Does adultfriendfinder work?  

stig_in_shanghai 45M
12 posts
9/4/2006 10:31 am

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9/18/2006 3:23 am

Does adultfriendfinder work?

I have been signed up on AdultFriendFinder for some months, here is my results:

1. Met some girls I chatted with, of which 1 lost interest when she heard I have a gf, and 1 which is not in Shanghai anymore
2. A girl I chatted with and met a couple of times. We had sex. I got the clear impression she is looking for a bf (a rich one!) So that affair is on hold.
3. Some rejects coz I have a gf

I cant say if this website works. Perhabs my experience is too short. And having a gf allready is not the best starting point.

I am puzzled by all the chinese girls who are looking for boyfriends on a website which on the top states "find a sex-partner".

Maybe they connect bf and sex.

I would say, that it is easier for me to go out in the nightlife in Shanghai and hook up with a girl, than through the website (so far).

sassybelle21 33F  
13313 posts
9/4/2006 6:10 pm

It's individual case. It might not work for you but it works for others

rm_thewaywewere 42F
85 posts
9/15/2006 8:40 pm

Agree on what Sassybelle said, some of ppl just take a chance by using untraditional approach to give it a try. Might works or might not...

Also, not only females members in china, also in other countries (states, england, etc), and not only some females member, also some males members hold this thought to meet a life partner by using AdultFriendFinder.

Pls don't be too narrow-minded...It's a free world, anybody can play by their own rules, u don't take it, just leave it...

stig_in_shanghai 45M
7 posts
9/16/2006 12:28 am


I didnt say I thought it was wrong to look for a partner on this site! I totally aggree one can play by whatever rules what want. My comment was just that it puzzled me... I dont expect to see people searching for life partners on a website which focus seems to be sex. It is like, I dont go to a clothesshop to buy milk.


I didnt say in my blog that I thought the website didnt work for me. I said its easier to go out and find a sexpartner, but that doesnt mean I think the site doesnt work.

What I had hoped with my original post was to get some other people to comment on their experiences from the site.

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