Is there anyone that is serious?  

rm_sweathing8 40M/39F
17 posts
10/16/2005 6:37 pm

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Is there anyone that is serious?


Well from the looks of things people really do read these things so I thought I might give this a try! I'm kinda wondering if anyone is actually serious about the things they say they are looking for on this sight. I strongly beleive in fulfilling your fantasies, especailly in the world of marraige! It creates a different level of respect in your relationship. Not only respect but excitment! I just can't seem to find anyone that feels the same way. We have experimented with another girl once with no help from this sight but with help from a good freind and I would really like to take this fantasy world farther. If you beleive it or not it's not even for him, it's for me! It was so fulfilling, so exciting, so beyond what words can explain to feel the touch of another woman. Is anyone else having any luck??

julienjul57 36M
1 post
10/17/2005 1:56 am

Salut, très jolie photo. Vous êtes d'ou ?


rm_rhd03883 54M
4 posts
10/17/2005 9:12 pm

Have found that a lot of people on here are not serius about following thru with their fantasies. Lots of chat but no action. I think they get the reply and then dream of what might happen if they had the courage to act. It takes a large set of balls to meet someone in person for the first time with the intent of the meeting being sex. Who am I to judge - if this helps them with their sex life I guess it's a good thing. I am new to this and don't know how I would handle a first meeting but am at least willing to take a chance.


rm_sweathing8 40M/39F

10/19/2005 6:17 am

I guess I can understand what you are saying! I have no second doubts about meeting someone that matches what I am looking for! If we get there and can't go through with it at least we have met someone new! That could amount to a lifetime friend. I guess I should try to understand the feelings on the other side before I try to judge people, thank you for making me see that! I hope you have a wonderful day!


Outdoorboy469 59M
2 posts
10/24/2005 2:20 pm

About BEING NERVOUS on your first meeting. Who are you trying to be ?if you are yourself, everything will be just fine. Relax dont rehearse anything except maybe "hello" stand up straight smile and everything will be just fine. Its not hard if your confortable with yourself....if your not go out and practice saying hello to people in supermarkets, gas stations, etc. Say hello to every person that comes within two arm lengths of you especially oppsite sex even if they are not so great looking make thier day !! Ones that respond back extend your hand and shake theirs and introduce your self by first name. At the end of two weeks you will be over your phobia of meeting and introducing yourself to others. And then you can come back here tell us all about the new interesting people you met. Because 90% of you on here I bet havent met anyone, what the fuck is this a "voyristic spasm". I get laid more on non-sexual personals than this booty snatch site. For Christ sakes I'm beginning to think 90% of the ads are fake, put up by the founders of this place. Get with the program !!!


Outdoorboy469 59M
2 posts
10/24/2005 2:21 pm

About BEING NERVOUS on your first meeting. Who are you trying to be ?if you are yourself, everything will be just fine. Relax dont rehearse anything except maybe "hello" stand up straight smile and everything will be just fine. Its not hard if your confortable with yourself....if your not go out and practice saying hello to people in supermarkets, gas stations, etc. Say hello to every person that comes within two arm lengths of you especially oppsite sex even if they are not so great looking make thier day !! Ones that respond back extend your hand and shake thiers and introduce your self by first name. At the end of two weeks you will be over your phobia of meeting and introducing yourself to others. And then you can come back here tell us all about the new interesting people you met. Because 90% of you on here I bet havent met anyone, what the fuck is this a "voyristic spasm". I get laid more on non-sexual personals than this booty snatch site. For Christ sakes I'm beginning to think 90% of the ads are fake, put up by the founders of this place. Get with the program !!!


rm_rhd03883 54M
4 posts
10/24/2005 7:46 pm

You can never have too many friends - even ones that you don't sleep with. Take care.


fgocpl4fun 53M/44F

11/6/2005 8:32 pm

hello, we are a new couple to this site(one dday),so no responses or meetings yet here. we have had a few experiences with both women & men(singles) in the past to great enjoyment. we are anxiously wating to meet another couple or group and possibly try a few other fantasies. yes, we are serious about meeting others, wether it be for dinner & a few drinks, sex, or even friendship. all would be acceptable to us. hope to meet you soon & good luck "hunting".


rm_screwmeeyes 53M/54F

11/8/2005 10:38 am

Hi, we aren't too new at this "game" most people play anymore, butt aren't super experienced either! The "one" email brush with people still confuses us, and then we too feel that it must have been for self gain. That's all good, if it works for them, butt it just isn't being honest at all to the serious ones looking. Profiles can be quite decieving also, but hats off to the ones who mean what they say!! First meets for us are auxillerating, just the "unknown" we find exciting and erotic that just maybe things will get sexual! But, we go into each meet, {when serious people are available}, with absolutely NO expectations, just hopes of them being nice, fun, sexy, etc., lol! Friendship ISN'T what the majority of profiles are looking for, and that seems so cold to us,,,,,,,,,meeting for the first,,,,,,,,,,,and last time, isn't the route we prefer to take. One would think with all the supposed "bi" girls out there, it shouldn't be "hard" at all for the girls to play!!! Anyways, thought we'd respond to this,,,,,thanx for the opportunity! And yes,,,,,,,we do follow thru, doesn't mean there'll be sex, but being honest is the only way! bi bi


fgocpl4fun 53M/44F

11/8/2005 4:31 pm

we don't necessarily like the one time "meets" either, but still like to consider them a 'contact'. we too, are serious about this a very much want to meet others with the same hopes of sex, & more than just once. to never be contacted again after a meeting leaves us wondering what we did wrong. we are open to most anything that all participating are comfortable with, but would like to meet more than just single men. we also are very interested in meeting couples, single females,& groups(whether they be men, women, or more than 1 couple at a time). hope to hear from all of you soon!


rm_sweathing8 40M/39F

11/8/2005 8:55 pm

I would love to share that excitement of the first meet with someone. But from where I sit it's not reality. And don't get me wrong but it doesn't have to be for sex, just knowing that you are both there with the same thoughts I think would be enough and if more happened then it happened! I just want to meet someone that is spontanious enough to make that first attempt!!


rm_screwmeeyes 53M/54F

11/13/2005 2:45 pm

hey again, hope everyone is doing glate!!!! Just want to say that we do enjoy those exciting meets, and if all systems are a go, put the effort into making it happen on our end! Just bi meeting doesn't mean there'll be any sex, but how will you know for sure if you don't??? Have a great day,,,,,bi bi


69EvilAngel 43F
1 post
11/14/2005 5:30 am

You seem like nice people and I thought I'd check your blog out. I a just loooove the "gentleman" who likes to think he knows what everyone's intentions and actions are! My mommie taught me how to talk to people when I was 3. I'm one of the biggest flirts out there... My partner LOVES it, and I love meeting new people. I'm looking at meeting on a different level. Sorry, buddy, but not every person I talk to, shake hands with or breathe in their direction is a potential fuck for me... Guess my mindset is waaaay off, right? For someone so busy fucking, looks like you've got enough time to read blogs and post responses...????

Back to the subject... I understand where you're coming from with questioning people's true intent on posting here. I'll be honest with you, for me personally, I'm being VERY leary as to whom I actually contact. I know waaaay too many people throughout the state, and because of my future career plans, as well as my family's current careers, I have to be very selective. I've already had one potential incounter (outside of this site) turn into a nightmare. But on the other hand, I had 3 experiences (sans full out sex with outside partner) that went very well. All I can say is hang in there. I have friends (a married couple) who have recently signed up here and ended up having great success in their search! Good luck and hope to hear from you sometime!


rm_icancum2005 36F
4 posts
11/14/2005 1:53 pm

I have been looking for someone to act on words as well and I am very, very ready to be part of your experiments - how do we get in touch with each other? AdultFriendFinder


rm_rhd03883 54M
4 posts
11/15/2005 9:15 am

Have learned more from this blog than I ever thought. All but one seem to be honest, thoughtful replies. Hope everyone is getting some and if not let me know.


rm_sweathing8 40M/39F

12/7/2005 6:49 am

Well it happened again! I was stood up last night again!! This time she wanted to meet or at least she said she did!I let her bring it up thinking that I was to pushy or something! I must be old fashioned or something because it really digusts me to find that all these people are so deceving! If you want something in life go for it and if your not sure it's best left alone untill you decide!I am just so, I don't even know what I am,disappointed I guess, that so many people would go to this length just to stand someone up. There must some kind of joy in knowing that somewhere someone is waiting on you and you have no intention on showing up or calling or emailing them ever again!!

So Pissed Off


tongueoligist 49M

1/9/2006 7:19 am

Hi sexy how are you? Just wanted to let you know that meeting you would never be a problem, your delicious , love the nipple ring may Inibble it?


tongueoligist 49M

1/9/2006 7:25 am

oh the fun of doing something decadent and forbiddin is what is all about. theres nothing like the first kiss when you know your doing wrong but the fun that follows is pureely enjoyible. Would love to meet you for something fun and exciting.


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