Feasting Ahead  

spyderoak2 56F
404 posts
6/9/2006 4:08 pm

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11/28/2006 6:30 am

Feasting Ahead

In a couple weeks, June 24th I will be celebrating my 45th birthday. Doesnt seem possible when I think about it. Kind of hard to imagine myself at 45 when I feel younger in my mind. I know on that day, I will have to make that decision to come on to AdultFriendFinder and change my age on my profile. 45 seems so old to me. Where did the time go?
I view other womens profiles like I have done so many times on here, I feel somewhat picky. I look at those younger than myself or a year or so older, and wondered how did they get to look so much older than me? Not to be conceited but I feel I look much younger than the average 45 year old who post on AdultFriendFinder.
I pass them by as I view them, and look at much younger women in their 20's or early 30's. Smooth skin, tight bellys. Then I get depressed LOL. They dont want me!!! LOL I know I am not perfect, but I still look at myself each day in the mirror and ask myself, what can I improve on. I think all should feel that way sometimes. Take pride in your appearance and be the best you can be. I do realize that I can only do so much though!
45 and holding!!! Thats my motto for the next years a head. I hate growing older and seeing the changes my body is going through. I did decide that I am taking up belly dancing for exercise. I can at least have a little fun and try to keep in shape.

So as my dreaded birthday approaches, this coming week of June 11-17, I am childless in my home and I think I am going to splurge on some naughty indulgences to make me feel young. I may be picky at whom I choose to indulge with, but I will have fun hopefully none-the-less. Men, Women, Groups, I dont care. Its my week, my time alone, I am going to FEAST on pleasures some of you can give me!!!

rm_stockmarket3 57M
1 post
11/27/2006 10:08 am

would like to talk more. new here and you look great only standard member please contact me at the hot male place stockmarket73. thanks

spyderoak2 56F

7/21/2006 5:52 pm



spyderoak2 56F

7/20/2006 7:21 am

Yes Mixmaster... Sir Many things lately is just not happening LOL. Its been crazy anyway. I think waiting until the kids are back in school is the best thing to do. Too frustrating to deal with as much as I want to. You know, you can write me when ever you want.

Mixmaster31 44M

7/20/2006 12:07 am

hope you find the time for some fun soon spyder.............

TONEMAN121171 46M
1 post
7/10/2006 9:16 pm

Hey I know how you feel I turned 35 this year and nobody even batted an eyelash. I just got out of a 5 year relasionship and don't even know which way to turn. I'm so far out of the game I don't know which way is up(but that could be good). I don't mean to be to forward but I guess that is what this suite is all about. Talk to you later.

spyderoak2 56F

7/9/2006 12:39 pm

Thanks lee, yep I remember you.

Nothing transpired with the GB. Hubby blew it off I think. We only had one weekend in june to do it so it didnt work out. Maybe some other time.
Kids are out of school, so there has been no play time for me lately. My youngest is 6 and keeps me pretty busy. So hopefully things will open up in a month or so for fun...smile

rm_HOT_FFMedic 56M

7/8/2006 6:16 pm

Hey spyder!
Remember me?? Miss you something fierce. Been watching you from a distance and love the new pics you've posted on your net. I'd love to get together again some time really soon. I never heard back about your suprise GB? did it ever take place? Miss you lots and happy belated birthday sexy. You have the body of a 30 yr old and the mind of 20 yr old. I love the way you think. Lee

rm_alexerxes 41M

7/6/2006 5:55 am

happy belated b-day

Mixmaster31 44M

7/4/2006 7:05 pm

happy belated bday............I'm sorry I couldn't be there to indulge your desires during your week of fulfillment.........I'm hoping to make it up.............

gigglepigs2 47M

6/30/2006 9:49 am

where oh where oh where is spyder. please IM

longryder59 58M

6/29/2006 2:31 pm

Hi Spyder - I'm sorry I missed your birthday but believe me you have nothing to be depressed about. I see alot of the women on AdultFriendFinder and you have the beauty of women half your age and the wisdom and maturity that can only be achieved through a lifetime experiences. It is one of the things I love about you, your grace, wit, self confindence and of course your sexy demeaner is what makes you the most desireable women on AdultFriendFinder. Happy birthday baby! Live, love and laugh. My only regret is I didnt get the opportunity to treat you to the kind of birthday you deserve to enjoy.
Hugs, Kisses, and kinky wishes. - Bill bill5977 at yahoo dot com

luvs_2_lickU69 33M
1 post
6/27/2006 10:17 pm

maby you just need a younger guy. im 22 and would love to help you celebrate. its your day and i would love to help you ring in your new year with a bang. if your interested contact me on AdultFriendFinder i think you look so sexy i could just eat you all night. maby thats something you would like, who knows,
let me know. no strings attached and have a happy birthday.

rm_bigbird4406 53M
14 posts
6/22/2006 5:35 pm

Spyder - You're like a fine wine. Better with age. Enjoy every moment of your life. Smile, dance, and laugh often. I'm 41 and looking forward to the next 10 years to start my life over. I only hope I meet a woman that has it together like you do. A very Happy Birthday! Call me and I'll treat you to a Birthday pedicure! Indulge yourself. No strings attached! John.

rm_bigsiddd 32M
1 post
6/22/2006 12:24 am

I have to see this for myself, by the look of your profile pic I would say that you are nowhere close to 45.

If you want to feel young and are not adversed to major age differences, I would love to meet your every single desire in almost any which way you please.

I am 20 years old and have always dreamt of hooking up with an older woman. Now that I have found one as hot as you I am asking for you to make my fantasy come true. We can help each other out, but I really want to make this birthday one to remember for you.

You can punish me all you want if I don't deliver.

Can you take a chance?

BalkyWalesCombe 50M
1 post
6/19/2006 3:21 pm

hope you have a great b-day - you look spectacular so don't worry about your age. to bad we don't know each other or i would give you something that you would never forget for your present

wmlkn4funx2 51M
53 posts
6/17/2006 10:03 pm

Happy Birthday Spyder !
Hope you found a way to make it memorable
Love your latest pic and always look forward to your next blog !

Medusa231968 49F
301 posts
6/17/2006 1:04 pm

happy birthday dear...and I must say that in my defense, I love older woman as well as younger ones...I have always fantasized about licking my way up you boots, and delivering those 45 birthday licks anywhere you please


rm_pinklover79 38M

6/17/2006 7:30 am

hey spyder, i think that u look really hot for being 44! if u didn't tell me your age i would have guessed 25-30! seriously u don't look 44 like u said and i would be all over u if a seen u at a bar or a club. definately sexy

scorpioZ99 68M
2 posts
6/15/2006 4:09 pm

Don't worry about a thing, Sugar. It's only a number! You're as young as you feel, so feel it while you can! In fact, try out an even higher number, (me), and I think you'll be pleasantly surprised.
Indulge yourself, you're beautiful and you deserve it! i'd love to join you.


gigglepigs2 47M

6/15/2006 4:01 am

happy birthday spyder
my b-day is the 26th. It was great to finally talk to you the other day. I would be honored to help you celebrate.

RealmVentsBorax 53M
8 posts
6/13/2006 9:29 am

Happy B Day Spyder!
You have to be kidding!! 45 old...just starting out to enjoy life..If you said nothing about your age I would have never thought that body was anything close to that. there is no other way to say it.. Hot as the twenties with experience to top it off!!
Enjoy your week!!
Wish I could enjoy it with ya...

rm_icyheart 32M
13 posts
6/13/2006 5:56 am

Happy birthday! I just had my birthday last month too. It's good to have a whole week for yourself. I hope you have a lot of fun this week.

lust1961 44M/52F

6/12/2006 1:51 pm

Here for for you'r feasting needs

lust1961 44M/52F

6/12/2006 1:49 pm

Hear for your feasting need's.

TeachMeinRomulus 54M
1 post
6/12/2006 12:03 pm

That certainly is NOT an ass of a 45 year old - very nice! Don't worry about the age - I bet you're more fun than two 20 year olds! - Scott

crazyclimber68 49M
35 posts
6/12/2006 8:31 am

Happy B-Day to you!! That sounds like one heck of a week. I am in the area and would be delighted to be one of your Birthday Presents!!!

herringje 41M

6/11/2006 4:39 pm

you are still one sexy ladie and i love to give the best b-day presents i hop you pic me

ticklemypickle71 46M

6/10/2006 10:32 pm

Hi Spyderoak...Well, in my opinion, you are one of the hottest women on AdultFriendFinder regardless of your age. You have an amazing body. If your age was not posted here, I would have thought you were in your 20s.

I would love to be your birthday present...

hardandhorny37 64M
1 post
6/10/2006 12:02 pm

hi 45 hell your still young!!!!!!!!!!!!!Besides remeber we are like wine we get better with as we age. I'll ouv to give you a birhtday spanking or something else.send me a email here or at AdultFriendFinder and we meet for a birthday drink and dinner and then DESERT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

SexAddicttnunn 33M

6/10/2006 12:52 am

45 is the new twenty. You look how you feel so if u feel good then u look good.I would be happy to help u fulfill some of your fantasies aswell, i would make it a birthday week one to remember. Contact me

jim52023 35M

6/9/2006 7:57 pm

I would love to help you with some of your naughty indulgances. Let me know if u r interested. I am on this Sn on yahoo often or you can catch me on here.

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