WHAT DO MEN REALLY WANT?  

somethingelse40 76M
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4/19/2006 1:40 am

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WHAT DO MEN REALLY WANT?

the WANTING of the WANTON …

WHAT DO MEN REALLY WANT?

So far I’ve been thinking about this one for some time now, since being somewhat rudely and rather forcefully interrupted by the obviously more pressing aggravation of tax returns. Yet even now, beyond the generally presumed obvious, I’m just not sure that I have the slightest idea, in fact I still have no idea, yet indeed I hope its something just as good as that was, but generally suspect that men are perhaps the second single greatest class of WANTERS on the planet, surpassed only in overall WANTING complexity no doubt perhaps only by that of women, huh? Whatever happened to “I shall not WANT?” And of course, I’ll likely WANT to do the logical sequel: WHAT DO WOMEN REALLY WANT? Have you any ideas on that WANT??? If so, please advise??? I’m certainly not yet convinced that I could ever come across with any convincing degree of convincing in particular on that WANT, except perhaps somewhat as noted and WANTED here: A person who is [WANTING and WANTON and indeed] looking for something [or some] usually doesn’t travel very fast. ‒ E.B. White & , whoever that is, huh?

Shall we give it some serious thought, and/or some trivial thought, and/or at least some in-depth feelings? Find the time for your WANTS and enjoy the results, huh?

in search of answers …

a precursory and somewhat moderately interpolated brush with the Touchstones …
(check out that BIBLIOGRAPHY , dude) Try the link in the comments, dude: this one is obviously about as bogus as a $3 bill.

“What do men really want? What are we seeking? Many of us have felt driven and still feel restless or compulsive at times. We frantically followed our impulses to self-destructive extremes. Even those painful actions of our past were motivated, at the bottom line, by a spiritual search [for chaos eating moxie, no doubt]. What did we really seek in the bottle, or in the passionate bed [is there any doubt?], or in our work? Slowing down enough every day to let ourselves know what we are looking for [self-contact] gives us a much better chance of finding it [finding what?].

“Today we can slow down by taking [a few] minutes for solitude and quite [intense contemplation] for meditation or prayer [no doubt]. We can call a friend for a moment of contact [here we go again.]. We might read something [or watch dirty movies] to give us something to ponder, or we can listen to music [or perhaps listen to the nagging WANTS of others] which will transport us to another world. Perhaps we can simply walk more slowly from our cars or the bus stop to our homes [perhaps checking out the scenery or perhaps the diversions]. Often it is not the events in our lives that bring change but the space between events [you can say that again].

“Today [somehow the only day that ever materializes and really matters], I will try to remember that slowing down may help me find what I am seeking [and WANTING].

Alas, I have abandoned my search for truth, and am now looking for a good fantasy. ‒ Ashleigh Brilliant, who else?

I feel much better, now that I’ve had an orgasm.

Alas, I may not be totally perfect, but parts of me are excellent. ‒ Who Else?

WHAT DO WOMEN REALLY WANT?

There must be more to life than this,
or what did I come for?
>>!



somethingelse40 76M
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4/19/2006 2:00 am

BIBLIOGRAPHY


somethingelse40 76M
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4/19/2006 6:27 am

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spoldrtn812 52F  
1058 posts
4/19/2006 8:37 am

MEN WANT TO BE FUCKED AND FED AND LEFT THE FUCK ALONE!!!!
MEN WANT WHAT THEY WANT....WHEN THEY WANT IT....USUALLY NOW
MEN WANT SOMEONE TO SUPPORT THEM
HELL...THEY GENERALLY WANT THE SAME THINGS WOMEN WANT...THE PROBLEM IS EVERYBODY'S TRYING TO GET EVERYTHING......NOBODY'S GIVING ANYTHING UP!!!


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somethingelse40 replies on 4/19/2006 11:24 am:
Indeed, spoldrtn812, you seem extremely sexy, intelligent, and relationship savvy. In fact I might want to marry you, once we’ve settled our differences: are you currently supporting anyone? Seems like you hit just about everything essentially with but one fell swoop, huh? You got one thing right: men do like sex, but, generally their way, huh? Could it be that many of us have been spoiled rotten? I could probably give up a few things if you’d promise to give up everything else. But then if we agreed on every thing, perhaps we’d both be wrong some of the time? If I can’t have access to your heart, at least let me have access to your refrigerator?

Indeed, spoldrtn812, that seems like quite a profound slice of truth you've hit on there; no doubt, it seems to get at some of my sentiments and experiences, perhaps including my pre-midlife-crisis, my general-midlife-crisis, and indeed my current and by far most enjoyable post-midlife-crisis, all three eventually culminating in an eventual relationship departure for various yet somewhat typical boy/girl type differences. Relationships perhaps are just what the word suggests: codependent survivor ships that wonder as they wander: nothing better or more delicious at times, yet nothing quite more exasperating, eventful, and painful. Thanks for the comment, my liege: as you can see, knockout comments like yours are quite rare in these parts.

spoldrtn812 52F  
1058 posts
4/19/2006 8:39 am

THERE SEEM TO BE SEVERAL POSTS POSTED WITHIN THIS POST WAS THAT INTENTIONAL? YOU WRITE SOME GREAT STUFF CAN'T WAIT TO DO SOME BACKPOST READING HERE. GLAD TO MEET YOU! YOUR WELCOME TO MY WORLD ANYTIME!!

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spoldrtn812 52F  
1058 posts
4/19/2006 8:40 am

THERE SEEM TO BE SEVERAL POSTS POSTED WITHIN THIS POST WAS THAT INTENTIONAL? YOU WRITE SOME GREAT STUFF CAN'T WAIT TO DO SOME BACKPOST READING HERE. GLAD TO MEET YOU! YOUR WELCOME TO MY WORLD ANYTIME!!

Please, Sign my Guestbook Screw me


somethingelse40 replies on 4/19/2006 11:27 am:
Indeed, spoldrtn812, I've already pretty much decided: your world is my kinda world. Is it okay is I just sort of have my way with you occasionally?

LovingLady4sum1 91M/60F

4/19/2006 9:01 am

Marriage is complex.
My wife is NOT affectionate but she is sexy. She does not want pats or kisses on the neck during the day. She equates affectionate behavior with sex which she limits to afternoons. Sex in the morning or at bedtime is out. When she is hot, she is hot but is never the aggressor. She preferr tongue to orgasm then intercourse. I enjoy both and she gives great head almost endlessly. I'd like variety but that comes only with 3 ways when she seems to let go of her inhibitions. She is very bright and generally considerate and I spoil her rotten. I'd like more but am satisfied with what I have.


somethingelse40 replies on 4/19/2006 11:39 am:
Thanks for the no doubt rather candid sentiments, Sir. My hats off to marriage even though I’ve been through a couple of failures in the past and several failed “long-term” relationships, some considerably longer than others of course. From my experience established likes and preferences and traditions usually don’t change very much, if at all through the years.

Indeed, Sir, that seems like quite a profound slice of truth you're hitting on there; no doubt, it seems to get at some of my sentiments and experiences, perhaps touching on my pre-midlife-crisis, my general-midlife-crisis, and indeed my current and by far most enjoyable post-midlife-crisis, all three eventually culminating in an eventual relationship departure for various yet somewhat typical boy/girl type “incompatible” differences. Relationships perhaps are just what the word suggests: codependent survivor ships that wonder as they wander: nothing better or more delicious at times, yet nothing quite more exasperating, eventful, and painful. Thanks for the comment, Sir: as you can see, knockout comments like yours are quite rare in these parts.

spoldrtn812 52F  
1058 posts
4/19/2006 12:55 pm

    Quoting spoldrtn812:
    THERE SEEM TO BE SEVERAL POSTS POSTED WITHIN THIS POST WAS THAT INTENTIONAL? YOU WRITE SOME GREAT STUFF CAN'T WAIT TO DO SOME BACKPOST READING HERE. GLAD TO MEET YOU! YOUR WELCOME TO MY WORLD ANYTIME!!
awwww only occasionally? I'm a horndog alittle more and you gotta deal!!

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somethingelse40 76M
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4/19/2006 4:42 pm

Well, spoldrtn812, I suspect you could have your way with just about any guy. You drive a hard bargain: literally and figuratively. For me any spoldrtn who comments like you and gets down like you can get down on my blog anytime, if you just let me have my way once in a while, of course. Take care now: and do come back anytime you feel like it? Indeed I do like your outfit!


ArgosPlumyKooky 46F
3902 posts
4/19/2006 6:57 pm

[font face="courier new"] sexy fit is right. . .plus women know what they wants when it shows up. until then no telling[/font[


ArgosPlumyKooky 46F
3902 posts
4/19/2006 6:58 pm

font face="courier new"] sexy fit is right. . .plus women know what they want when it shows up. until then no telling[/font]


ArgosPlumyKooky 46F
3902 posts
4/19/2006 6:59 pm

sexy fit is right. . .plus women know what they want when it shows up. until then no telling


somethingelse40 replies on 4/19/2006 7:39 pm:
Thanks for showing up yourself, snatchmatch: please come back if you will and say a few words in WHAT DO WOMEN REALLY WANT. I'll come over and get even with you. LOL

somethingelse40 76M
14676 posts
4/20/2006 2:03 am

ARE YOU SURE?

ARE YOU KIDDING?

ARE YOU AVAILABLE? ?*


Allsleeky 37F

4/20/2006 8:50 pm

I believe men want to be loved, to be wanted, They want to have what they want...the list goes on!


somethingelse40 replies on 4/21/2006 3:54 am:
Well gosh, my liege, that seems entirely profound, if not entirely true. Yet perhaps the ultimate fulfillment is merely in the wanting of the wanton?

Whispersoftly5 53F
15176 posts
4/21/2006 9:33 pm

I hope men want me!!! LMAO!

Whisper...


somethingelse40 replies on 4/21/2006 11:24 pm:
Actualy I think men do want you, Whisper; that's a given, but only when you let us have some.

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