A little advice...  

swtexygirl1 35F
163 posts
5/29/2005 1:57 pm

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

A little advice...

I know what this site is for. I know that it is "The World's Largest Sex and Swinger Personals site," but I also know that there is a proper way to address someone when you are speaking to them for the very first time.

I tend to ignore emails that start off with, "I'd love to fuck you and your tits..." and then proceed to give me their phone numbers. I have never even met you, what makes you think I am just going to call you right off the bat and say:
"Ummm...hi, this is Swtexygirl1 from AdultFriendFinder. You
sent me an email with your phone number..."
Huh, yeah, I don't think so.

Also, when someone has something written in their profiles like "I don't want to be involved with married men/women," or when men say "I am not Gay, so no men, please," what makes you think that the person is going to respond to you with anything other than, "No Thanks," or "Hey, go re-read my profile?"

If you are trying to contact someone, and this is just my opinion, maybe you should try to come off as a total sex craved feind. For me to respond to an email, or a conversation online, I need someone who doesn't want to talk about sex right off the bat. I don't have a problem talking about sex or about my breasts, but that is not what I want to talk about right away. I am also not interested in meeting a guy for the first time, after having only talked to him for half an hour. Guys that keep on asking, after you have repeatedly said no, need to learn that it isn't going to happen and should just give it a rest!

If you want to catch a "classy girl," like myself, lol, you need to talk nicely to us. Let us/me, know that there is more to you than blood rushing to your penis.

I love getting emails that say something like, "Wow, you have amazing breasts. I bet you also have an amazing wit to go along with them," or emails that ask about me personally. I don't mind if a guy compliments my breasts in an email, but don't make that the only thing you want to talk about. There is so much more to me than my breasts, yes they take up a lot of me(they are 44Js for goodness sake), but I am an interesting person and fun to get to know.

I know there are a lot of women out there who feel the same way I do, even though this is a purely sex based site. We want to know that there can be more than just talk of our breasts, your penis and doing different things with them(although that talk can be quite fun at times ), we want to know that if we felt like it, we could talk to you in a more civilized manner, about real things. That there is more to you.

If you disagree with me, that's fine. It doesn't matter if you don't like what I've said. I just feel that it is necessary for me to express my opinions.

MO_Angel 49F
4 posts
5/29/2005 5:00 pm

I agree totally with you...You go girl..I was in a chat.All the guy talked about was sex but kept saying what are you looking for.But as I tried to respond he treated me as I was very dumb to this site.Said you do know this is a swingers site.I said yes but not all here swing do you have a point.All he wanted to talk about was sex but then would ask question.I wanted so bad to be rude and say why don't you just answer your self since everything I say you keep responding to it as you know what this site is.This site is for all kinds incase he dont know.Now I can see why his profile says Wonder why no one seems to hit on me. maybe word got around.Everyone wants to be treated with respect what fun and turn on is there in lets go screw on a certain time.No way this chick wants foreplay and romanced into the moment.If you want real women I agree swtexygirl1.

swtexygirl1 35F

5/29/2005 8:24 pm

Thank you, guys like that need to learn to R-E-S-P-E-C-T, us, lol...

teachhotnique 53M

5/29/2005 10:06 pm

I think you have an amazing tit...I mean whit...I mean, ahhh hell. Love the view of the camera. you have to give this site a little time, it will evolve for you...trust me.

Love your wit by the way and I am married so I hope that's not a turn off.

swtexygirl1 35F

5/30/2005 1:45 am

Not to sound rude or anything, but it is a definate turn off for me. I'm not into helping guys cheat on their wives...That's just who I am. If you enjoy doing it, fine, it just won't ever happen with me.

And thank you for the compliment, lol...my breasts are amazing...lol

cajunpet 71M
1185 posts
5/30/2005 6:15 am

I respect all ladies, and consider their feelings. There are a few men who are gentlemen. Most men are selfish, and only want their pleasure. If they would learn to pleasure their partner first, their world would be rocked more.

Keep On Blogging!!!! Have a great day.

swtexygirl1 35F

5/30/2005 7:34 pm

WarrenG6, thank you for taking devil's advocate on this, you answered very well. It is nice to know up front what a guy is after. I'd like to be able to remain friends with a person if I am going to have relations with them, but not all guys want that, they just want an easy lay and to go on their way. I personally think that is disgusting. At least talk to me after, lol.

I don't think you are talking shit, lol. I trust that you are being honest and sincere when you say that you want to get to know the true me. I won't block your messages, lol because I enjoy reading your comments. You made me laugh just now!

You've got 3 days, lol, just kidding...

NightOfPassion2 59M

5/31/2005 8:25 am

I pleased to know that there are many classy ladies on this site. Having some as friends (cyber) has been great!

swtexygirl1 35F

5/31/2005 7:45 pm

Thank you SexTitten! I'm glad you're enjoying my blog enough to add me...I'm trying to think of my next blog to write, lol...hopefully, I'll have another coming soon

Yes, Nightofpassion, there are a lot of classy ladies on this site.

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