As the days go by...  

stripgirl06 42F
61 posts
5/8/2006 9:27 am

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5/15/2006 9:34 pm

As the days go by...

Each day, I seem to put a lot more thought into what I'm looking for. Right now, I'm looking for hobbies (something to keep me occupied when no ones around) and new friends to fill the void when my own company isn't enough.

Last week I met someone, just for sex. As we progress through it, more and more I understood that I'm not about to find myself, from under someone else.

I'm not abandoning sex, but it's going to sit on the backburner. I've realized that I have to have a physical and emotional connection to whoever I have sex with. It's no good when you can't laugh and talk about it.

In the long run, I guess I'm looking for Friends with benefits. Benefriends as I like to say. But I'm looking for the friend part first. I need to be mentally stimulated to get everything else going...

That's all for now.

smilin273 45M
9 posts
5/11/2006 3:39 pm

Stripgirl...sounds like your workin through this thats awesome..good luck and remain positive about yourself mentally and physically.."Benefriends" is a good idea low stress low pressure..hope 2 chat soon..hang in there its almost patio time.......Keep Smilin

rm_doug_vr 49M
58 posts
5/12/2006 10:29 am

Benefriends, I like that name. It is nice to be able to talk & laugh with someone about it after. I'm that way too.
I hope you do find yourself, & I know from experience it's not from under someone else, or above them, as the case might be.
Playing guitar & reading keep me occupied most of the time when no one else is around. It's good to have a creative outlet.
I hope to hear from you soon, & I hope your doing well,


rm_philly68333 38M
12 posts
5/14/2006 12:57 pm

Thats what all girls need sweets!!!

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