So many choices...........So many interesting Women!  

somefun4us2006 57M
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3/31/2006 4:10 pm

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4/3/2006 5:07 pm

So many choices...........So many interesting Women!


With so many choices so readily accessible a man's got to have a plan. We could go with the leave no stone unturned method. That type of method will surely get us what we need physically by sheer numbers. Or do we be picky and look for the traits that mean the most to us and just filter for those. Isn't that what we do in seeking out a spouse over a simple date? A date in the real world is easy enough to find. But finding a keeper is not so easy. Finding the next person to trust with the rest of your life is daunting.

Lets see, most of these traits are on the exterior and experience (with lots of years of marriage behind me) has shown me that what I'm looking for is about the inside not just the outside. The most likely path to finding out who they really are is going to be found online in their writing. Regardless of the amount of education writing releases the flow of the soul if we listen. Some listen better than others and at a deeper level. Some expose their intent for carelessly seeking a "profit" by teasing and those shallow posts are easily caught.

I was caught off guard by my attraction to a post from a lady that moved local from Kentucky. The words were rough, sometime poorly spelled with no intent for grammar. Yet what came through that post was the color of her individual soul. Down to earth and so seizing of her hearts desire and needs. I was drawn. I don't think I write as naturally as she probably did just knocking off this short piece in her profile. To me this was pretty cool and extremely attractive. I'm such a sucker for a beautiful heart and mind.

These are the one's who that aren't posting just for sex (Which is part of what were all here for!) but have thought long and hard about what is specials to them. This is a real need in their mind and spirit and not just their carnality reflecting for me a path to knowing and understanding them. Some of the more superficial post may not choose to or unintentionally overlook that t&a will only go so far. So I watch, I contact & pose questions and really listen to the responses. I have to admit that in the past sex was a bigger focus than it should have been. It was great, no regrets. But this time I'm more mature and looking harder for a mutual happiness and food for the soul.

Give me your thoughts

and Thank you for your time………….

tdm


somefun4us2006 57M
7 posts
4/3/2006 5:07 pm

Thank You, I appreciate that you take the time to read and respond. It is quite a search isn't it.

Best of Luck to you in your search !

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