Can you find true love on AFF? I wonder?  

talltrimkooltool 59M
485 posts
8/24/2006 9:08 am

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Can you find true love on AFF? I wonder?

I have heard success stories of couples finding true love on AdultFriendFinder, but do not know of anyone personally? I think the nature of this site puts a natural level of caution about anyone you meet here?
Some time ago, I had the very good fortune of meeting a very tall raven haired beauty on this site. She was perhaps the most "real" lady here, never artifical or false. I could gaze into her dark eyes and loose my soul there! We became very close. However she would often say that "Had she met me anywhere but on AdultFriendFinder, she might be able to trust me?" Eventually that constant doubt in her mind became our undoing.

I wonder, should those who seek true love, look on sites other than AdultFriendFinder?

2daycowboywanted 46F

8/24/2006 9:24 am

I wouldnt say true love is found here, more like true lust. Then again that is only my opinion.

Until later

meerkittykat 43F

8/24/2006 9:41 am

"However she would often say that "Had she met me anywhere but on AdultFriendFinder, she might be able to trust me?"

Respectfully, that sounds like a complete cop-out. She found you here too, and you managed to trust her. I don't mean to be disrespectful at all, but that rings very hollow, almost hypocritical.

That said, yes, ppl here do find love, myself among them.

Good luck.

lostmydrinkagain 45F
2272 posts
8/24/2006 9:46 am

I met my partner on this site 10 months ago, I trust and love him like no other.

sassybelle21 34F  
13313 posts
8/24/2006 9:50 am

Well yeah or perhaps maybe and I can't be too sure. Love is everywhere and sometimes we find love in the weirdest and most unlikely places. However, if a person deliberately try to look for true love or a long term relationship on AdultFriendFinder, I personally don't think it's a wise thing to do because that person have a very high chance to get hurt. Sorry to say this but if a person is really trying to find love on AdultFriendFinder, it shows desperation more than anything else. On the other hand, if a person happened to find love on here without deliberately trying or looking, it's perfectly occay. We just have to remember that most if not all people on here are merely looking for casual encounters and friends, nothing too serious or complicated.

That's my own thought and doesn't reflect anybody else's. I'm done

tracy_de_lacy 106F
9268 posts
8/24/2006 10:24 am

I went out with a guy from this site a almost year ago. I had only been on the site for a couple of months. I was going to be a swinger, lol. 11 months o and we are still together. I have to admit I did go through a long period of not trusting him because of where I met him. I trust him completely now and we are both still on the site. He isn't on as much as me though, he doesn't blog. He only comes on to chat in my group chatroom.

Bye everyone, it was a blast

buddhamike 107M
7006 posts
8/24/2006 10:37 am

Love may be found anywhere. I found a great match here. I just didn't want to face the "wait god knows how long til we really get to know each other for sex" scenario (usually followed by the "I have another headache" scenario after the relationship gets going). Here I figured I could find someone who understood that sex is an instinctive desire for people, and it worked for me just that way.

rm_PurryKitty2 49M/51F
9753 posts
8/25/2006 3:58 am

I think it is possible to find love anywhere

Purry {=}


GhostWriter947 59F

8/26/2006 4:41 am

Hey Darlin, I found true love on here, even though it didnt work out.
I am sorry it didnt work out with you and your lady. I followed some of your stories about taking trips etc. with her. Just remember, you have the memories!! I didnt come here to seek true love, it just happened. It has made me leary though. I think it depends on the couple involved, if they trust each other to remain on here. I think once the doubt has been put there, it is hard for some to get past. I only wish you the best hon.


GhostWriter947 59F

8/28/2006 5:52 am

talltrim.......uhhh, are you sure your writing about me? I was very taken by you darlin, its just my circumstances at home get in the way. But, you did make me feel like Cinderella!!!!!!



GhostWriter947 59F

8/29/2006 5:41 am

You really want me to try on the slipper hon?
>>>>puttin' lotion on my foot so it will slip on easier?



GhostWriter947 59F

8/30/2006 7:45 am

Morning Darlin, it was good talking to you this morning. You know how I feel about you, I only want you to be happy.


catkit13 68F

8/31/2006 2:53 pm

i'd love to find true love, on this site or elsewhere, but for now, i'm staying just for the blogging . . . and thanks for visiting mine! bye for now

Balibabe19 43F

8/31/2006 7:35 pm

Love is's whether or not your heart is open to let it in that could hinder an opportunity!!! As for the "hit n miss" due to trust issues I wouldn't look into it anymore as it seems time to move forward...that was my two cents worth anyway.

moonfire2u 71F
2602 posts
9/8/2006 3:56 pm

I think it is possible to find love anywhere...that certain connection that brings two people together...this site has nothing to do with only means you are looking for like minded folks...

kind thoughts,

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