Persistance gone terribly wrong  

swooness 35F
879 posts
5/22/2006 3:42 am

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Persistance gone terribly wrong

Some would see persistance as an admirable trait. Some would see it being paired with dedication or devotion. Others may also see it as being tenacious, never giving up even with the going gets tough. But, what happens with it becomes an obsession; when the individual is so blinded by his reasoning and what he thinks he is doing is admirable that nothing could deter him from getting what he wants.

I have pretty much done everything except slapped this individual's face and he still will not leave me alone. However, I am sure he would interpret the slapping as some kinky foreplay. I have clearly stated that I did not want to see this individual and yet he floods my mailbox. I have told him politiely, screamed at him, even apoligized for any misleading by me.

Please help! What more do I need to tell him? Also, on a lighter note, do you have any obsessions of your own that erases any signs of logical thinking?


greendragon65 53M
396 posts
5/22/2006 7:10 am

The solution is simple, block his account from viewing and sending e-mails to you.

My obsession, if you can call it that, is collecting rare and fine wines. I guess it falls under this category since some wines could cost a small fortune and would be considered foolish and against any logical thinking since you could end up with some really expensive vinegar. The funny thing is, I rarely drink them, only on special occasions or maybe it's the fear of opening a bottle of vinegar.


swooness 35F

5/22/2006 3:29 pm

    Quoting greendragon65:
    The solution is simple, block his account from viewing and sending e-mails to you.

    My obsession, if you can call it that, is collecting rare and fine wines. I guess it falls under this category since some wines could cost a small fortune and would be considered foolish and against any logical thinking since you could end up with some really expensive vinegar. The funny thing is, I rarely drink them, only on special occasions or maybe it's the fear of opening a bottle of vinegar.
But that is what obsessions are...all annullment of logical thinking, order, and reasoning. Just the yearning to have what you desire and no satisfication until the deliverance of your prize.

I am a late bloomer when it comes to wines. Although not very experienced, I think I have become one who prefers the white wines...white zinfindel and chardonnay (my latest thrill). Too naive? ;


MrNuttz05 50M

5/22/2006 6:06 pm

I agree with the dragon! You are going to have to block this individual from contacting you... I have been on this site for a little while & I have seen some cute crushes turn into some horrid stalkings... Just be careful

Obsessions? My 'PRIVATE' porn stash is growing every fuckin' weekend...


rm_4wolfsr 59M

5/22/2006 6:50 pm

It really pisses me off that too many guys are like that.........can't take a hint even when it hits them right between the eyes. That kind of behavior gives all guys a bad .

As for obsessions, I go through cycles. For several weeks, sometimes even months I can't seem to read enough. And it doesn't matter what it is. Then all of the sudden I just stop. Usually when I pick up a new hobby or interest I attack it with such obsessive vigor that those close to me tend ot get annoyed with me.

(blogging is getting close to being an obsession, but I have it under control. I swear, I do!)


greendragon65 53M
396 posts
5/23/2006 12:18 pm

    Quoting swooness:
    But that is what obsessions are...all annullment of logical thinking, order, and reasoning. Just the yearning to have what you desire and no satisfication until the deliverance of your prize.

    I am a late bloomer when it comes to wines. Although not very experienced, I think I have become one who prefers the white wines...white zinfindel and chardonnay (my latest thrill). Too naive? ;
white wine is good, especially when you share a well chilled Chablis in a bucket of ice on a hot summer night. Reds are tougher, most of them in the grocery store have a Starburst effect, unless you find good mature wines in a specialty store.


swooness 35F

5/23/2006 1:27 pm

    Quoting rm_4wolfsr:
    It really pisses me off that too many guys are like that.........can't take a hint even when it hits them right between the eyes. That kind of behavior gives all guys a bad .

    As for obsessions, I go through cycles. For several weeks, sometimes even months I can't seem to read enough. And it doesn't matter what it is. Then all of the sudden I just stop. Usually when I pick up a new hobby or interest I attack it with such obsessive vigor that those close to me tend ot get annoyed with me.

    (blogging is getting close to being an obsession, but I have it under control. I swear, I do!)
The obessions that keep us on a one-mind track...feel like a race horse wearing those mask that show the only thing that matters, the finish line...your case, books...my case, Miss USA


swooness 35F

5/23/2006 1:29 pm

    Quoting MrNuttz05:
    I agree with the dragon! You are going to have to block this individual from contacting you... I have been on this site for a little while & I have seen some cute crushes turn into some horrid stalkings... Just be careful

    Obsessions? My 'PRIVATE' porn stash is growing every fuckin' weekend...
Pornos...amazing invention that one can never grow old of


rm_Bonerazor 39M

5/24/2006 3:57 pm

Be glad the individual can only stalk your email here on AdultFriendFinder. He could be a botter or spammer, or just an ass. By the way, you have told him the most simple yet powerful word that can be said right? That word being "no", which also happens to be the hardest word for most people to say. Don't apologize, be polite, passive, or continue to respond to him, he will stop eventually.

I'm obsessed with hording money. I spend it when it needs to be spent, but I rarely indulge my wants.


swooness 35F

5/25/2006 1:27 pm

    Quoting rm_Bonerazor:
    Be glad the individual can only stalk your email here on AdultFriendFinder. He could be a botter or spammer, or just an ass. By the way, you have told him the most simple yet powerful word that can be said right? That word being "no", which also happens to be the hardest word for most people to say. Don't apologize, be polite, passive, or continue to respond to him, he will stop eventually.

    I'm obsessed with hording money. I spend it when it needs to be spent, but I rarely indulge my wants.
but sometimes, "no" can mean "more please..." in the right context and with a slight shiver in the tone...

hording money is a good thing...something to have when to treat that special lady to something


rm_Bonerazor 39M

5/25/2006 8:30 pm

That's part of the reason, plenty there when I do want to indulge not only myself but a lovely lady as well.


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