Players need not apply  

tait32 44F
44 posts
6/7/2005 11:22 am

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Players need not apply


I have been on AdultFriendFinder for about a month now and I have been introduced to people of all different walks of life. For the most part, it has been interesting and enjoyable. What is disappointing to me is that I have come accross so many profiles that are misleading and untruthful. (Fake pictures, big talkers, solicitors etc) It seems like being of AdultFriendFinder is almost like being in a fantasy land to some where you can personally hand pick the profile of the pawn you would like be and play out the game, never exposing your true identity. (Please do not get offended, this is not the case with everyone, it is just my personal observation.) It seems so silly to me, obviously everyone on here is longing to connect in some way to another , yet they are to afraid of themselves and of each other to enjoy what life has to offer. Even though I don't have many expectations here, the one I do have is for people who contact me to be real. I'm to excited in exploring and experiencing life's beauty and the expression of the person within to be bound by fear of judgment or what is socially accepted by society. I was fortunate enough to have parents who instilled a deep sense of self confidence in me by making me understand that my sense of self worth was not based on my outwardly appearance or other peoples opinions of me, but on the special qualities and unique traits that make me who I am, they are what defines who I am. I don't care how much money you make, the job you hold, or what you look like. I am not into the game. (Unless they are enjoyable to both of us and then I welcome them!) I will not judge you, nobody's perfect, including me. I'm interested in learning about you;the real you, what your dreams and aspirations are, what you think and feel, what you desire, what really gets your going. We are all out there trying to find somebody that "gets" us and accepts us for exactly who we are, but that has to start by being honest and accepting of yourself and about what you really want. Staying true is challenging, but it is worthwhile and fulfilling, honor is a man's gift to himself. In this girls book confidence, honesty and a positive attitude are what triumphs. That is what is really sexy.

rm_txrose4uNTX 58F
3289 posts
6/7/2005 12:59 pm

"Even though I don't have many expectations here, the one I do have is for people who contact me to be real." ... "I'm interested in learning about you;the real you, what your dreams and aspirations are, what you think and feel, what you desire, what really gets your going. We are all out there trying to find somebody that "gets" us and accepts us for exactly who we are, but that has to start by being honest and accepting of yourself and about what you really want. Staying true is challenging, but it is worthwhile and fulfilling, honor is a man's gift to himself. In this girls book confidence, honesty and a positive attitude are what triumphs. That is what is really sexy."

I agree with you whole-heartedly.... couldn't have said it better myself!!


itsallfun1957 60M

6/7/2005 1:26 pm

Ladies, nicely done and well stated.>>>itsallfun1957


HughJarse2000 48M

6/8/2005 5:18 am

Agreed.

That's why i stay with the blog hoppers. Spend my time watching bloggers interact with their comment posters gives a much clearer picture of the blogger for me.

Mostly this site is used by esacpe artists with nowhere better to hide.

I came here to distract myself initially , now it's just fun. I'm real in my blog - but how would anyone know that , why would they trust that, why would they care anyway ?

Anyway in life - careful what you seek, right? If you want "real" and to "connect" perhaps the real world would work better for you. I have "friends" here now, but we can't even do coffee

And your confidence shines through beautifully as you write x


tattooedartist 45M

6/8/2005 8:39 am

I can almost swallow your frustration as I read your post....I too went through this in my own way. Have you ever spoken with someone on IM and realized you were misunderstanding them? Ive done it more than a few times. For some, it is difficult to put things out there in written form. Not everyone shares your ease and skill in expressing themselves in the written word. So....once you get past the dreamers, the liars and those who are haunting around behind wife/husbands back and cannot be honest or at least feel they cannot..... you will find what you seek but it is rare, it is fleeting and it is precious.

I do ALL i can to write from the soul and from life. Although I do not write about the medial or mundane (most of the time..lol) I come to the table with it all to bare and do so. Is there artistic flare and dreams? I mean, even in life dont we all have fantasies? I think it is a journey into someone's heart, mind and spirit. As in life, you must take a moment to look past any facade they have put up (if they have) and breathe into their reality OR have the boldness to simply as for what you want to know.

I have looked at your picture and your blogs several times and been taken back by your smile and the blissful charm you wear in your eyes....is that poetic? Sure but it doesnt make it a lie. Get my drift? There are all kinds of people on here, from all walks of life but it doesnt mean if something sounds too good to be true, that it is a lie. The possibilities are endless but let me assure you of this....what you are seeking is here, waiting for you. That and so, so much more. Beleive in it, in yourself (as I am sure you do) and go with the flow of your experiences and what is offered you on here....you never know what may lye around the next bend.

I admire your imperfect perfection and would love to share many, many things with you...are you willing and able?

Adieu,

J


love_2lickass 48M

6/9/2005 2:19 pm

Im sure I could satisfy your needs , I too am horny all the time my cock swells so big I have to stretch it , bend it , play with it all the time it gets really BIG as you can see on my peofile (real pics)just writing you this makes it hard, and the thought of what I want to do to you is unbearable to keep in my mine how I want to lick your clit to your asshole turns me on ,just thinking I know I could make you quiver 6 orgasms before you take my HUGE occupant in your unit you are a beautiful woman and you have very sexy eyes ,your writing turns me on , I want to be dark and mysterious in your life giving you a sense of danger of exotic for you to think about ,I would like to meet descreetly and passionately kiss you right away until we cant take the feeling anymore then take you home and explore all our feeling in a sexuale experience like no other and leave you with the thought of who was that huge , soft , passonate , masked man. I would love to lick you later


dansupercrew 52M
2 posts
6/9/2005 6:32 pm

I really feel your parents raised a fine child and keep it up with what you feel is right. I agree your words are sound and valid I have been on this site for a month fair to say and I haven't received the same response as well. I think people are looking for more than one thing.It is not just sex, However there are players here with older pictures or what they used to look like.


rm_14u24me34all 52M
235 posts
7/4/2005 3:12 am

Kind of ironic,isn't it? Technology has advanced so exponentially to
reach so many that this time in history(an era to us,a blink of the eye on the grand scale)has been widely described as the"Information
Age". Yet with that availability to access and distribute info comes
an undesirable side effect;the plain truth has become almost indi-stinguishable from the glut of drivel surrounding it. It is so easy to hide behind a screen and become (dgitally)our ideal reinvention of
ourselves,and who is the wiser? Face to face is painfully honest,our
voices and eyes can help confirm or impeach our honesty as well. Much too
uncomfortable,this live interaction. And so starts the beginning of
the "Global Village", populated with millions of pale,red-eyed,anony-
mous villagers; the"Sims" on a grand scale...All this being said,one
thing seems to be forgotten:most people on sites like this or chat
rooms are there for their own gratification,not ours...we assume full
responsibility for any use of the data presented...undaunted,we still
look for the exceptions....maaybe we'll even find them!


rm_beautyguy 50M
3 posts
7/7/2005 10:59 pm

I know what you mean. I'm not the best looking guy at least not looking at my picture. I am looking for someone who wishes to talk. I am not a big player because what I have and believe in doesn't necessarily translate at time to this site. Why am I here like everyone else lonely and horny. My name is kemo by the way


rm_UnOrdinary1 50M
1 post
7/9/2005 12:52 am

DAMN ... that's some deep thoughts ... love it.

I have to admit ... I don't even know what a BLOG is exactly.

U write with a flame and elegence, and yet simple and honest.
It was intoxicating ... I couldn't stop reading it.
Thanks for the picture into your soul.


aerotech03 61M
1 post
7/24/2005 4:04 pm

Oh, I may be too old for you Ms. Tait, but I'd love to serenade you with, oh, maybe Clapton's "Wonderful Tonight" or G. Harrison's "I'd Have You Anytime" and hope for the best!

Your blogs were a pleasure and thrill to read. I can only hope to find more ladies of your sensuousness and class on this site.

Ray


123HumorMe 68M

9/6/2005 1:00 pm

Hello. I liked your comments on the stuff you had seen so far. I do not want to be a player, send you reavaling photos, or you in the BS area at all. I hope that you will conseder three things. That we consider meeting for lunch at a time and place of you chosing, that you view my own blog it says a lot about me and my sincerity/honesty,
and that you consider joining the Mountain to Sea group that I started. LOL Jim


123HumorMe 68M

9/6/2005 1:02 pm

Hello. I liked your comments on the stuff you had seen so far. I do not want to be a player, send you reavaling photos, or move in the BS area at all. I hope that you will consider three things. That we consider meeting for lunch at a time and place of you chosing, that you view my own blog-it says a lot about me and my sincerity/honesty,
and that you consider joining the Mountain to Sea group that I started. LOL Jim


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