does anal hurt??  

sue4691958 60F
22 posts
7/8/2006 5:52 am

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5/15/2007 3:00 pm

does anal hurt??


Out of the blue my hubby wants to do my ass! What is with him, is he seeing anouther woman? does he know I here online at AdultFriendFinder? I have only meet one man here for real and well I got a case of guilt and called it off after giving him a BJ. Is giving a BJ really cheating? Not sure about that. What should I do?

papyrina 52F
21133 posts
7/8/2006 6:50 am

read up on it and make sure you know what to do and that he knows how to do it,plenty of blogs on the topic.

it hurts me but others swear its the best,everyone is differant,


I'm a

and
i'm here to stay


ella1966 52F
1528 posts
7/8/2006 6:54 am

Well, hon it depends whether you like Bill Clinton or not, answer to that question. I think it is, but I am "of the other crowd", so to speak!

Yes, anal does hurt, but not necessarily...you need to be prepared, stretched first with a toy of your choosing, like a dildo used especially for the anus (though there are specially designed anal plugs or "butt" plugs) and you need to be massaged and relaxed there with lots of lube (some people prefer a water-based lube for here) and most important, take it real slow!

Enjoy!

ella X


akron42   
2375 posts
7/8/2006 6:57 am

My second husband wanted anal all the time. I enjoyed it too, but now, years later, it has become painful. Like ella said, take it slow and use LOTS of lube. Good luck!


rm_madred006 46M
438 posts
7/8/2006 7:55 am

hi ,well if someone tried to shove a carrott up my ass id b pretty pissed lol


MysteryDreamer 58F

7/12/2006 3:56 am

Dont know sweetie


VenusDiaries 63M
867 posts
7/15/2006 2:17 pm

A BJ is sex and so is anal. Use a good lube.


tonguetorch69 65M

8/4/2006 10:19 am

IF A WOMAN COMPLAINS THAT ANAL IS PAINFUL,I'LL QUIT AND NOT PRESSURE HER ABOUT IT ANYMORE.AS FAR AS A BLOW JOB BEING CONSIDERED CHEATING,I DON'T THINK IT IS.MY WIFE WON'T LET ME EAT HER PUSSY SO I LOOK FOR LADIES THAT ARE WILLING TO LET ME EAT THEM OUT.NOT LOOKING TO LEAVE MY WIFE (JUST YET) JUST SATISFYING MY CRAVING FOR THE TASTE OF A WOMAN.


LOVES2LICK0069 76M

8/4/2006 11:08 am

is a blow job considered cheating? not in my book.i love to eat pussy but my wife says it's nasty.so,i look for women that will let me eat them just so i can taste their juices.read my profile and you can figure out how to get in touch with me if you ever want eaten out.


rm_toolman36722 63M

4/23/2008 3:18 am

i aggree with the Bill Clinton thought. But he is wrong cheating is what you feel inside. On the anal, unless you really have wanted or fantasiezed about it. Do not do it. Help your husband find someone who likes anal, like my ex wife and help him do her in the ass.


FibreFunnyCeder 74M
15 posts
4/29/2008 12:10 pm

Sue,
Eatin' ain't cheatin'.

My boy Bill said so.

BTW, we're neighbors and I'd be happy to hold this philosophical conversation in persin.

Rob


rm_zooloo19r 64M

11/23/2008 2:37 pm

Sex is sex BJ or eating is still sex. As for anal, take the advice of stretching and a lot of lube. Make sure he goes slow. If he is over 8 and thick it could be very painful. For God's sake don't let him switch holes in mid stream without washing up real well and switching condoms.


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