69 for the shere intimacy of it.  

tamethytension 56M
1660 posts
7/24/2005 7:20 am

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69 for the shere intimacy of it.

Cross-posted this to Silkysmoothlegs

who pondered this question....

"Then we have the 69 i simply cannot master this simply because when someone is pleasuring me i forget totally what im doing, i lie back and enjoy, probably very selfish, but i cannot do both at the same time, i cannot pleasure and recieve pleasure, i wonder is it just me?"


Ladies, ladies, ladies,

why the guilt? ...

I love to 69 for the shere intimacy of it. As to getting off... for me it is not the ideal position. It will work but I can control myself for quite some time. But then that is the idea behind why I love the position. I simply can, for a satisfying amount of time, feel you on top of me, feeling every curve of you, shift mental gears and focus of the sensations coming from my groin, then shift gears again and focus entirely on you (as men I think we have an ability to compartmentalize our sensations whereas women are whole in their sensual experience, drinking it all in equal measure across the spectrum of taste, touch, and scent).

Since Mzhuny is sharing secrets ... here is mine (although from reading the other guys here I am far from alone on this). We simply love to have your pussy in our faces ... it is thrilling for us in of itself .. that you would be so intimate with us is fiercely erotic. As IrishKey points out, we can maintain this for far longer (mentally and physically) than most any other position for oral. And as meatyf says... we just love playing with it, teasing it ... and then there is the little secret ... I WANT to get you off before me ... the closer I get the more insistent I will become with your pussy with the express intention of destroying your focus on me, to have you forget totally that you are doing anything at all, bringing your focus solely on how wondrous your pussy feels.

So girls... you are feeling guilty over something we as guys are deliberately doing to you .... we do love to tease and we do love to gauge our abilities by the degree that we may distract you ... this is just another manifestation of that ...

and yes girls ... you are definitely worth it.



stormyonegood 64F

12/16/2006 4:16 pm

I never felt guilty...just distracted...it's hard to focus when the pleasure is so intense....and I do tend to stop what I am doing for my man....but am eager to continue...when I am again in control of myself...so that's why I tend to enjoy pleasing my man first....but each experience is different...don't you think?....lol....Mmmmmmmmmmmm...

ce_64667 54F

12/12/2006 10:56 pm

I have always felt guilty for getting "distracted"!! No more!!



"All you'll get from strangers is surface pleasantry or indifference. Only someone who loves you will criticize you." - Judith Crist, crack film critic

LadySuckss 71F

9/27/2005 2:24 pm

You have done the courtesy of letting females in on a males secret desires and intentions when in making 69 love. I have had the same problem, and it is indeed a matter of concentrating on what your doing until your pleasure overides it and you cannot help yourself to but surrender and enjoy the high. I love cumming when a man is sucking on my pussy. Just to release and let go and don't worry about him.....he will be taken care. We now know he knows this too.
No more guilt girlfriends.


choclitpussy 51F

8/11/2005 7:21 pm

finally!!!!!! yea!!!!! i finally know that i'm not alone. i thought that maybe i was the only woman who couldn't concentrate in that position. i had always been happy with the fact that i am usually very good as multi-tasking. but the fact that i could never stay focused on my partner is the only reason that i'm always a little embarrassed about doing it when asked. because i know that as soon as it starts to feel really good, i forget what i'm supposed to be doing, and then the guilt comes.

and to think, this was you guys aim all along. no wonder he never complained when i'd keep stopping........then starting.......then stopping again, then pretty much forgetting altogether.

well, well, well, no more guilt for me. thanks for letting me in on the secret.

silkysmoothlegs3 106F

7/25/2005 5:19 am

TTT thanks for your comments,
I guess to all comes down to practice, having only done the act with on few occassions,
What i do know is that when i am really intimate with a real sexy man and i fancy the pants of him, i would pleasure him for hours, so i guess you guys feel the same about pleasuring women,

I always thought id find it disgusting, i think its all to do with the person that you are with, if the lust and want and sparks are there , well mmmmm its heavenly.

In saying all that TTT i need more experience

tamethytension 56M
2320 posts
7/24/2005 8:51 pm


always a pleasure ... glad to be able to settle your qualms ...

... pity I am not in a ...... position ...... to disquiet other tensions.


leighann4 49F

7/24/2005 7:53 pm

OK. OK. I will quit feeling guilty and just do it when the guy asks me to sit on his face. I have always worried that I would cut the guys oxygen off and smother him.

__Huntress__ 57M/59F

7/24/2005 5:52 pm

and hence the reason I have been known to suffer from "fiercely erotic blackouts" ...

jungandhorney 43F

7/24/2005 4:57 pm

something to think about.........

frbnkslady 49F
6183 posts
7/24/2005 1:37 pm

LOL, I knew I wasn't alone.. peeps laugh at me when I told them I couldn't concentrate. They think its hysterical..but my partners have not seemed to mind, ever..probably because once I came, they were done for..mmmmm


rm_magnet4u22 51F
18406 posts
7/24/2005 10:55 am

No guilt here!! You said it in one word...intimacy. It is fiercely erotic.


flinkychick 61F

7/24/2005 8:30 am

Thanks for your kind comments in my blog. I'm taking your advise and blog hopping, I think the personal advice was dead on too, thanks. I'm glad I did because I also wondered if it was just me!

I don't think I've felt guilty because as soon as I remember what planet I'm on I make sure he forgets which one he's on. I've always felt kinda like maybe I couldn't walk and chew gum at the same time because the concentration does indeed evaporate!

DirtyLilSecret61 57F

7/24/2005 7:53 am

Give me the man who loves this position more than I, and I will give him every star in the sky.


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