Clit Shape: Does it/Should it determine one  

tamethytension 55M
1660 posts
7/20/2005 2:58 am

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Clit Shape: Does it/Should it determine one


Inspired by questions posed by Goddess of Bitches's in her blog from yesterday as regards a man's view of the clit ...

I answered, somewhat whimsically, those questions on her blog. But here I wish to extend my thoughts to the question of whether the shape of the clitoris is or should be a determining factor in whether digital vs lingual stimulation best achieves orgasm.

Perhaps unknowable, but I am eager for your input; male and female perspectives alike.

Here is my take on the matter.

I have only known one truly sizeable clit ... approaching the size of my pinky finger to the first knuckle. Furthermore it was curved sharply, broad and rounded at the base but narrowing quickly into a tip coming to a point. She (a 5ft 2 petite) was no more or less capable of orgasm through direct stimulation than I am accustomed to seeing (or is that hearing). By far, success was achieved more often through digital manipulation whereas tonguing repeatedly got her close only to often prove too much stimulus for orgasm. I can only recall one other slightly outsized clit which was altogether different in being of the round ball shape that narrowed at the base reminiscent of a ball place on a tee. Now this clit was a pure joy to mouth for the ease with which its owner was brought to screaming (in ecstasy). This observation has led me take a closer look at the nature of stimulation vs the general SHAPE (as to opposed to size) of the clitoris. My hyopthesis then ...

Is there a distinction to be made between the shape of the clitoris with regard to optimal means of producing an orgasm ... namely digital manipulation vs tongue?

As my personal testing sample size has not quite reached the statistical optimum of 30* ... I will forgo any personal conclusions and await for the AdultFriendFinder community to weigh in on their opinions.

*Preliminary results seem to have the narrower clits more prone to orgasm through digital manipulation while rounder edifices like lingual lubrication. For example, a very small vey narrow clit is tough for me to get to climax... yet the same pussy rubbed hard by my thigh with both us fully clothed does the job nicely ... a very gradual and subtle stimulus maintained throughout.

I appreciate that I have asked a fairly black and white question to an issue with a lot of gray. What can be at first a difficult pussy to master only need a re-evaluation of one's approach. For example, having the woman participate by stretching her mound wide with her fingers is as much a mental stimulant of exposing herself to you as a physical lifting of the clit out of its hood (and one less thing for you to concentrate on). Well I could go on ... but without providing too many caveats in your answer, if all else is equal, what is your experience between tongue and finger ... and is shape relevant?

cheers

H4H

rm_mm0206 70F
7767 posts
11/17/2006 10:25 am

I wonder sometimes why it really takes so long to achieve a clitoral orgasm...
I usually just give up on masturbating, although intense stimulation with a toy will help.

Thank God my Gspot is alive and well!

tender hugs...m.


stormyonegood 64F

11/2/2006 12:54 pm

Hmmmmmmmm......very interesting post....I don't seem to have a problem with either technique....I am very sensitive there and as long as someone has a gentle touch there's no problem..I do like gentle sucking and fingering at the same time.....as far as size,I tend to be more on the small size...I don't think that size matters...with all the said... I think I'll go back to my safe little blog....whew.....


demonicsexkitten 42F
10688 posts
7/23/2005 2:20 pm

hmm.... i'm not sure of my 'shape' but... my clit is a bit towards the larger size. i've discovered that sucking, if done right, is the most intense. fingering or licking depends totally on how it's done. and once... my own jeans rubbing 'just so' when i was out walking about did me in. only once though... i still wonder what would have happened had i not stopped walking. lol.


frbnkslady 49F
6183 posts
7/21/2005 9:40 pm

Well, I am not sure about the size not shape of my clit, but I know I get more pleasure from it being rubbed. Either by finger during penetration, or by me spreading my lips while on top and gliding up and down his shaft. That last one to me is total orgasm.

T




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