Female Orgasms- A Tip For You Men.  

steamyandsexybi 45F
3170 posts
7/11/2006 9:07 pm

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Female Orgasms- A Tip For You Men.

Understanding the Female Climax~~~~~~~~~~~


When it comes to the female orgasm, most guys are confused. I mean, how many different types are there and do you actually have to manipulate a specific area of the vagina to get an orgasm out of a woman?

It was Sigmund Freud who first suggested that there were two types of female orgasm. However, sex researcher Alfred Kinsey refuted the claim and his view was that there is only one type of female orgasm.

Others claim that women can have three types of orgasm: clitoral, vaginal and blended. But considering the latter is literally the other two put together, I wouldn't necessarily classify it as a type.

WHAT HAPPENS?
When a woman orgasms, regardless which area of her body you're manipulating, her body reacts in the same way. During an orgasm, she feels:
stimulation in her clitoris
her heart rate and blood pressure rate increase, and breathing quickening
tension build up within her pelvis
muscle contractions throughout her body, especially in the vagina, uterus, rectum, and pelvic floor
tension release upon orgasm

BLUE CLITORIS
Believe it or not, it is possible for women to get what is generally known as "blue balls" in men. As you know by now, the clitoris is directly linked to the penis in men (for the first few months after conception, the genitalia of male and female fetuses seem to be identical -- males eventually develop a penis).

If a woman gets incredibly turned on, her clitoris, like the penis, becomes engorged with blood. If the blood isn't released via orgasm, she will experience discomfort, as men do.
So when you tease her, you build up awesome tension, and when she finally orgasms, it will be an explosion of release. Keep in mind, however, that roughly 26% of women have difficulty reaching orgasm. And usually, it's her own mental block that keeps her from reaching orgasm -- not you

However, clinical studies prove that Kinsey was right. Most sexologists now agree that an orgasm is an orgasm, no matter what area of a woman's genitalia, or body for that matter, is being stimulated.

However, here are the two areas of a woman's vagina that can lead to the most satisfying orgasms:


ClitorisThe clitoris' only function is to provide pleasure for women. Researchers have not been able to discover any other reason for its existence. And that's all good. As well, keep in mind that, because the clitoris is much easier to find, most women more easily achieve orgasm via clitoral stimulation.

VaginaInside the vagina, you can find the infamous G-spot, or Grafenberg spot. The G-spot is located on the front wall (toward the navel) of the vagina, between the opening and the cervix. Theory dictates that the G-spot can be either a bundle of nerves coming from the clitoris, or a gland (or series of glands) that produces lubrication.

Usually, after one orgasm, guys need to rest (unless you're one of those lucky guys who can achieve multiples), but it's believed that women can experience three tempos of orgasm, if you will:

Single orgasm
Serial multiple orgasm
Sequential multiple orgasm
Single
With the single orgasm, a woman experiences one rush of pleasure. The orgasm can last anywhere from a few seconds to a minute.

Serial multiple
Although most women claim that they cannot achieve this awesome ride, a multiple orgasm occurs when several orgasms are had in a row -- that is, one directly after another.

Sequential multiple
Sequential orgasms occur in a sequence that separates each orgasm by a few minutes or so. Many women describe it as a roller coaster ride.

HOW TO GIVE IT TO HER
Many women claim that reaching orgasm is more difficult via penetration than it is via stimulation of the clitoris. As well, when it comes to vaginal stimulation of any area, most women agree that fingers are the preferred tool.

Keep in mind that any type of sexual stimulation can lead a woman to orgasm. And although there are some women who can will themselves to orgasm without even being touched, it is rare.

Massage, foreplay, direct stimulation, and even talking can make a woman reach orgasm. Most women, however, find that direct stimulation of the clitoris is the easiest way for them to climax. So use your tongue, your fingers, or even rub your penis against it, and she might climax.

Until next time, keep it cumming.............


49AK 56M
1823 posts
7/11/2006 9:46 pm

I knew that... *wink*


steamyandsexybi 45F
2784 posts
7/11/2006 10:05 pm

    Quoting 49AK:
    I knew that... *wink*
49AK~ *wink* huh?! lol
Excuse my dirty little mind for a sec..........I'm sorry but did your sexual signifigant other,maybe shoot for your eye?! (I'm kidding!)
Since we're on the subject (yes, Orgasms) , for some reason,my ex used to always get my left eye! Without even aiming for it....(hehe) EVERY SINGLE TIME!
LMAO!


toothysmile 52M
16517 posts
7/12/2006 12:45 am

ummm... can we research this a little further?... you and me?... together?...
~wink~
my kisses to you.


steamyandsexybi 45F
2784 posts
7/12/2006 7:34 am

toothysmile~ YOU are MORE than Welcum to! (Ya keep writing them stories I read in your blog and I just might kidnap you and keep ya here!)


sundog1974 57M

7/12/2006 2:19 pm

yeah Steamy .... the few bless times , I stroked her clit with the head of my cock and she spoke out ... what are you doing ?

I told her ...... I'm playing ~


sundog1974 57M

7/12/2006 2:27 pm

oh , keep your parties local ....


steamyandsexybi 45F
2784 posts
7/12/2006 3:41 pm

    Quoting sundog1974:
    oh , keep your parties local ....
Nah.....I wouldnt be on this site if I werent a social kind of person. I'm not here to be "locked" in the closet-so to speak!

The more, the merrier....as long as nothing rude/harmful happens.
OK,dad??? lol


imtimendous 54M
1 post
7/12/2006 10:22 pm

If only I had a teacher like you when I was a teenager....Is it too late to sign up for class and extra-credit work after school?


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