What part was unclear?  

splashofcold 46F
61 posts
2/10/2006 7:15 am

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

What part was unclear?

I thought I was quite clear on my ad. Perhaps I am wrong, or something is getting lost in translation. I don't think it's the latter. Pictures to prove is simple enough. Or so I would have thought. I don't think I am wrong either. Well, not about this anyway. Of course, as usual, I underestimate men and their capacity to hear what they want to hear. I don't care where the pictures are (ad, album, or sent with an email) but if a guy can't prove what he is saying, it's a total waste of time. One thing I never underestimate is a man's capacity for exaggeration.

If for instance, you take his word, and meet, there is no graceful way to bow out when he whips out the goods and it is about half the size he said it was. What do you do? Ask to be excused to use the restroom and slip out the side door? Rude! What do you say? "I see you have one of those objects are larger than they appear mirrors at home?" Somehow I don't think a man is going to find that as amusing as I do. Not only that, but I don't have a poker face. Never have, never will. So, I must continue to wade through wave after wave of email with the delete button.

sexysiren1957 61F
20 posts
2/10/2006 9:35 am

Many, many men seem to think that even if they are not what you are looking for, when you meet them you will be so attracted to them that you will forget all about what you were looking for in the first place. When I tell a man that I don't think the chemistry is there (after seeing his picture), many will write back and say "But I feel chemistry with YOU, so lets meet!" WHAT?? Or they will say, "But if you would just have coffee with me, I think you will change your mind." WHAT?? Are they going to put a drug into my coffee that will change the way I see them? What part of "I don't think the chemistry is there do they not understand?"

JackofJacks 53M

2/10/2006 10:08 am

Your right sweetie, you don't have a poker face, your a sweetheart. But your a strong woman, and you have made it very clear what you want. If a guy can't prove it, go with a forsure thing... Like me... LMAO... actually, telling him he doesn't measure up is ok, You have been very open and honest, they haven't. Just say sorry, no thanks.

I know your on here for a certain reason, you have a need and want it fixed.... looking for the right kind of fun, I know we found it, and hoping to do it again. When that time comes.

In the meantime, don't settle, just get what you want, nothing less. And don't feel bad wanting it, I'm sorry if a guy doesn't measure up, it's his loss, but I don't feel sorry for a guy that tries to deceive you and you give him the boot. He put himself there.

This is your ride, they have to have the right ticket.

alwysrdy61 55M

2/10/2006 11:35 am

you are so very obvious at what you`re looking for,hope you find something that puts you in haaaaaaaaa...Kraig

primeladyseeker 49M

2/10/2006 12:18 pm

well the only way NOT to get disappointed next time is getting some measure of the goods PRIOR to meeting. Its like a woman says I am 36D and you show up and its a 34B, well if a man says my tool is 7 inch ask them according to who, show me a picture, web cam me or some other proof mechanism
Simple as that

JackofJacks 53M

2/10/2006 12:41 pm

Hmmmm, I think something Sexysiren said hit a nerve. Just thought I would share this thought. I suppose alot of guys feel, they are bigger, better, whatever? than what they really are. Maybe women as well? But I will say, you can't judge a book by it's cover. Pictures on here lie, well, some do, some don't... but how do you really know? which is which?

I really don't think I am all that big, It's funny, I do get turned down because I'm too thick, but It still doesn't make me think I'm all that much bigger than most. But I also think my pic isn't all that great, usually am told I am alot better in person. I am though, told often, That I am not there type.... and yes, like sexysiren put it, I wonder if in person, they may think different? Not because of anything other than I don't think I put a very good impression of who I am on here. I actually have met women from online on other services that were disappointments... (thier pics were so much better than in real life) and I have also found others that were so much better in person.

So, I do think you have to take a chance sometime. Actually, Splash... remember... you found out what I was packing in person, no pic! But I look at it like I was lucky, and very fortunate to have had that oppurtunity... that you took that chance.

But, I was being honest, I did have what you were looking for.

anyway... just something to think about

LosAngMan 49M  
8 posts
2/11/2006 2:14 pm

Well I think I have what you are you looking for, I have proof as well. I e-mailed you pictures and there are more pics on my profile. I hope I hear from you soon.

LosAngMan 49M  
8 posts
2/11/2006 2:16 pm

Well I think I have what you are you looking for, I have proof as well. I e-mailed you pictures and there are more pics on my profile. I hope I hear from you soon. Specially when I only live a few miles away from you.

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