superitaliano4u 38M
93 posts
2/21/2006 11:19 am

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So a friend of mine is engaged. After a business trip, she comes home to discover a used condom in the bathroom trashcan. Her fiancée pleads innocent claiming that he was just trying to see if he could cum with a condom since he's always had trouble cumming while using one during sex (run-on sentence, I know). Well, dispite my warnings, she stayed with him. Luckily, she didn't really believe his excuse. She's now sleeping with a few other men and god knows what he's doing. She doesn't want to end it.

Why the hell do people put themselves in this situation?

Why do people cheat?

Why don't people break up with their cheating others?

Why aren't people comfortable being single?

Why don't people learn in affairs of the bed and the battlefield?

Is the taboo of cheating just THAT sexy?

rm_saintlianna 46F
15466 posts
2/21/2006 11:52 am

All I can tell that its the way of the world since the beginning of time. I dont know why, but it is........

KMA5 41M
771 posts
2/21/2006 12:19 pm

There is something in the water. It has to be If the marriage is breached to a point where there is not trust or loyalty, why stay there. If you were in a job, church, political party that treated you unfairly I am sure the logical answer would be to leave. Then again there is always something to be said about swinging.... and it applies to all the above examples. cool

crazygurl2xx 58F

2/21/2006 12:25 pm

Why don't they just have an open marriage and take the lying and cheating out of the equation??? Who says you have to agree to be monogamous in a realtionship if both choose not to? But why lie? The lying is the hard one to swallow.

SO why aren't people comfortable being other-than-manogamous however you want to define it?

superitaliano4u 38M

2/21/2006 12:54 pm

saintiliana - true... I just like to ask why to make people's heads explode

KMA5 - I wanna try religious swinging, I'll go jewish when I feel like it and maybe if being christian feels sexy, I can do that for a night of hot, uptight, sinless, righteousness!

Crazygurl - I think some people can't handle the fact of their parnter is having sex with others being so "in their face" as it is when in an open marriage. I know that some of my friends (mostly girls) know that their other has been cheating and keep it in a back pocket if they need a "get out of deepshit free" card.

"Well I knew you've fucked my sister and I've stayed with you!"

sassybelle21 33F  
13313 posts
2/21/2006 4:26 pm

I've talked about the whole cheating/adultery/infidelity issue a lot of times on my blog already. Whatever it is, it's wrong in my eyes to cheat on one's partner. No point of being together if there is a need to cheat regardless of the cheating reasons.

miysha1 53F

1/22/2012 7:09 pm

I was never able to deal with cheating. Sometimes being alone is more horrific.

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But you have to dig through a lot of shit to find it!

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