sweet_est_1 48F
15 posts
2/23/2006 10:20 am

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm


Funny peopel alway say they would love to have the kind of life where they get the best of both worlds. Yet I cannot find a man to pony up. I am searching for a man who is a good provider and loves life. I want someone who can be a great friend, supportive of me and I to him.
With that in mind though I have to be honest. I have always had a thing for watching my man with other women. I want a life with threesomes. I am not interested in other men but do love to be with other women myslef. I guess I want the best of both worlds. I do though want the option of sex with other men should I desire that.
I hear men say all the time that this si thier dream. To have a woman who will allow them other women. I want the good stuff. I do not care who my man sleeps with as long as he does not lie about it. I however am selfish and want the good stuff.... cuddle on the sofa, the moral support the good stuff.
Maybe Iam asking too much.
Maybe I cannot have my cake and eat it too.

GangBangCple 67M/56F

2/23/2006 11:33 am

No , you are not the only one that wants this , there are lots on this site with the same feelings

And most men dream of this FMF 3 sums , but their wifes wont ,
happy searching

tjinsoutheastpa1 54M
499 posts
2/23/2006 12:03 pm

One question.....

Where were you when I was 21!!!!!!

Good luck finding what you want.

fantasylover_05 63M

2/23/2006 12:06 pm

Hmmmmmm.... seems like you should not have a terribly difficult time finding a man to share your dream!!

Welcum to the blogs!!

Good luck in your search!

sweet_est_1 48F
2 posts
2/23/2006 12:09 pm

You know I see that but I think still I want to much. Men do not seem to pony up when a woman offers all this.

rm_trooperajt2 50M
1 post
2/23/2006 1:08 pm

you sound like a person that knows what she wants out of life, but at the same time put to many restrictions on yourself. since i have joined this service, i have seen the same thing on countless occasions. WOMEN WITH RESTRICTIONS!!!!!!! if you want a open minded person who can help fulfill your fantasies, you also must be open minded. some times the anwser you are looking for is not always in the place or people you are looking.

best of wishes.......

bootielover3 57M

2/23/2006 1:27 pm

Speaking strictly for myself fmf on the occasions when I have been in the room (can't say participated, had to set and watch) is little different than watching porno's. Now when I have participated in mfm it was very enjoyable because the focus was on the woman (I have never thought about Bi) and giving the woman pleasure is by far more enjoyable than setting at the foot of the bed watching.

Though I am not overly experienced in threesomes (3x fmf, 4x mfm) this could be a reason that some guy's though they have fanstacized about two women with them, they shy away.

My opinion, but like asses it could be smellier than others. lol!

rm_utahvirgin 34M
2 posts
2/23/2006 1:34 pm

I dont' think you should have a hard time finding anyone either. Heck, I'd be up for that. I'd love to get together sometime!

rm_utahvirgin 34M
2 posts
2/23/2006 1:35 pm

Hey, I'd be up for it. That sounds perfect to me!

greatguyintul 56M
2102 posts
2/23/2006 2:36 pm

I would LOVE to have someone in my life as well. Someone to be a friend, supportive, be willing to explore sexually in all kinds of ways, the whole nine yards. Am I asking too much? Please take a look at my blog if you get a chance.

Talk about PASSION, ROMANCE and EROTIC... CLICK HERE: greatguyintul

rm_4afewhrs 54M/50F
9 posts
2/25/2006 3:17 am and my wife met on line 8 years ago,both knowing about her bisexuality and our mutual desire for's great..we share the love of pretty women and our sex life is incredible..but we didn't just jump have to be secure in your relationship for this to work,let's face it,it's not worth ruining our marriage over,so we took our time exploring each other first..but now we just love our erotic get aways..playtime for has brought us closer and deepened our love..Honesty was the key..GOOD LUCK in your journey and to you guys out there who think it's easy ,remember if you truely love your wife, jealousy is a 2way street,you have to accept the fact that a women can please your love in ways that you can't...we don't kiss the same..we don't touch the same..the bond between 2 women is different and still so wonderful..
ps.we have a little fantasy on our blog,come check it out if you like sweet_est...have fun

greatguyintul 56M
2102 posts
2/26/2006 8:13 pm

Hey sweet_est! Would you like to hook up sometime? I'm serious about this, are you? Have a great day!

Talk about PASSION, ROMANCE and EROTIC... CLICK HERE: greatguyintul

sweet_est_1 48F
2 posts
2/28/2006 6:29 am

So I have read all the comments and one thing stuck out in my mind... "I am putting to many restrictions" How did I do that? I know what I want and do not feel I should settle for anything less. I want a soulmate someone to share my time with. NOT to own my time but to share with me the things I enjoy and he enjoys also. Maybe this site is not the right place for such a search but I think it is. I want a man to cook for and take care of and have wild sex with. I do not think that is too much to ask! MY search continues and I WILL find what it is I am looking for. Like I said I do not feel I put up restrictions but lets face it we all know what we want and none of us should settle for anything less. Life is too short to settle.

gumball197332_Y 45M
1 post
2/28/2006 10:10 am

why cant all women be like you. this is the relationship i want but i also want to watch them with someone else. i believe that sex should be enjoyed if you bother want other people go for it.

mcaapret 55M
2 posts
3/19/2006 9:12 am

You aren't asking too much. I would be flattered to be by yourside and watch you enjoy the pleasures we both so dearly desire. I am free to be contacted at mcaapafret at or mcaapret at


Dixon_Hill_2006 58M

5/21/2006 8:25 am

One thing everyone failed to mention is you should be looking into swinging sites such as Swing Life Style . com, or Swapper Net . com. You will find people such as yourself and/or couples. You may even find them right in your own neck of the woods. BTW...spaces were put to prevent the site from ripping out the references.

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