Which Is Worse  

starlight_runner 40F
817 posts
7/17/2006 3:17 pm

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9/6/2006 9:49 am

Which Is Worse

With the drinks flowing we had many heated intelectual debates..............well 4 the first five mins anyway.pmsl

then we reverted to type talking about sex n such like!

1 game all my mates like to play is is which is worse/which would you rather do.Im sure u all know it............ for example which is worse? Having terrible diarreah and not be able to stop it for eternity? Or, having terrible constipation and not being able to go for eternity? etc

So I would like you to post on here your questions of which is worst.The next peeps to post answer the question with their reasons why they chose the option they did ,then post their own conundrum.Feel free to get others to visit so you can find out more about your fav blog buddies personal tastes.

So here the first question 4 u peeps

Which is worse

1.Mental Abuse
2.Physical abuse

and remember its just for fun.

kisses Star



Kaliedascope61 43M
4084 posts
7/17/2006 3:47 pm

sounds like zomandos!


switchmorgan 38M
1 post
7/18/2006 12:45 pm

mental abuse! wounds can heal on the outside, its harder to heal on the inside


Loosetooth 42M
1148 posts
7/18/2006 4:02 pm

The body and the mind are homogenous so that mental and physical abuse are actually the same thing. However that is I being a twatty smart-arse so put that aside.

I would rather face mental abuse. Physical abuses main effect, pain, can be rationalised by the mind. This can be proven by getting a friend to stick a needle in your arm when you are not looking and then watching them do it.

The effects of mental abuse are not so easily ridden.


starlight_runner 40F

7/18/2006 4:14 pm

switch u didnt leave ur question.


OldHippy1957 61M

7/21/2006 2:40 pm

Well... that is a good question. I've been unfortunate enough to have suffered both. I find that physical abuse goes hand in hand with mental abuse. How can you be physically abused and not have an effect on your mental state of mind? Altho physical abuse usually heals unless it is in the extreme... mental anguish and suffering lasts a life time!


HotDev1l 46M
1360 posts
7/21/2006 5:47 pm

I think it depends on the person. Some people are more resilient to mental abuse than physical abuse and vice versa.

I also think that physical abuse can result in mental abuse.

I'm not convinced it's easy to claim one as more painful than the other.

Just my 2p worth!


ShunsCurdsLoved 49M
2 posts
7/22/2006 7:22 am

Mental abuse far worse as the scars are hidden, I would think physical abuse has a shorter cycle for the victim as mental abuse can go on for a lot longer. Just my thoughts!


rm_shootr63 54M

7/30/2006 1:24 pm

For starters drinks and intellectual debate do not mix....that merely turns into opinion based on alcohol induced conjecture.

Mental abuse is something that permeates the neurology of the victim and may cause deep rooted scars that for some may never able to be healed. Physical abuse is the obvious but I am of a belief that physical abuse in and of itself is mental abuse..the 2 go hand in hand in that arena. Mental can be without the physical. One must remember that any form of abuse will lead to self abuse due to the trauma that is inflicted and the reluctance to stop said abuse. National statistics show that an over whelming majority of men and woman never report abuse of any nature out of fear or misgivings of self loathing etc. It truly is a sad agenda on many peoples plates.


rm_StormRS 42M
5636 posts
8/16/2006 1:11 pm

For the ladies (and selected men):
Which is worse, a dick that's way too small, or one that's way too big?

For the men (and selected ladies):
Which is worse, a woman who won't perform any oral sex, or one who wants to perform nothing but oral sex?

If you should die before me, ask if you can bring a friend........


the_ukdutypaid 36M

8/23/2006 8:20 am

I'll take the 'for the men' comparison please Storm.

Far worse in my humble opinion to be with a woman who will only peform oral sex. No variety=boredom no matter how good it is.

And mine...

What would be worse, being with someone who was:
Stupid and popular.
or
Intelligent and unpopular.


_Safira 55F
11260 posts
9/6/2006 5:58 am

KALIE has it right ... ZOBMONDO is a wickedly cool game, especially at the end when you get to make up your own question! It can be found in board and book form.

Mental abuse

Which would you rather have to endure every time you gave a speech ... spiders crawling over your entire body, under your clothes where no one can see or being naked?

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