what's in a wink  

MsLoveRose 34F  
2019 posts
6/14/2005 8:54 am

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what's in a wink

So im on a quest to show a few that i care....by sending winks...hotlist additions...and little notes....and in return i get these more than overwhelmed messages from these people who think i have made their day....the only reason i have sent something in the first place is because they have touched me in a way i saw fit that i could at least send some kind of warmth back...it feels good....makes me feel all mushy and hot inside....so today im just wondering about what the winks really mean....i think it says so much than what it actually says...

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GleesFlakyShawl 51M
1620 posts
6/14/2005 11:02 am

well i am not sure if winks just have one unique meaning, its just a way of communicating to someone, let the other member know u can be interested in something (profile, u just like a pic, whatever)
also,, keep in mind that standard male members can not email anybody, so the winks can help

pussinboots4u 51M/48F

6/14/2005 12:13 pm

Winks are perfect for when you're looking and your cupid settings don't match up - cupid setting aren't always perfect, so you allow the other person to know that you found them interesting and they can go and check your profile and see if they like you - send you a wink back, email you, etc. We try to look at every wink and everyone that has added us to their hotlist and if we are interested we reply with an email, although it can be very overwhelming at times!

MsLoveRose 34F  
2432 posts
6/14/2005 1:54 pm

that is the truth...i just figured it was a way to show some sign of interest but it has proven to be more than that!!!

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coulditbeyou25 56M
27 posts
6/16/2005 3:58 am

Depends on the culture, no? To me, in the context of this site, it is a small flirtation.

redswallow777 49M
6811 posts
6/16/2005 2:08 pm

The problem perhaps is that the men here are not usually at the receiving end of winks so they can take on a bit more meaning. Don't worry about it too much though. You are a sweetheart for being so free with your attentions....

MsLoveRose 34F  
2432 posts
6/17/2005 1:29 am

thanks red....coulditbe i think you are right!!!

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jimxxx1971 48M

6/24/2005 7:03 am

redmustang91 58M  
8917 posts
6/24/2005 8:48 am

Well it is always nice to get a wink, even if you don't get anything more than a note saying you look nice even if not requested as a sex partner!

MsLoveRose 34F  
2432 posts
6/24/2005 5:39 pm

thanks for the wink jimxxx

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