as well as my sex drive) and give it right back.


22 posts
9/29/2005 12:06 pm

As far as I can see you have spoken (writen) true words. I have some mature ladys who are friends and more. They show respect, and they show appreciation. As I also show respect and appreciation for them. They know what they want and that there is no long term, just fun, relaxation and plenty of cuddles. We learn from each other. One lady 11 years my senior said she had heard and read of some things that she was desirus to experience, and she went on to ask me to show her how. She wanted to enjoy the pleasures that were tabo in her youth and she never had the opportunity to experience due to the strict lifestyle she was brought up in and forced to live. Other than streight out missionary sex she had never been with a man and HAD NEVER EVEN EXAMINED HER HUSBAND. He would not let her touch him or even to look upon his nakedness. She had never showered with a man. We took our time and I truely belive that she did indeed enjoy the experiencs. She looks at life differently now, in a more positive way.

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