Men! Why are they so callus????  

sweet_candy_girl 41F
19 posts
3/27/2006 6:23 pm

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Men! Why are they so callus????

I meet a guy on here. We chatted a while. Decided to meet in a public place. Chatted a lot more. All the time this guy keeps telling me I should be taken. Keeps asking why I am not taken. I don't know. We have a really nice time. We talked for hours. Kissed. Touched. It was really nice. We ended up screwing in my car in a deserted place. Everything was good. A lil cramped but good. I enjoyed myself. After everything I drove him back to his car. We talked a lil more. He says "let's get together tomorrow." I am cool with that. He tells me he will call me but I never hear from him. I saw him online and messaged him a lil while ago but he won't talk to me. I never got his number so I can't call him. Why do guys do this? It isn't like I was looking for marriage. I was looking for someone to play with every now and then. Why are guys so callus??????

Well, I finally heard back from that guy. Got some excuse about a family member in a car wreck. Don't believe it to be true. Now he is ignoring me. Good Riddance! I am prolly better off not knowing him. I have moved on to greener pastures. Hopefully this new experience will be better. Thank you to everyone for all the advice and compliments.

patrick8463 55M
124 posts
3/27/2006 7:55 pm



MaggiesWishes 61F

3/27/2006 8:07 pm

Welcome to the "real world of men with little minds".
First off ... even if you only want to be a casual friend, he should have more respect then to take you in the car, on the first date, unless he was so HOT that fire ran wild. Then, secondly, if he was that HOT, it was only sex, right?
That so suxs!
Sorry it happen to you.
It's not just here in cyberspace, but in Real Time too.
Happens all to often ... cause men are fickle.
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warm wishes

rm_itsgoodNyou 44M

3/27/2006 8:20 pm

Wow I dont know what to say about that, but I'm sorry not every guy can handle that I guess. I met a girl while working in georgia but I had a lot better results she drove to charlotte just to c me we hit it off but she knew what it was and it was so good, sure would like to chat with you more C-ya

Jeepidiot 43M

3/27/2006 8:41 pm

Well...because we can be complete pigs.

You are on a site for people to find other people to have sex with though. While you might be looking for a buddy, he's probably looking for as much ass as he can get. Sex so soon gave him just what he wanted and he has moved on.

Sucks but it happens. People are here for different reasons. It's just a matter of finding out if the person you are interested in is there for the same thing before you move farther.

rm_HDWoody1 45M
65 posts
3/27/2006 8:55 pm

Because most of them have not been married yet I'm separated now
so I would never say why aren't you taken it just shows how
insecure you are with your self,
well if you ever meet me it wont be like that
Best of luck!!!

rm_Shortdogg65 52M
672 posts
3/27/2006 8:57 pm

Not all of us are like that. He may have had his reasons for treating you the way he did. What should had was the balls to give some explanation besides a cold shoulder. Shortdogg

angelofmercy5 60F
17881 posts
3/27/2006 9:07 pm

Welcome to the blogs!

rm_KnowStuff 57M
240 posts
3/28/2006 12:55 am

He's nuggin futz hun. Something of course doesn't smell right about this guy. You're an attractive woman and I have no idea what he may be thinking. I suspect the problem is him and not you though so move on.

Hell move near me lol you sexy thing. If you need a passionate guy who doesn't flee... and welcome to the blogs.

rm_keys42 64M
1 post
3/28/2006 9:15 am

It's just the way some men it for the thrill of the hunt and just another belt notch....something to tell the other guys about. Remember, we're not all like that though. Next time, maybe try talking an little more, but not in person, and if he gets you hot enough, then meet. If you're looking for sex, then you make the call, but try to keep things on your terms. Bets of luck----keys

MONA_14 31F

3/28/2006 10:56 am

you are invited to be our Friends

Rod8828 57M

3/31/2006 11:17 pm

Man, I can't believe somebody hasn't said something like "Why are 'people' like that?" Is being cowardly, callus, or cold, traits only available to the male of the species? It's not a gender thing. If you're an asshole, then you're an asshole. Men can be pussies and women can be dicks. Damn, quote of the day. Do I get any props for that?

sweet_candy_girl replies on 4/1/2006 8:50 am:
I never said women were above this behavior. If you hadn't noticed I only dealt with men.

rm_colljay 40M
4 posts
4/7/2006 8:40 pm

hey its sad and I surely won't do that.. can we chat and meet and meet agian..

btc1963 54M

4/16/2006 9:31 pm

Well, none of us were there to see it, nor hear yall's conversation. Unfortunately, people say what you want to hear to get by the moment. It's like a defensive wall. Some keep a strait face when doing it. Maybe one of you came on to strong and the other sensed it. We don't know. But, don't let it get you down. Just be prepared next time. Good luck, and be careful.

discreetready2mt 40M

4/17/2006 10:08 pm

i can't speak for most men but not calling or showing up when you're supposed to is a major pet peeve of mine. and just so you know, its not only guys that do this. most of the girls i have dated in this town have been just like that. i'll call you, but my phone never rings; lets go out, but i'm going somewhere with someone else. its ridiculous and you are definitely better off without someone like that in your life. happy hunting and i you need someone to chat with call me!

manny29577 44M
6 posts
7/9/2006 8:34 pm

Just keep walking and you'll see that there is some good and fun guys .

It was just bad luck this time

Hope too meet you this is my first time doing this

crate691000 43M

3/29/2008 11:08 am

not all men arelike that. Me person this is a discreet activity so If find a good partner, then I would rather repeat activities with her than continue the risks of meeting strangers. a good regular thing is better to me than a hit or miss what am I getting my self into thing

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