bbw topic from elusive angel  

tadpudgy 57M
863 posts
7/18/2006 10:54 am

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bbw topic from elusive angel


just left a site where a sensitive subject was broached about whether bbw is a lifestyle choice or not. very moved by elusive angel and all of her responses. kindness and sensitivty exist in blog-land!!i consider my self pudgy and out of shape. dieting has helped me go from 245 to 214, and it is still a work in progress. exercise is next. easier to exercise lugging less poundage. but the woman of my dreams was toned/tanned and oh so beautiful. she got frustrated when i kept ignoring her signals, until she sat me down and expressed her interest. i took for granted that she wouldn't be interested in me. i had not realized that i was guilty of passing a judgement that women can't be as beautiful on the inside as they are on the outside. how i have learned from this experience. we were together for a year. she told me she was attracted to my kindness. wow! people have the right to pursue what they r attracted to. no shame in that, but i am saddened by all the potential dates/sex/friendships i missed out on by not realizing where beauty and sexiness really lay.

angelofmercy5 60F
17881 posts
7/18/2006 11:23 am

Tad....so you've learned a valuable lesson then, haven't you? And who knows what beautiful person, inside and out that you will meet next?


tadpudgy replies on 7/18/2006 1:24 pm:
yes indeed. i have always enjoyed being with a woman who had some "curves", and who had a self-confidence about herself. it gets to feeling good about oneself. i guess eye-opening experiences and epiphanies can happen to us all. and, when i least expect it, someone will spot that in me, and we can make some moments together!

DDDRoundandJuicy 48F

7/18/2006 11:57 am

let me just say that the same is true in reverse..someone with extra pounds can be outrageously sexy...smart....clean...magnetic...I should know...

In my experience from the females I know...you had a rare gem honey...for the most part the young thin ones are pretty shallow...

[dddroundandjuicy]


tadpudgy replies on 7/18/2006 1:31 pm:
u are exactly right juicy one! what a wonder to have someone see beyond the shell and see what is on the inside! u embody the kind of woman i have had the most mind-blowing, knees-wiggling sex with. because of all the traits u listed! i once remarked about Anna Nicole Smith after her trim-spa emergence. guess what, when she wakes up in the morning, she is still Anna Nicole Smith, and i find nothing sexy about her. how many hunks blew it with u just by opening their mouths and saying something stupid. no wonder men should keep their mouths shut more. baby, enjoy the lovin, and keep puttin a big ol smile on ur lovers face!

Hydragenias 57F

7/18/2006 6:15 pm

It's unfortunate that the majority of people "out there" are very shallow and really only care about having "eye candy" on their arm.


tadpudgy replies on 7/18/2006 6:30 pm:
i spend lots of time "people watching". i see so many pairings of all varieties. and ask myself what brought them together. but yes, i agree with u so much! that is why i believe that what is on the inside is what makes passion so real. it comes through, and makes what u have handsome/beautiful! keep a smile on your lover's face ms hydragenias!!!!!!!!!

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