doing coworkers  

sweetthing782 53F
82 posts
11/24/2005 9:54 pm

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

doing coworkers

well i broke the cardinal rule. i gave into lust and screwed a coworker. after months of wondering what it would be like to be with him and listening to all his big Talk, i found out that, that is exactly what it was -- talk. the whole day was filled with anticipation and in the end i had gotten a room and made it into a romantic setting. he arrived three hours later than expected and went right to the shower. after he came out of the shower he came to bed but without much fanfair and began talking about work. when the sex began at my initiation i began to realize that it wasn't going to be all that i had hoped for. the cell phone and the time was a big distraction for him (i always turn mine off)as he kept looking over my shoulder at the clock, almost like he was paying by the minute. almost to my orgasm he stops to ask me if i'm "done yet" when i say no, he continues to the end and remarks "bet you are now" how sweet. then laying together he again keeps looking at the clock and answering phone messages. finally after about the tenth time of making eye contact with the clock, i tell him he may as well go, and he replies "you don't have to tell me twice" talk about feeling "serviced" like one of the trucks he works on, only i think they get more of a stroking then i did. i mean i know we are in this for fun, but i think fun was left on the wrong side of the door that night. it has been difficult to go to work since then, but i'm the one that broke the cardinal rule and now i know why it is there.

powerpleasure3 46M

12/1/2005 8:30 pm

Is this true? That is horrible. Hang in there.

looking61954 63M

12/2/2005 10:29 am

Sorry for the problems your having. this is supposed to be fun. We all are dealing with the anticipation aspect of these kinds of relationships, what we expect and what we get are two different things, been there. I see a couple of things here that are happening to you. First, you got involved with a co-worker, I'll reserve advising against that I think you've learned that lesson. Second, it appears your looking for that loving relationship your missing with your husband, he didn't just have sex with you, you made love. Many of the guys you meet here are only looking for sex then ready to move on. I'd like to tell you that you'll find what you need here, I'd even moreso like to tell you that I could provide that loving/lovemaking relationship you miss. I can't promise that I wouldn't get nervous or not arrive late, but I can promise to put everything into our sexual experiance that I can, including inviting you into the shower, I can't think of a better place to start.

mrmorefun 54M

12/2/2005 11:06 am

sounds like you just need some fun and then some good old sex I will be in sf 12 /7 &8 looking for some fun 12/4 is last e-mail read before out of town

sweetthing782 53F

12/2/2005 9:25 pm

looking61954 appreciate your input but need to say right up front that i have a very loving relationship with my husbad we use toys and strap on but it is the human contact i miss as far as the feel of the real thing the passion of the throb you know...things a rubber cock can't give you. my husband understands and supports me...believe me i am only after great sex...i have all the love i can ask for from my husband.

sweetthing782 53F

12/2/2005 9:27 pm

hey tomkatt, thanks for the support, i've learned my lesson and all you say is true. your a wise couple of cats....

looking61954 63M

12/3/2005 7:53 am

Sweetthing, Sorry to come off like some kind of psycologist, I'm not, I'm an engineer. It just appeared like you might be searching for somithing we all know isn't likely to happen. I don't mean to be a pest, people say I am anyway. I'm glad you have such a loving, understanding and supportive husband, that alone makes things easier.
I wish my wife were as understanding of the things I need to do. Maybe you can help me with some of those issues. Oh, by the way I'm just like all the rest of the guys here, looking for, not just good but GREAT sex. I'd like to try to give you that same great experience.

wethot65 62M

12/3/2005 9:16 am

looks like you are going to have alot fun, with all these guys lining up for you!! Just hope you can find the time for me?Remember I'm the soft spoken one and can be very shy at first,o'kay?

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