Finding love outside the home  

sweeterthanhony3 55F
15 posts
9/28/2005 8:12 pm

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11/28/2007 5:47 am

Finding love outside the home

As of 6-30-06 I have been on this site a year. I have meet nice men here in chatting with those that live out of state as will as those in my state an city.
I am not getting any compassion or pleasure at home so I came here. I have chatted with some real men an then have chatted with the not so hot men. An if there is one out there just waiting for me than page me please an we shall see.

love69196301 55M
16 posts
9/29/2005 5:47 am

yes that is true,and i know it will be soon ,that it happens.and when it does you will be glad you did this


9/29/2005 10:11 am

Only person that can truely make you happy is yourself....its up to you to find that happiness. Do whatever it takes....but be careful and choose wisely. Good luck!

rm_brk65 78M
13 posts
9/30/2005 6:24 pm

open for fun is right, happiness must come from within yuorself. Look there, its waiting for you.

141 posts
10/1/2005 5:50 pm

I agree with open4fun. You have to please yourself befofe you can please anyone else. I believe that the needs of the many out weigh the needs of the one, but the needs of the one have to be taken care of or the one will not exist anymore.


nice_guy4u2005 58M
6 posts
10/14/2005 7:35 am

I think the key word you used is "compassion". That is something that is only derrived from a emotional or mental connection in my opinion. It is completely different from purely sexual. When passion is entered into the mix, that is what truely makes the "sparks fly'. If two people are only working towards an orgasm, that makes the entire process a bit shallow. If I just want an orgasm, I can handle that on my own. When passion enters into the mix, it becomes much deeper. Passion is what makes all the other parts of making love that much more special. Maybe I'm crazy in all this. I'm married as well. The passion is gone. That is what I'm the saddest about. Two roommates can have sex. I want more than that. Is there anyone else that wants passion?

Taedhe 107M

10/17/2005 3:28 pm

It's very important to please yourself. But it's sure nice to find others with whom to share love, pleasure, likes, dislikes, heart, mind, soul, and such with another person.
One should be comfortable in one's company, but it's all gotta be within reason. Too much of myself and no one else around makes me lonely.
Too much of another person is an imbalance. Too much of another person's hopes, dreams, desires, and stuff becomes too much to bear as well. There has to be a balance of give and take.
Yes... you have to learn how to love yourself most of all, as no one else will love you if you don't know how to love yourself. It's your responsibility to do your part in making a relationship of any kind work.
Nevertheless, it's not your responsibility to put out all the emotion, do all the work, and make all the effort in a relationship if the other person can't understand his/her responsibility of the same in reciprocation, does not wish to work as hard, does not wish to look at him/herself before making demands on your heart and soul, or simply refuses or stops caring enough to do his/her part.
A relationship is the hardest job anyone will ever do... and it takes ALL the people involved giving heart, soul, body, mind, and strength 111% 100% of the time.
I am sorry you have to have a negative situation, and have got to the point in which you feel like this. I wish you always the best in the situation.

rm_qtounge 50M
1 post
12/7/2005 8:46 pm

extremely hot & erotic, meet her the first evening i entered the site sweeter then as horny as i could ever emagine from just reading her experiences' had me real riled up ,plur i had a few brews , and was say some pretty hasty things's , really meaning to add fuel to the fire. i still kind of drop in on now and cause i know it' gonna be hot.
then i talk to her the next day or so, she could not have nicer and i thank her.
not sure if it from that first evening but i sence a cold shoulder when i'm surfing the site, sweeter has always been kind & outing to me along with a couple others and i either have let them know or will. can tell if she is sweeter or horny.

rm_joeyneedsum 59M
2 posts
2/28/2006 9:52 pm

if u marry me u can still do anything u wanna

rm_life_seeker 69M
4 posts
6/20/2006 10:25 pm

As a new member of AdultFriendFinder, I'd like to know how things have gone since your last post. An update is needed here. Hope to find it instructive as to what I might expect.

1funguy59 58M

6/24/2006 12:50 pm

Yes, please tell us how your search is progressing. I'd also love to hear some of your fantasies that get you off.

1 post
11/7/2006 6:59 am

what is your hotmail????

rm_tomytune 70M
42 posts
3/29/2007 7:41 am

Wow, reading these posts I understand what you mean by real men and not so hot men.

shanei_405 63M

9/17/2007 7:23 am

There are all kinds of people on AdultFriendFinder....most are good hearted...and some.....just plain F-heads ( males AND female).
You really have to chat on & offline with some to get a real feel ( pun??).

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