Sexual healin needed in this society of ours...  

sxcurves4u 54F
260 posts
3/7/2006 2:41 am
Sexual healin needed in this society of ours...

I realize with all the murders in family settings that we need healin sooooo bad in this day and age.

We can't escape the fact that we are sexual beings and humans who need to be loved and touched and recognized by the opposite sex as a valued member of a some kind of group setting whether family or friends or church choir for that matter...

I read the title of a book lately called: The 5 wounds that affect us when it comes to being happy to be who we are.


I've come to terms with what was passed on to me through my parents and even my ex. They were themselves badly wounded in the past in their self-respect.

Injustice? Yup, I chose, a few days ago, to let go and forgive society as a whole for the times I felt injustice done unto me. I have a big mouth, I'm a shit disturber and pay for it dearly. I'm impulsive and honest I can't find a way to change that... Not sure I should.

I organize greet & meets for us passionate people. We get toguether and hopefully heal each other on a sexual level I hope. We can be better people if we admit needing intimacy and caring from human beings around us that are like minded.

Please post feedbacks on this crazy blog of mine! I do want to hear what others have to say on subject matters I write about.

Be sexy!

RockPebble 70M
2493 posts
3/7/2006 6:38 am

I guess it's a trust thing when the people closest to us hurt us, even though it is usually unintentional.

How often do you have greet & meets, I'll be visiting next month and would like to coordinate my schedule.

sxcurves4u 54F

3/10/2006 4:08 am

I started my first group : I am now a moderator...

The Toronto Sexy Cougars Group... I am Really excited.

I want other ladies to join me on this site!

Hope to generate sexual healin! hahahaha

rm_TorontoGiver 36M
19 posts
3/11/2006 2:52 am

Hello Sxcurives4u,

Got a young male here that would love to speak with you further. Love your pics, you look cute.

rm_doug123410 61M

3/15/2006 11:57 am

Great blog ... hope the group works out ... best of luck!

If you like contact me ... I'd like to chat.

Bye for now ...

rm_frank7050 56M
1 post
3/16/2006 3:55 pm

Well sxcurves4u, while I don't know your experiences I can immediately sense that there is great wisdom in what you have to say about sexual healing. It is very unfortunate that much of society today, while openly embracing the alternatives of a varied lifestyle, is nonetheless trapped in the contradiction of saying and doing different things when it comes to recognizing the value of a positive sexual individual in society.

Psychologists called it cognitive dissonance and it is especially featured in our sexual selves and has been noted to primarily afflict women. I dare say that better than 70 % of women are horrified with their own sexual needs. Whether by societal norms or upbringing, too many are ruled by contradictions of wants and desires.

I agree with you that the first step to a better regard for yourself and resolving the angst is to forgive and let go, indulge yourself a bit, open yourself up to the possibilities that there is another way to see the world. I promise you won't be sorry.

SmedlySuperGophr 53M

3/18/2006 7:43 am

We all change, it is inevitable, but there are just some things that make you who you are .... and they are the things we love about you.

I'm impulsive and honest I can't find a way to change that... Not sure I should.

I've met some wonderful spiritually and sexually open people on this site. Wouldn't it be cool if the world could just stop for a moment and feel the energy that this coupling can generate?


sxcurves4u 54F

3/18/2006 7:01 pm

Smed Darling,

I was thinking about healing this heart of mine...

I find that having being a parent to 2 exciting teenagers has made me a lover that is more patient and lenient, understanding and forgiving.

I wonder if male and female parents on have a view to share here as to how the parenting status has made them better partners or sexual partners..

Care to share this with me?

Be well now all my friends here!

letuscum232 55M

3/20/2006 1:45 am

Hey! sxcurves4u, i,m certainly not shy to admit i could use some sexual healing.i,m interested in this so keep me informed on how things are going.

SmedlySuperGophr 53M

3/23/2006 2:43 pm

Okay, I’ve succumb to a totally childish way to try and boost my Blog hits.

So .... Tagged Kitties Don't forget to Spay and Neuter

I hope you can forgive me.

playful_guy76 41M

5/22/2006 1:07 am

Hi sxcurves, I just joined your group, I am new to Toronto and really interested in cougars, doesnt seem to be much going on in there so I thought Id try you here, hope we can chat soon

kirk42shell34 54M/46F

6/6/2007 8:28 pm

Great couple here, we like the "healing" part of message....write back

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