Men here's your chance to sound off ...How Many Emails Do You GET?  

tamethytension 55M
1660 posts
9/25/2005 5:23 pm

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Men here's your chance to sound off ...How Many Emails Do You GET?

Recently, this generous sentiment was left in the comment section of one of my blogs.

"I love your pic and drool often ... no doubt you get tons [of email] from us women..."

Although, I think it has been alluded to elsewhere many times, I am not sure women fully appreciate just how little contact men receive here solicited or otherwise. We see throughout the female bloggers entries the references to being inundated with email, winks, etc. More than a few have indicated that it simply takes up to 2 weeks to sort through their email, going so far as to turn off the profile to catch up. Well, men have no such problems and I offer this blog to my AdultFriendFinder brethren to shed light on this matter starting with myself.

I had an active Silver Membership with the additional Standard Contacts service activated* for two months from 20 May to 20 July. I had a profile with the face pic (at left) that women so emphatically demand. And I think I have a fairly accomodating list of preferences. That resulted in:

1 VIEW per DAY
2 WINKS per WEEK
1 EMAIL per WEEK (in answer to a solicitation)
2 EMAILs per MONTH (unsolicited)

in the subsequent month without Standard Contacts but now blogging:

3 VIEWS per DAY
3 WINKS per WEEK
1 EMAIL per WEEK (unsolicited)

and believe me I thought this was FANTASTIC!

cheers

TTT
PS> MAJOR peeve I have with the service is that there is no apparent indication to the Standard Members that they may initiate contact with those paying for this service.


rm_Network_Minx 48F
542 posts
9/27/2005 2:26 pm

I don't initiate contact for the reason that I am a standard member. I can't initiate contact unless the person I am contacting has paid for that added service. I do try to respond to all of the e-mails I receive. I may answer that I am not looking right now or something to that effect.


rm_saintlianna 46F
15466 posts
9/27/2005 12:13 am

ps. in case anybody missed it, that was a joke, see up. And I know for a fact that men have virtually no contact at all via e-mails ect. I have heard about it many times from a variety of men.


frbnkslady 49F
6183 posts
9/26/2005 11:59 pm

I was only teasing, as you should know.. you didn't receive any...lol I read your porfile when you came back to blog land. T

T




rm_saintlianna 46F
15466 posts
9/26/2005 4:25 am

If you ask me, I think your "major peeve" is that you are not getting enough attention. Oh, thats right nobody asked me.


tamethytension 55M
2320 posts
9/26/2005 4:22 am

I guess I should make it plain that this is NOT a solicitation for winks etc. My profile clearly indicates, as has been the case for 7 weeks, that I am here blogging and will not be pursuing any new contacts. I will communicate in emails with any one who would like to do so but that is not the purpose here. I genuinely would like MEN to go on the record as to what their level of contact is within AdultFriendFinder. And until they do so, misconceptions will continue.


tamethytension 55M
2320 posts
9/26/2005 4:20 am

I guess I should make it plain that this is NOT a solicitation for winks etc. My profile clearly indicates,as has been the case for 7 weeks, that I am here blogging and will not pursuing and new contacts. I will communicate in emails with any who would like to do so but that is not the purpose here. I genuinely like MEN to go on the record as to what their level of contact is within AdultFriendFinder. And until they do so, misconceptions will continue.


frbnkslady 49F
6183 posts
9/25/2005 10:33 pm

LOL.,. okay, I will try to send more winks and emails... I promise...T

T




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