Just An Inquiry ... What Would You Do?  

swoosh5171 46M
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2/20/2006 7:28 pm

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Just An Inquiry ... What Would You Do?

You take the time to establish a repoirt with someone you've interacted with online. The two of you converse for a period of time and there is a sense of good chemistry between you two, chemistry that prompts the scheduling of a meeting.
You make plans and the actual date of the (aforementioned) arrives, you go to the proposed meeting place only to realize that the person you've allowed into your life has misrepresented themselves extraordinarily. What would your initial response be towards the person ...


niceTHICKblkDCK 50M
1 post
2/23/2006 5:31 pm

Hey,brother i was chatting with some ladies today in the room,and seen that the subject was about a real sweet lady that sure dose'nt belong on this site.We both know who i am speaking of your name was put in the conversation as weel as this young lady.Ican understand how it is you came to this question,but if you really talked to this gal you know the looks are the least of her,and she has more class than half the women on this site.So my opinion is open your ears and close your eyes no better than her on here,and it is your lost our gain.


swoosh5171 46M

2/23/2006 8:07 pm

Man should respect man (thats what I believe) and I'm NOT going to begin to explain my query to you or anyone else in AdultFriendFinder land. I will, however expound a little since you seem to be a little confused (judging from your post). Any relationship (whether it is a romantic one or a friendly on, is based on 2 key components) honesty and trust and when either of them is betrayed/called into question, how can there be ANYTHING to build on. Now you obviously have your own interpritation of what transpired between the person you've presumed I was alluding to when I made the (aforementioned) inquiry and whatever you may have in your mind is for you and you alone to reflect upon, as I'm NOT one to 'put my personal business' into the street, NOR am I one to disrespect ANYBODY, as there wasn't ANY mention/allusion to the individual you seem to be speaking of/about until you made such a reference. I've posted a few questions on my biog regarding situations I've seen/heard about and experienced both on AdultFriendFinder and in society in general. If you,or anyone you're involved with (in whatever type of friendship/relationship) take offense at anything I've posted, then I apologize for any misunderstanding you're facing with my posts, but I have NO bad feelings about anything I've done on AdultFriendFinder or in my personal life. Few know much about me on this site other than the fact that I'm often in the Interracial Chatroom, and those that have gotten to know me on a more personal basis haven't ANYTHING derogatory, slightful or disconcerting to say about me or how I conduct myself in the room, as I've NEVER said or done anything to give anyone reason to judge my character adversely(even the person you mentioned in your post can attest to that, as I was polite, respectful and courteous throughout the instance you referred to). In conclusion, I'll just say you're CERTAINLY entitled to your opinion, but you also have to understand that I'm entitled to mine as well and since I DON'T slight/disrespect people for expressing their opinions (as long as they do it in a dignified/mature manner) I CERTAINLY DON'T expect to be spoken ill of/rebuked for expressing my opinion in a kind/discreet manner.

Peace ... "swoosh"


signmecurious 46M

3/11/2006 10:44 pm

Dude, where in the hell did that guys comment come from^^^^^ok well anyway like you said and said it well, he is lost but If someone you meet or I meet represents themselves as being a certain way, size, shape or form then I am falling for the person created by her lies! or Lie. So yeah, you have a right to be let down, pissed off, or hurt because you trusted that was was being said to you was the truth.. then comes to mind, what else could they have lied to me about. So it is always good to lay it out on the table.. Just my opinion and we know what opinions are like! haha
-Steve


uWANTaPRINCESS 43F

3/14/2006 3:44 am

HELLO,HAVE SEEN YOU IN CHAT A FEW TIMES NEVER SPOKE TO YOU,BUT YOU SEEM TO HAVE A GREAT DEMEANER ABOUT YOU.I JOINED THIS SITE A FEW WEEKS AGO,AND HAVE MADE SOME GOOD FRIENDS I FEEL WHERE YOU ARE COMING FROM WE HAVE A SIMLAR BLOG I WAS ALSO CHATTING FOR A FEW DAYS WITH A PERSON THINGS SEEMED TO BE GOING WELL HAD SAME INTREST,AND AGRRED TO MEET FOR DINNER WELL THE MAN SENT ME A PICTURE AND WAS VERY NICE LOOKING AND WAS BLK,WELL THE DAY ARRIVES FOR ARE SO CALLED MEETING AND I SAT AT THE BAR WAITING HE WALKS UP AND PUTS HIS HAND OUT TO GREET ME AND TO MY SURPRISE HE WAS WHITE THE SURPRISE CAUGHT ME OFF GUARD NOT SURE WHAT TO SAY BUT I WAS VERY ANGRY,MOST PEOPLE I HAVE CHATTED WITH KNOW I AM OPEN MINDED AND DO NOT NARROW MY CHOICES JUST TO A COLOR AS WELL DID HE SO I FEEL THERE WAS NO NEED FOR HIM TO LIE TO ME LIKE THAT.THAN HE BECAME ANGRY WITH ME BECAUSE I WANTED TO LEAVE.NOBODY HAS A RIGHT TO REPERSENT THEMSELVES AS ANOTHER PERSON AND SHOULD NO BETTER BUT FINDING THIS SITE HAS ALOT OF MISREPENTATION BEHIND IT.SORRY THAT PEOPLE FEEL THE NEED TO BE SOMETHING THAT MAKES THEM WORSE THAN THE PERSON THEY COULD BE.


swoosh5171 46M

3/14/2006 4:39 pm

Thanks for the input, I actually had a dialogue with the gentleman and he now understands my point of view, and I know where he was coming from with his comments as well.

"swoosh"


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