Things to consider  

sunflower75287 41F
53 posts
8/12/2006 6:30 am

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11/3/2006 3:45 am

Things to consider

Let me just start this post saying that I enjoy getting mail through AdultFriendFinder. Whether its someone I'm interested in, someone with just a compliment, someone interested even if I'm not, etc. Its great to login and see I have email.
However...There are a few things to take into consideration when you email me/women/everyone really.

First of all... if you can't see their profile...maybe you should send in your first message a question asking what I am looking for.
If you have the ability to view profiles...for freakin gawds sake, LOOK and READ the damn profile before you send mail.

Second... if someone replies with one of those quick replies or sends a message saying they are not interested...take it for what it is. It means we're NOT interested. This is not something to debate. This is not something to send a reply back ridiculing someone like a child because they weren't interested in you. This is something to take at face value and move on.

Third of...People tend to be busy with their lives... some people work...some people are not 24/7 at their computers ready to get messages and reply within the first day you send a message. Be freakin patient! Sending an email saying that you can't sleep until you get a response from me just makes you sound very desperate, clingy, co-dependent (not especially good traits).

I guess thats it for now...
I wonder if I get any mail on here after this post!

oh well...

rm_iwannatellu 46F
933 posts
8/12/2006 6:49 am

great post


rm_DharmicDawn 67M

8/12/2006 6:53 am

'Sounds like basic manners to me.

I'll test it out, if that is okay with you, when I go Gold this upcoming week.


angelofmercy5 60F
17881 posts
8/12/2006 7:59 am

This was a great post!

marcusgerald 44M

8/12/2006 11:33 am

I like this post also. Sure you'll get some email. I'll send you one and yap about myself a bit.

TrueTxGtlman 54M

8/12/2006 12:31 pm

You are 110% correct but with most men that don't understand that there is about 10,000 men to every 1 woman on this site and not all of them are active or even a real person. So the real odds are about 25,000 to 1 and then if you figure the odds of someone that is wanting what you are offering it tends to make the odds even worse. I would be the true odds for most men on here is around 50,000 to 1. So once you get the idea of how things work you don't get as fed up with the lack of good responses.

The AdultFriendFinder Guru *lol*

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