Anal training  

stealthcat777 52M
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4/12/2005 11:35 am

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

Anal training


I am working to train my partner to love anal sex. It is slow, but it is going well. In the process, I have learned a few techniques that I would like to pass on to those in a similar situation.

In the beginning:

Start by simply rubbing the area between her pussy and her ass as you go down on her. As she gets higher and higher, gently move further down to where you are stroking/rubbing the area around her asshole. Do this for a few times. Not always, but sometimes and guage the intensity of her orgasms. See if it was good for her. Slowly increase the pressure of your touch. Do NOT tell her, yet, what you are doing.

After a while...

Again, do this while going down on her. I found this to be 'key'

Move you fingers down to her asshole during oral. If you use a slow ever closer approach method to her asshole, you will enjoy seeing her get hotter and hotter. She may even reward your probing with an arched back or replying to your finger pressure with her body pushing back. Do not enter yet. Do this for a while and guage her response.
Add some lubrication to enhance her pleasure.

Next...

You can slowly start inserting your finger while going down on her. If you are rubbing the lower part of the vagina and moving to the area inbetween, without incident, then you are halfway there. Gentle insertion will increase her pleasure, but not piss her off. When I started doing this, she did not say anything other than, "That was incredible" After several times, I told her I had played with her ass. She was amazed that it felt good.

stealthcat777 52M

4/13/2005 12:45 am

Step 3

You can slowly start inserting your finger while going down on her. If you are rubbing the lower part of the vagina and moving to the area inbetween, without incident, then you are halfway there. Gentle insertion will increase her pleasure, but not piss her off. When I started doing this, she did not say anything other than, "That was incredible" After several times, I told her I had played with her ass. She was amazed that it felt good. I slowely progressed deeper and deeper within. This phase has lasted for a year. We bought butt plugs, but she balked when inserted. Have not tried again since.

If ever I tried to insert my penis, she would tell me no. However, just recently, she is showing signs of comprimise here. Last night was awesome. After having my finger in her ass and fucking her, I playfully said, "You like that". She replied. Yes, I like it" Next stop, no stops....


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